Putting myself in your shoes!
I always seem to be the one everyone comes to when they have problems. Most of the people that I have given advise to have obviously been close friends. Always telling me I should be some kind of talk host, radio advice expert, counselor, and the most recent one…blogger! Lol.
My biggest drive to get them through a tuff situation is literally putting myself in their shoes.
I’m not saying that I’ve been thought it all! Oh no I haven’t! But… Yes, I have gone through some shit that has hit the fan way too many times. I’ve admit that I’m still dealing with some inner issues but as I talk to my friends and people around me. I also speak into my own life. Let me further explain that. I speak out loud what I should be doing too. To help encourage them as well as opening myself to them. It's what Helps me have a REAL conversation, rather then being FAKE.
We have all have had those people around us that always talk non sense. They give us advice when we don't ask. Even if we did ask for advice, you know for dam sure it's all bullshit. You can feel how fake they are, by hiding who they truly are. Always making themselves perfect at all cost! But one thing I do know... Is that we REAL PEOPLE ALWAYS KNOW WHO IS BULLSHITTING. I love helping people out. It's my best therapy for, even my own problems! So next time when a friend asks you for advice, put yourself in their shoes and analyze the situation, before you answer. 😊 Email me at [email protected]