Reflexion Sundaze: Signs Your Friends Are Toxic
Have you ever wondered if your friends are really for you? Other than your family, they are people you surround yourself with the most. The fact it even crossed your mind is a good enough reason to really think about it and find out. Is it possible that your friends or the people you spend time with the most are toxic? No one needs a toxic person in their life, not even the toxic person. One of the major problems in dealing with toxic people is being aware that they are toxic.
Here are 5 Signs To Be Aware of Toxic Friends:
5. They Blackmail You Emotionally
Have you ever told and of your friends no and they completely ignored you until you changed your mind about it? They could have asked for money, a favor, or even to go out to a social event. Whatever it was, they did not like your answer, so they ignored your whole existence.How did that make you feel? This is what you call Emotional Blackmail. This is toxic because it plays on your emotions. It makes you feel bad for saying no in some cases and it makes you feel like you are not being a good friend and being there for them.
4. They Always Bring Up Your Flaws & Insecurities
As your friends, they are aware of all of your insecurities and flaws as you are aware with theirs. However, to constantly bring them up to remind you of what they see in you only pushes you further away. If your friends are going to be overly critical and judgmental of you, you do not need them; they are toxic. What is the point of having a friendship, when you are not able to be yourself because they are constantly pointing out all of the wrongs you are doing?
3. They Switch Their Moods Randomly:
If you are constantly finding yourself nervous to communicate with them because you have to watch your words or actions, this is definitely a toxic person. These people change their moods for their convenience to get you to cater to their emotions. One minute they are happy and the next minute they are angry at you for a reason that you may not even know. The worst part about it is the fact that sometimes they will not even tell you. This is a manipulative trait that toxic people prey on the emotions of others with. Do not stay in this relationship!
2. They Dishonor Your Trust and Confidentiality
Conversations with friends in confidentiality, should be kept in confidentiality. It does not matter who the other people are and nothing can be justified for sharing your business that was to be kept between you and them. Once your trust has been dishonored, there is no need for a relationship with them. These toxic people really do not care about you if they do not care about your trust.
1. They Do Not Support You:
Your friends are always supposed to be happy for you and support you no matter what it is that you are doing. As long as you are proud of the results, so are they! Toxic friends, however will not be proud of you or with you. They blow it off as if it is not as serious or important. They never express enthusiasm or excitement about your accomplishments. They always doubt you and see the negative side of things. These are the friends that you must remove from your life if you want to succeed. You should be able to express yourself with the people you surround yourself with the most! Congratulating yourself and sharing your success with your friends and loved ones is not boasting.
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