Can I say something about this MJ quote?
āGale didnāt say, 'Katniss will pick whoever it will break her heart to give up,' or even 'whoever she canāt live without.' Those would have implied I was motivated by a kind of passion. But my best friend predicts I will choose the person 'I canāt survive without.' [ā¦] At the moment, the choice would be simple. I can survive just fine without either of them."
Because while I love her conclusion at the end, there's some shit happening in there. First, I think it's a little presumptuous of her to put that interpretation on Gale's word choice. Why is "survive" necessarily so much colder than "live?" I don't really think Gale was intending such a distinction in his vocabulary choice nor implying she is passionless. After all, he is her best friend and the one to reassure her that Peeta's hijacked view of her as a muttated monster is inaccurate. He knows her passion and how she cares about people. So why does she ascribe such callousness to this phrasing?
Doyalist answer: this is one instance of Suzanne beginning to push Katniss and Gale apart even when it doesn't make sense in the narrative or for their characters.
Watsonian answer: I think Katniss is projecting. She feels guilty for dragging Squad 451 into this fool's errand to kill Snow without any great plan or authorization/support from the higher-ups, guilty for getting people killed, so she's already in a bad place emotionally and primed for reading insults where they don't exist. She's been dealing with these complicated feelings about fake-ish romance in a spotlight and her feelings about Gale putting people at risk for a year and a half at this point. She's tired. Maybe it's easier to push him/them away. She's mad at herself for not being able to reciprocate to the level she thinks she's supposed to for either of them. She's projecting her feelings about herself, her fear that she is too cold and emotionless, onto his word there.
Because I think her conclusion is genuine and a reality she has had to come to terms with in the past year: she may lose them both, may have to survive without either of them. She knows she can physically survive, but considering the possibility that she could emotionally survive, however true it may be, makes her feel wrong and self-conscious for not living up to expectations. So she externalizes it and tells herself it's Gale's word making her feel that way rather than her internal senses.