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Mo'Nique as Peaches in Hair Show (2004)

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Rihanna and Rocky at AWGE after-party in Paris tonight.

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Being the introverted hopeless romantic with a high sex drive is a curse

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My aspirational approach to motherhood is to be the kind of woman no one would guess has kids, not just because I keep my life private, but because the lifestyle I lead doesn’t reflect the typical image of a mother. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with women who choose to make motherhood a central part of their identity or brand, but that’s not who I am, and it never will be. I want to give my children the best life possible, quietly and intentionally, while continuing to live my own life in the most fulfilling and meaningful way. They will never be a reason for me to shrink or put my passions on hold, but rather, they’ll be part of the reason I rise.

I also will never look down on women who choose to be childless because I don't see motherhood on its own as a status symbol, but as a relational commitment that makes you accountable to others. A woman isn't better or more valuable than another woman because she has or doesn't have kids. It's patriarchal conditioning and brainwashing for us to tie our worth to motherhood.