Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - youāll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You canāt change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesnāt just wear off. If you hate how he acts when heās out of it now, youāre going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesnāt change that some people just donāt fit.
inkskinned, āMy fatherās recipe for the man I should marryāĀ (via itcuddles)
















