weirdo.

do people still use this?

[281dom]

Oh hey there!

[theambitiouswoman]

Qualities that predict long term success in a relationship

Emotional safety, feeling secure to be yourself

Consistency, reliable actions and follow through

Respect, especially during conflict

Conscientiousness, responsibility and discipline (highlighted by the Association for Psychological Science)

Support for growth, encouraging each other’s goals

Emotional stability, low reactivity and drama

Friendship, genuinely liking each other

Positive interactions, frequent kindness and appreciation

[never-obsolete]

iTunes 8 (2008)

[oncce-againn]

Your softness is not the problem. Access to you is.

[nsaint1]

Your lack of boundaries is!

[theambitiouswoman]

Science shows that when you fixate on a problem, your brain actually creates more of it. But when you shift your focus to solutions or who you want to become, your mind starts finding paths forward instead

[thisischeri]

iMac G3 Flower Power, Apple, 2001

Instagram: cheri.css

[theambitiouswoman]

When you settle for less, you never actually get what you settled for. You get even less. Every time you accept something beneath your standards whether it’s a relationship, a job, or how someone treats you, you’re not just compromising the situation… you’re compromising yourself. You’re telling your mind, “This is fine. This is all I get.” And little by little you start living down to that. It chips away at your confidence, your joy, your spark. It makes you question things you never questioned before

You shine when you choose what aligns with your worth. You rise when you acknowledge to yourself that you are not that person anymore. That you know you’re worthy of more. Better. The moment you raise your standards, life shifts to match you. Better people show up. Better opportunities show up. You show up differently. So please don’t shrink yourself just to keep something small. Don’t trade your peace for what feels familiar. Don’t accept the bare minimum when your whole soul is built for more. You deserve a life that fits you not a life you have to fold yourself into. The second you stop settling, everything gets brighter

[kosmogrl]

[red-lamb]

[icaseybaybee]

[281dom]

hoes is dissin

oh nah these hoes is wishin.

[281dom]

offset is truly upset.

[saintmarc]

[angelicdewdrop]

[achillesinhighheels]

[kosmogrl]

[gheiscia]