INFPs Iâve Met (by an INFJ)
What I noticed and observed about them: (3 Males & 2 Females)
They are the introverts with a lot of friends.Â
Each of them have some sort of hidden talent that I donât even know why they keep hidden in the first place. They are just so humble. (Itâs annoyingâ I LOVE THEM). Their hidden talent most likely has something to do with the arts.Â
They are writers. The ones I know write blog posts, poetry, witty Facebook statuses, music, and lyrics. Self-expression is definitely a necessity for them.
Two of the INFP males I know have this innocent aura that will make you want to be super nice to them and even take care of them and not bully them even if they look so easy to bully. Theyâre that pure.
The other INFP male I know looked very tense and jittery before I first talked to him. But once I got him to start talking, he easily opened up. You just gotta reach out first.
Once you reach out to them, they will open up and youâll discover that they are such cool people with strong opinions and beliefs. (pretty much closet ENFPs)
The two INFP females on the other hand were the ones who seemed loud at firstâprobably âcause they were with their friendsâbut ended up being really deep and humble people (I love it).
They are nice and civil to everyone. They donât show it when they dislike someone (however, their close friends will know). Theyâre just that easygoing, which is why they have a lot of friends. (who are actually just mostly acquaintances to themâbut they wonât tell them)
They have such good humor. Especially their sarcasm. AND THE TIMING OF THEIR JOKES IS PERFECT.
When theyâre with their friends, you wouldnât even think theyâre introverts. They are so loud and lively with them (mostly the girl INFPs Iâve met are like thisâthe INFP males on the other hand are more obviously introverted).Â
Everyone likes them. Iâm serious, whatâs not to like? They are such good-hearted and open-minded people (even if they have strong beliefs). Before you know it, youâre completely yourself when youâre around them. They just make you feel homey.
When theyâre in a bad mood, they distance themselves. They just donât want to be a burden, even to their friends. No matter how many times you insist to be there for them, they will shake their heads and handle their problems by themselves. After all, the fight is in their head.
When they present alone in front (in class), they can be the most awkward people ever. But they do have a lot of meaningful things to say. They just arenât used to taking the stage.
Most of the ones I know suffer with anxiety. This is most likely due to the fact that they feel so deeply and tend to keep it insideâafter all, Fi is their most dominant function.Â
They are the nicest people ever (even if itâs not all that obvious), but if you hurt them on purposeâthey will remember you for it. But they will forgive (on the outside).
They are the life of the party even if they arenât loud. I donât know, like when they arenât present in their group of friendsâthere is obviously something missing.Â
They are good with one-on-one conversations. Itâs amazing how even though they arenât good with big crowds, they have this ability to talk to a stranger for a second and make them feel comfortable (if they want to, that is).Â
They are not boringâ at all. Itâs an Ne thingâtheir second dominant functionâthat makes them so talkative and animated. If they arenât talking about something, theyâre either making weird sounds to make others laugh or saying funny movie lines aloud (similar to INTPs).Â
They are smart. They have their own way of understanding things and they are not cluelessâI swear, they know a little about everything. Just give them a topic, and they will have an opinion about it.
They have trouble saying no. I swear, the last thing they want to do is hurt someone. (Unless itâs for justice) Â
Music is extremely important to them. The INFPs I know either dance, play guitar, sing, or wellâjust need their earphones with them everyday to block out the world when they feel like it.Â
The vibes they give off, equal to their current mood. They are infectious.
Well, what do you guys think? :) Â Agree or disagree?