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I just wanna be a better woman, upgrade my vocabulary, my lifestyle, how I handle people & situations. Just have complete self control ion want no negativity around me.

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3 months

It takes 3 months to make a drastic change to your appearance. By September you can be at your goal weight. By October you can dress in that Halloween costume you were waiting to wear until you lost the weight. By November you can wear big sweaters and cute socks and look ADORABLE. By December you can actually enjoy the holidays and not be concerned about that extra fat you used to carry around. By January, you can cross out “lose weight” from your New Year’s resolution because you were disciplined enough to get to your goal weight a long time ago. Just imagine where you could be if you just stick to your plans for the next 3 months.

it's such a struggle to exist these days. i feel so alone.

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“Words never mean what we want them to mean.”

— Jonathan Safran Foer

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I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feels what you feel.

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I know this s true but I am exhausted of having to do this. It’s like everyone tries to cross my boundaries, even when I have talked about it before. And I have to fight EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. not to be crushed by people trying to diminish my well-being. Sometimes I just give up and I have been talking about this in therapy. I’m so tired of doing this.