To preface this, I’m a firm believer in it doesn’t matter what you give as an offering, as long as it has thought and meaning behind it, the gods will appreciate it (with some exceptions). Most things you offer, chances are, Aphrodite will like it. But if you are stumped on ideas, or want to offer her something that traditionally aligns with her, I’ve compiled a brief list of possible ideas. You can alter these things in any way you see fit.
These are the things I will usually offer her. I’m bad at being consistent and I’m financially limited, so I can’t exactly afford to be extravagant. That’s okay. Thought and meaning is what matters, so I have a few list of things that I have found are easy for me to offer her while being confident it will satisfy her. My favorite offering to give her are apple slices drizzled with honey. Sometimes I will also make her tea—which kind is up on you. I usually go with a black tea with roses. When I can’t bring myself to prepare something, I’ll light frankincense incense. Whenever I bake, I’ll offer her pieces of cookies, cakes, and anything sweet like chocolate. I also once offered her a collage and a friendship bracelet I made for her in recovery. Lastly, I’ll light a vanilla scented candle for her if I have one.
Pink — love, friendship, self-love
Red — love, passion, romance, intensity
Blue — reminiscent of the ocean from which she was born
White — could represent the color of pearly white seashells, but could also be a stand-in color if you don’t have anything in the colors above
Myrrh tree (in reference to the myth of Adonis)
Anemone (in reference to the myth of Adonis)
Seashells, sand dollars, fish, and things reminiscent of the ocean
Dagger, shield, things that relate to her war aspect
Devotional art/jewelry/digital altars/etc
Makeup, skincare, nail polish, and beauty
Feeling beautiful and doing makeup/skincare
Friday is her sacred day, so many people will give her offerings then, as well as the fourth day of every month, as that is sacred to her as well.
If you’re in a position where you cannot openly give offerings, you can always do libations, which is to pour out liquid in honor of the Theoi—meaning if you have a houseplant, you can water it as a form of libation, or pour out a drink in the sink. An even more subtle offering is filling a glass with water, taking it in your room, and leaving it out for Aphrodite, as water is a life-giving source, so it is equally important as anything else.
If nothing else, in my experience, Aphrodite is most pleased when you are taking care of yourself.
And remember: Even if you aren’t able to give any offerings, or offerings often, the Theoi understand your circumstances. They will not get upset with you. Your devotion and faith are the most important things!