im gonna turn 18 soon, does it really get better as you get older or nah? I rlly need some adult woman advice from a woman who isn't some bitch ass family member.
Honestly, there was a point where I figured I’d end up dead in a ditch somewhere. Thought life would just keep getting worse the older I got and yeah, in some ways it did. My health got fucked, I’m chronically ill, every day is a struggle, and mentally I’m still a mess. But I stopped caring.
You can still make something out of yourself. You can still weaponize your weaknesses and turn them into strengths. And if your family isn’t going to support you and would rather sit around talking shit about what you can or can’t do, then they can go fuck themselves.
You’re turning 18. You’re a legal adult now. You’re more than capable of carving out your own path and cutting ties with people who only drag you down. So yes, things can get better. But they only get better if you decide they will and start moving in that direction.
