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18+ Black. 26. ♋️. She/her. Just on here scrolling & shit.

[free-my-mindd]

[catchymemes]

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Thought she was standing on Taylor Port @ first 🤣

[free-my-mindd]

[fuckyeahchinesefashion]

heart handbag by ROTHBARTH

[yuricema-deactivated20230814]

[unicornspwnall]

BLACK PANTHER: WAKANDA FOREVER (2022) dir. Ryan Coogler

[free-my-mindd]

[sapphling]

the more time you spend in active recovery from any given self destructive behavior or addiction the more you understand the common conception of the "relapse" as defined by a broken "streak" to be, like, so bad for one's own well-being that it would be funny if it weren't resulting in just a lot of misery and death

[the-peoples-puppy]

I told my girlfriend to think of quitting vaping as training her endurance by seeing how long she can run before she gets tired, then doing it again and hoping to go further next time. She said it really helped her.

[scarletsaphire]

This is the stages of change model, with each circle being a part of the process of growth. You'll notice how relapse is not a failing of the model, or a set back, but an active step in continuing to grow and change. Everytime you relapse, you learn something; maybe a certain time of year is difficult for you. Maybe certain people push you back into the habit. Maybe your other coping skills/replacement habits didn't work how you wanted and you need to strengthen them, or develop new ones. Maybe it's not quite as clear cut and you need to spend the time figuring out what exactly went wrong so you can catch it next time. It doesn't matter the exact lesson, but it's part of the process.

[porschedreamz]

[degeneratemagicalcatgirl]

I feel like people have this misconception that friends always agree with you. This is incorrect; A true friend will disagree with you, and even call you out on your bullshit, and still be your friend.

[modelsof-color]

Cindy Natasha by Vladimir Marti for Grazia International Magazine December 2025

[iamwizzzzz]

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

resolution (if possible): (attempt to) learn a new language! even if you never get very far with it, i always find it fun to try to learn a new language

I should at least try this year, it's so sad I only speak two of them and I've been wanting to learn more since forever!

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!! Yessss.

[twixnmix]

Phyllis Hyman modeling for a Tony Chase fashion show at the Red Parrot in New York City, 1982.

[345pm]

My girl was so prettyyyyy

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Like we have commodified human connection to a degree where if you go beyond smalltalk you're oversharing and if you talk too deeply about your life you're traumadumping and if you get visibly upset you're manipulative and if you care too much you're codependent and if you want to talk about anything heavy you're expected to go hire a therapist because your friends shouldn't have to deal with that stuff and yet we're all sitting around wondering why so many people are lonely...

[horygory]

The Strain (2014)

[treygotguap]