So while I was typing out both of your guysā response, I noticed that I started putting very similar information so I combined them! So here it is:
Kyungsoo is quite an intricate person to examine. If I had the time (I might actually do this in the summer or my next break), I would like to study Kyungsooās body language so I (and you guys of course) can understand him better. He has said that he likes to show a different person than who he truly is based on what heās doing (e.i hisĀ āD.Oā persona, hisĀ āDo Kyungsoo the Actorā persona, his public person and his at home/personal/true persona aka, his core persona). And itās actually quite easy to do but can get confusing when itās something youĀ made and not your brain, which is why when heās doing interviews and they ask questions heās been asked before, some of the details are changed/come out different. this sections is getting too long oops iāll talk about this more if i do the d.o personality analysis
Now Jongin, as weāve seen is very confident on stage. He has a persona that intrigues us all and we love that persona very much. But even the most confident people falter! And it most certainly happens to Jongin in a form called Do Kyungsoo :)
I would like to say that I do kind of agree that Kyungsoo seems to be the type to get very flustered but, after time itās only natural for him not to get flustered anymore. So what we will be observing is kadi becoming flustered,shy and giggling messes due to an action done by the other.
[Quick Note: I use the terms dominant and submissive (and related words) to describe certain gestures. I would like to point out that those gestures do NOT reflect in anyway towards their sexual relationship. Please do not tag this post with top!soo or top!jongin simply because I said one of them did a dominant gesture.]
Angel Performances -Ā Kyungsooās giggles
In the performances of AngelĀ you can see that Kyungsoo becomes a giggling mess whenever Jongin is facing him and dancing in front of him (who wouldnāt I mean look at the way Jongin is looking at him, personally iād melt and faint).Ā
Itās more clearly seen in the video but whenever this moment of the dance is about to happen, Kyungsoo is already holding back a small smile; he knows heās about to see Jongin, he knows whatās coming. Then once he turns around and faces Jongin, his heart bursts and the giggles explode out of him. Iāve truly never seen Kyungsoo more happy than in this moment right here. ThisĀ is the moment where Kyungsoo lets himself go, itās the moment where he looks the most free, ethereal, and happy.Ā
Then of course, Jongin starts smiling because who doesnāt want to smile when the love of their life is looking at them like that? Again, itās more notable in the video, but Jongin starts of his usual serious, focused on the dance, sexy self. A couple seconds later though, he sees Kyungsooās reaction to him and he starts to smile real big and chuckles at the sight! He breaks out of his kai persona and becomes Jongin for that little amount of time and I think thatās really beautiful.
Now back to kyungsoo haha, in the video you can see that after Jongin leaves, he realizes that itās almost his time to sing. Butā¦ heās still on the high of happiness! So what does he do? He expands his mouth in order to calm himself down. This gesture is usually done for this very reason, to stretch out your mouth and force your laugh/smile into another gesture. This can be done to conceal a laugh/smile due to it no longer being normal for the situation or because you have to speak and donāt have time to let your laugh/smile die down by itself. Kyungsoo is about to sing so he obvious has to do this but I have a feeling that he also does it because he knows it must look it a bit unnatural for him to be the only other member smiling like that.
(bonus: @ 1:45 kai bites his lip when d.o makes his way over to him)
Jonginās StareĀ - Causes even the most serious of hyungs to falter
In this glorious gif we see Kyungsoo laughing about something and we also see Jongin staring at him (per usual) And like most lovers, Kyungsooās first instinct is to look at Jongin. This is because, when in a group of people, you will instinctively look at the person you are closest to while laughing. I know a lot of people say this but no oneās explained why so here we go:
The reason people look at the person they are closest to is because humor initiation and appreciation is sort of a way that people initiate and maintain social relationships. Humor is in a way a form of people trying to express their interest and gauge a corresponding level of agreement with others. There has been a repeated case study (where the outcome is always very similar), that showed that most people will laugh more/express themselves more when the person they are with is someone they have a interest in or they know really well. This is again, because you are trying to maintain a steady relationship with that person you are looking towards. It already knows the person really well/wants to get to know the person and so you feel more free to show this positive side of you to them. (in this situation of kd) This then turns into the idea that someone that has interest in you (and vice versa) will repeat an action you have done because of wanting to show that you are interested in them. You want to show that you are alike and are to be trusted because of that. Kadi do this a lot, especially while laughing, and this gif shows that too.
Now that weāve covered that haha, we can see that Jongin finds this adorable side of Kyungsoo very amusing. He especially shows this by bursting out in smiles and turning to show the audience, almost like ālook, my Kyungsoo is so cute!ā This causes an immediate burst of flustered-ness and giggles from Kyungsoo who even goes as far as bend slightly because of all the emotions.Ā
JongināsĀ āI love youā - *Kyungsoo forcing himself to not get flustered*
Ah I absolutely love this but it also makes me mad that Kyungsoo had to strictly only sayĀ āah i seeā because we could see a proper reaction :((
In this gif, all of Kyungsooās true emotions to what Jongin has just said are shown through his eyes. The eyes are very good indicators at true emotions.Ā
First we see Kyungsooās eyes go down and to the left. This means heās deep in thought/thinking to himself. Heās probably doing this because heās trying to create a way for himself not to properly react to Jonginās words and make it seem completely banterish and normal rather than romantic and meaningful. His eyes, then stay down and move to the right which indicates that he is attending to his internal emotions. This is very expected since the person he loves just told himĀ āI love youā on a broadcast(?) and so he is experiencing an overwhelming emotion aka causing him to get flustered and shy.Ā
Then we see him adorably and lovingly look at Jongin. From the way he swoops his head to make eye contact with Jongin to the way he glances up at him, he is replicating the gesture done by people when looking at someone in a submissive manner (this has nothing to do with sexual submission). Itās just a gesture of shyness like when Person A compliments Person B and Person B turns to the ground for comfort then slowly half looks at Person B since they are all shy and flustered.Ā
Jonginās Menacing StareĀ - Poor Kyungsoo just wants him to stopĀ
Iām sure weāve all seen this gif at least one time in our kadi shipping lives and Iām pretty sure weāve all read an analysis on this moment at some point or another so Iāll keep this one kind of short (or at least try to)
First let me point out that Baek is looking at the ground, Suho is speaking and looking towards the camera, Chanyeol starts off staring into space but then turns to face the camera and kadi, well theyāre staring at each other. Jongin here, has the evident dominant gesture as he is the one causing the fluster in Kyungsoo. Jongin seems all chill about it but of course Kyungsoo is being heavily affected.
So letās start with his eyes. You can see that he immediately starts blinking rapidly which is a sign of nervousness, aĀ unconscious rapport, anxiety and/or stress. In this case we can combine his other gestures (pupil movement, gulping, mouth twitch, all of which I will talk about in a sec) and assume that he feels nervous, anxious and possibly unconscious rapport. In summary, this point alone is key to him being flustered.Ā Then of course, his pupil movement. Eyes express more than we want them to and Kyungsooās eye movement that floats down and to the right shows that he is attending to his internal emotions. This is his body trying to control the anxiousness/nervousness caused by Jonginās strong stare.Ā
Next, his gulping, also another sign of nervousness/anxiousness. Gulping in moments like these is because of a sudden rush of adrenaline that causes excessive saliva to build up in our throat. And, on top of that, his mouth twitches upwards, another means of nervousness/anxiousness.Ā
In general, this boy is just a flustered nervous mess under Jonginās stare haha.
Kyungsooās Aegyo - Jonginās biggest fanboy moment
I really like this moment because of not only Kyungsooās adorable aegyo but because of Jonginās reaction! Jongin getting giggly is fav just saying hahaĀ Ā Iād just like to quickly point out that Kyungsoo getting embarrassed and flustered over his own aegyo is so beautiful haha
This is quite the legendary moment because it was such a grand moment. Jongin is the onlyĀ member who reacted to such an extent, well, really reacted at all. All the other members laughed of course, they thought it was funny! Itās no big deal to them, obviously. But to Jongin, it seems to be. This man literally became the fandom when Kyungsoo did his aegyo - I for one know I reacted the same way.Ā
First, he has to turn away because he canāt handle the emotions and heās trying to find another person to share this huge emotion with (he doesnāt find anyone lol which Iāll talk about in a sec) Then we have his legs that are stomping the ground, another form of trying to let out a huge emotion when you canāt totally express it. Itās almost like the same gesture he does when heās laughing so hard, he starts hitting something to let out the (positive) frustration of the huge emotion of laughter. Itās just so much that his bodyās instant reaction is to hit something as another form of letting it out since simply laughing wonāt do. This is also similar; heās in a position of not being able to fully express his love/excitement for Kyungsooās aegyo that his body has to show it through exciting his legs into movement.Ā
Finally, when he notices that heās the only one with such a reaction, he runs his hand over his thigh in a form of comfort/ to calm him down. Then he adjusts his legs by spreading them open a little bit, a form almost similar to the feeling of restarting oneself or in simpler terms going back to your original position (in Jonginās case a relaxed position in which he is being interviewed along with his members).Ā
KyungsooāsĀ āChocolateāĀ during My LadyĀ - Jongin has to turn away
A video posted by @alvabear94 on Dec 10, 2016 at 8:25pm PST
Ah, Iāve already talked about this before (x) so Iāll keep this short:
First, the way he tilts his head away (again because he is in a position of restricted movement that his body is trying to contain the emotion). This is commonly seen when person A compliments person B and so person B has to turn away so that person A wonāt see them smiling/blushing. Itās a form of not wanting to show the other person thisĀ āweak spotā of yours which is why you turn away. Though here, I think Jongin was trying to keep us (the fans) from noting that he couldnāt contain his emotions but in reality it made it more obvious. For one, because he was the only member that was looking at Kyungsoo. Second because he turned while none of the other members were moving and when no other thing except Kyungsoo couldāve caused him to move.Ā
Then obviously we see Jonginās little smile pop out. He probably thought something along the lines ofĀ āah kyung, why do have to do this to me~ā . He probably knew that if he stayed looking at Kyungsoo that heād be reprimanded so he turned away. I love this moment so much
Kyungsoo saying Kai-sshi - Jongin losing it ft. exo members also losing it
A video posted by @alvabear94 on Jun 15, 2016 at 10:08pm PDT
This one is kind of here for fun. The video itself is very self explanatory as to why this is here (even the show/broadcast could tell jongin got flustered/nervous by Kyungsoo lolol). This was supposed to not be this long lmao
The first major gesture we see here is that Jongin freezes up. When this happens itās usually your body going into a state of shock. In this case, it appears that Jongin is very shocked by KyungsooāsĀ āKai-sshiā. In fact, it seems that KyungsooĀ purposelyĀ emphasized it that way. His tone raises slightly and his voice is a little louder. He even had a little smirk but that camera flashed to Jongin before we could fully see it. Kyungsoo (in the video) is in a position where he isĀ āin controlā of the whole interview. He has quite some power right now (obviously to a very small extent lol but still) and he is enjoying it. He takes this opportunity to be a little tease toward his members and this is a great show of it. Kyungsooās smirk which showcases that he is feeling very smug right now definitely threw Jongin in for a loop. It even surprised the whole of exo! Jongin especially acknowledges Kyungsooās teasing by doing the continually movement of raising and lower his eyebrows which is an invitation or acknowledgement, it can be friendly or sexual, in this case itās a friendly acknowledgement. Almost like saying āWell how about that !ā
Jongin proceeds to laugh it off (and so do all the members) but now heās nervous. You can tell because he starts rubbing his left ear. Though rubbing the ear can mean lying as well, due to the above paragraph and our knowledge of Jongin and his hardworking-ness, we know he isnāt lying about what heās talking about. Anyway, it doesnāt take long for him to regain posture and answer the question properlyā¦ but after heās done talking, MC Kyungsoo strikes again.
Instead of being smug though, he is very playful this time. Heās straight up messing with Jongin to elicit a reaction. Jongin laughs again, but not because he finds it funny but because he finds it amusing. You can tell because when he finds things funny his laugh pitch is raised but when things are amusing to him, his laugh pitch is a lower tone (this is a more general observation). Then Jongin does the iconicĀ āraising and loweringā of the eyebrows. (as stated previous) This suggests an invitation or acknowledgement. In this case though I believe itās a more sexual, teasingĀ āoh ;)ā. This is also emphasized by the slight tilt of the head and movement of the jaw (and possibly the tongue but the video isnāt great quality so I canāt be for sure)
And, if youāve seen skam, it is very similar to Evenās teasing towards Isak in this moment (and we all know where this leads to lol):
Jonginās Dancing - Kyungsoo canāt handle kaiās dancing
A video posted by @alvabear94 on May 20, 2016 at 8:21am PDT
āD.O": Although kai is my dongsaeng, heās really cool and sexy to the point where you canāt help but fall in love with him when you watch him performing on stage. His facial expressions are not rookie-like at all. When I ask him questions during dance practice, he doesnāt act tired by it at all and really teaches you step by step.āĀ
Whereas the other gifs/videos Iāve talked about have flustered kadi in an adorable or teasing way, this one is more sexual.
First, letās start with Kyungsooās bedroom eyes. This gesture is shown through the whole video, it literally never leaves his face. This look (as you may have guessed it or known), is used to describe a person who looks at another with sexual longing. This is even more supported by the fact that he blinks less, and every time he does, itās slow. This is also in combination with how he prolongedly stared at Jongin. (also if you watch carefully, youāll notice that he blinks when Xiu_min covers Jongin from his view).
Then, we see Kyungsoo gulp or swallow and as mentioned before, this is a sign of nervousness. But, this is a different form of nervousness. This isnāt nervousness due to someoneās stare and you donāt know what to do but a nervousness due to sexual want (as the expression goes,Ā āhe is thirstyā lol pun lowkey intended). This only gets more sexually implying as many have noticed that Kyungsoo looks towards his crotch after he gets up. And really, the only reason people look at crotches is (especially as a male) 1) because they are attracted to it 2) Ā to compare sizes 3) check for a boner. And Iām pretty sure Kyungsoo isnāt attracted to his own crotch nor does he need to compare it since itās his. So the only other thing he could possibly looking for is for a boner. Especially after being as aroused as he was with Jongin, who wouldnāt?
Cockblocking Suho - Kyungsoo trying to be indiscreet but being caught
Since this is only two pictures and not a gif or video, I canāt really comment too much on it. But, for general purposes:Ā
Kyungsoo, in the first picture, is staring at Jongin (casual bro things you know?) He seems to be finding something funny so it brings us back to theĀ āpeople stare at the person they are closest too in a group while laughingā. (Iāve explained this above so reread that if you forgot or care why). He seems to not have expected Jongin to notice (as seen through the second picture). butĀ he mightāve forgotten that Jongin appears to have aĀ āKyungsoo alarmā so Jongin ended up turning towards him and smiling at him. Kyungsoo of course, who didnāt expect this, reacts by looking down, a shy smile on his face as he looks down and to the right. The staring to the down and to the right, as I mentioned previously, is a showing that he is attending to internal emotions. Needless to say, he got very shy and flustered by Jongin haha.
Well, there you have it. I apologize for any typos (especially if they cause misunderstandings). Iād like to quickly creditĀ dika-dikaĀ and dohkyeongsoo for some of the gifs I needed, very much appreciated!Ā
I hope you anons see this and I hope everyone enjoyed!!
