[femmeidiot]

anyway why does Canada and the pacific north west have many hot and sweet and iconic butches what's happening in those locations

[texaschainsawmasc-deactivated20]

You know what maybe this is controversial but butches arent sexual rehabilitation centers for traumatized femmes. We aren’t just a way for you to have sex with someone you see as close to being a man in a non scary way. We have our own traumas and difficulties with sex and preferences on our bodies. Butches aren’t sex machines you insert “butches are so sexy crush me under your boot” tokens into. It’s presumptuous as all hell to flirt with a butch without ever taking into account their feelings and existence. I’ve seen people repeatedly messaging a stone butch about the head they wanna give her, which is distressing for her as a STONE butch. I’ve seen people assume butches would be into whatever (usually violent) kink they wanted to, leaving absolutely inappropriate comments on their selfies without thinking about why butches might be traumatized about people assuming we are violent or predators. People think every butch is going to a big burly leather daddy who ties you to the bed and beats you and doesn’t need to show any emotions but there’s just as many butches who don’t feel comfortable being dominant, playing around with kinks, or even topping, and for good reason. We aren’t your sex dolls to project your fantasies onto. We are people.

[1234054]

The amount of first dates I’ve been on where the gal (9/10 not a femme but feminine) made comments to me about me committing physical (and sexual) violence towards her, wanting me to do X Y or Z… and in one case getting very descriptive about committing sexual assault against her, killing her, and then leaving her body in a bag on the side of the road… UGH! it happens frequently, basically everytime!

I was recently joking about this phenomenon in person, and how often I’m asked to use knives and slice people up and how deeply that upset me and I got told not to kink shame.

I feel like we butches have to carry the sins of men and the patriarchy because we look masculine. Femmes have told me in the past that I don’t experience sexism, that I materially benefit in society because I’m more masculine and that I’d have no understanding of their plight. I feel like I’m always treated like a second rate man, and that in most of my relationships I’ve been tasked with the sole job of mending whatever ex-male partners have done to them.

I’ve never been comfortable enough around a women to talk about my needs, or what I’d like, or to not feel pressured to have sex. My last relationship ended because I wasn’t “warming up to her” quick enough. I can’t wait to have an experience with a woman where my brain doesn’t have to turn to static to get through it.

[1234054]

need a fat butch to give my size 20 Peau de Loup trousers to…

[adz]

[1234054]

what a funny gift

[teathattast]

💯🙏💛🟨👍

[teathattast]

Worst part about this is I've only ever used that yellow square emoji once and it was just to see how it looked. This isn't who I am. However, in retrospect, I suppose it is

[teathattast]

Reading through the notes is a surreal experience please keep adding more to fuel my effervescent consumption of non descriptive emojis

[1234054]

need a good pair of cowboy boots

[1234054]

anyone want to do line dancing classes with me? just me? ok..

[1234054]

😪 a femme should talk to me but maybe that’s just the weed talkin

[1234054]

I’m about to get tattoos #7 and 8 but my brain is drawing a complete blank on what’s next

[1234054]

rather than travel to the city to go to the lesbian bar I think I’m gonna try to start a lesbian bar night at a good local tavern

[1234054]

Damn now I’m wishing that when I became an adult and cut off all of my hair that I could’ve given it to a woman who loved me just as much 😪

[1234054]

I just realized that when I first cut all of my hair off at 17, it was given to my first love because she wanted to make it into extensions and wear it. At the time I didn’t think much of it since I mostly wanted my hair gone and she offered a way out but… now that I think about it I feel like there was something deeper to that transaction.

I wonder if she is still wearing me around today…

[1234054]

where do the dykes in Los Angeles go

[1234054]

😪 head scratches when

[1234054]

I found this blue mineral in a rock quarry last year and I’m saving it for the day I’m able to take a jewelry smithing class and can turn it into a pendant for my love.

I just need a love.

[1234054]

What do you mean not everybody has an axe and woods behind their home? How are people supposed to vent when they can’t chop some timber?