Yours Truly, Maudie

The feelings of a broken soul.

[yourstrulymaudia]

People go away, memories fade, worlds stop colliding — but history is untouchable. And if you truly loved those people who were involved in your history, they don’t really leave you. Their imprint lasts.

— Rakean Radya Al Barra

[yourstrulymaudia]

I search for your presence in every corner, but your physical form has vanished forever. In my dreams, though, you appear like a fragile mirage, and for a fleeting moment, I can escape the crushing weight of my sorrow and pretend you’re not gone. It’s in this dream world that I find solace, the only place where I can grasp the faint echoes of your touch and bask in the remnants of your wisdom. So, in my dreams, I’ll continue to seek you, over and over, for it’s the only place where you still exist.

[yourstrulymaudia]

In silence, grief, a hidden tear,

No words to soothe, no voice to hear,

The passing of a soul we hold so dear,

Leaves a void that fills with fear.

I seek you in each shadowed space,

Yet your physical form, I cannot trace,

Only in dreams, I find your grace,

A fleeting refuge, in that sacred place.

In dreams, I see your face anew,

Escape the pain that life construes,

Your touch, your wisdom, old and true,

In this dream world, I find you.

So, in my dreams, I'll always roam,

To call you back, to bring you home,

In this ethereal realm we'll roam,

Where love endures, and you're not gone.

[yourstrulymaudia]

All and all, Jay is the loser out of all of this. You came out the winner.

❤️ you got that right.

[yourstrulymaudia]

What do you think about long distance relationships meeting the person over the internet?

Long-distance relationships that originate from online connections can hold immense potential for meaningful and lasting partnerships. In the digital age, the internet has become a bridge connecting souls across vast distances, enabling profound emotional bonds to flourish.

However, it's vital to approach these relationships with a blend of optimism and realism. The foundation of any successful long-distance relationship lies in open and honest communication, unwavering trust, and shared goals for the future. The commitment to visit and spend time together in person is often a pivotal step in solidifying the connection.

In such relationships, the miles that separate individuals can be challenging, but they can also serve as a test of love and dedication. The effort put into maintaining the connection, the late-night conversations, and the shared dreams can make the eventual reunion all the more rewarding.

Ultimately, the potential for a deep and lasting connection exists in both traditional and long-distance relationships, and what truly matters is the authenticity of the feelings and the commitment of the individuals involved.

[yourstrulymaudia]

Favorite artist?

Stephen Sanchez

[yourstrulymaudia]

Do you prefer orange or apple juice?

Apple juice over orange juice any day!

[yourstrulymaudia]

What's your favorite color?

White

[yourstrulymaudia]

Is there ever a possibility of getting out the "friendzone"? I've been good friends with this one person for two years now, and I hate how she uses me to talk about her problems in life without viewing me as a serious candidate. Should I just move on and end the friendship?

Navigating the "friendzone" can be challenging, and it's natural to want more from a close friendship. It's important to communicate your feelings honestly with your friend. Express your desire for a deeper connection and see how she responds. If she values the friendship as much as you do, she might be open to exploring a romantic relationship. However, if she doesn't share those feelings, it's okay to prioritize your own emotional well-being. Ending the friendship might be a tough decision, but sometimes it's necessary for your own growth and happiness. Ultimately, the choice is yours, and it should align with what feels right for you.

[yourstrulymaudia]

How many more times will you "hate him" and "forever yours" before you realize he's just using you? You deserve better.

Your words carry a lot of wisdom, and I understand your concern. It's not always easy to recognize when someone might be taking advantage of our feelings. I appreciate your reminder that I deserve better. It's a reminder to reflect on my relationship and make sure it's a healthy and loving one. Your support means a lot to me, and I'll take your advice to heart as I consider my next steps.

[yourstrulymaudia]

Is it ever okay for a woman to ask a guy out, or should we maintain gender roles for relationships?

Absolutely, it's completely okay for a woman to ask a guy out! In today's world, traditional gender roles in relationships are evolving, and there's no strict rule that dictates who should initiate a date. What truly matters is the connection between two people and their comfort level with taking the initiative.

Relationships are built on mutual interest and communication, and it's empowering for anyone, regardless of gender, to express their feelings and interest in someone. After all, as the saying goes, "Love knows no boundaries."

In fact, many men appreciate it when women take the initiative because it shows confidence and a genuine desire to get to know them. So, don't hesitate to make the first move if you're interested in someone; it can lead to wonderful connections and meaningful relationships. Remember, love and connection don't adhere to rigid gender roles but flourish in an atmosphere of authenticity and openness.

[yourstrulymaudia]

What is your favorite workout?

Running 🏃‍♀️

[yourstrulymaudia]

Does family acceptance matter in a relationship? My mom is very upset with my partner and refuses to awknowledge her during family events. It's very important for my mother to accept my gf because we might be family one day. It's been going on for 2 years now, and I'm beginning to accept that my mother and I will never see eye to eye about this mess.

Family acceptance can be the cornerstone of a strong relationship, for as the saying goes, ‘family is not an important thing, it’s everything.’ Your partner’s integration into your family can deeply affect your overall happiness and the dynamics within your family unit.

It’s undeniably challenging when there’s a disconnect between your partner and your mother, and as the old adage reminds us, ‘blood is thicker than water.’ It’s only natural to desire harmony and acceptance within your family circle, especially when considering a future together with your partner. This journey has been ongoing for two years now, and it’s a situation that might make you feel like you’re ‘between a rock and a hard place.’

However, amidst the turbulence, it’s crucial to remember that, ultimately, the choice of your life partner is a deeply personal one, encapsulated by the phrase ‘to thine own self be true.’ While your mother’s acceptance is valuable, it’s equally important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being in the relationship, as the saying ‘you can’t pour from an empty cup’ suggests.

Perhaps, in the spirit of ‘coming together is a beginning,’ you could initiate an open and honest conversation with both your partner and your mother, seeking common ground and mutual understanding. It’s possible that through dialogue, you might discover ‘a light at the end of the tunnel,’ where compromises or concessions can be made.

Ultimately, your path in this situation must align with what ‘feels right’ for you and your relationship, as ‘happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.’ You are the author of your own story, and finding the balance between family acceptance and personal fulfillment is a journey worth undertaking.

[yourstrulymaudia]

Sometimes people are meant to be yours and sometimes they’re meant to be stories.

[yourstrulymaudia]

[yourstrulymaudia]

You keep forgiving someone until you unlove them.

[yourstrulymaudia]

They say 'follow your heart' but if your heart is  in a million pieces which pieces do you follow?