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In some black communities thereās still a stigma that kinky or coarse hair is ābadā, which couldnāt be further from the truth. Thereās no such thing as good or bad when describing someoneās natural hair texture or type. To those struggling to love and accept their natural hair because of societal pressures, remember this - straight, curly, kinky or wavy, it doesnāt make a difference. Embrace your hair the way it is, no matter what society tells you. All hair is good hair. Itās your Crown.
Gerrel Saunders
Iām screaming
sheās serving
Iām SO SICK of this idea that if your afro does not touch your shoulders itās not a good afro or itās automatically āstill in progressā. ANY AND ALL AFROS ARE GOOD AND VALID AFROS, REGARDLESS OF SIZE.
Um can we all recognize that there is a clear hierarchy in the natural hair community that is dictated by anti-blackness? Notice how many notes a picture of a woman with 3a-c hair, or even 4a hair gets vs a pic with 4b/c hair. Curly trumps kinky every time. Not only that, but there is an unhealthy obsession withĀ ālongā natural hair. The bigger the better. Remember in grade school when girls with short hair would be calledĀ āball headedā? That short snap of hair is associated with blackness, with ugliness, with not being feminine. Weād rather be Pocahontas. Weād rather be Alicia Keys. Elongating gels, methods to stretch hair, obsessions with growth rate, all rooted in our fears of looking too black with our natural hair. Fight me if you want, but examine yourself first.Ā
It always bothered me when people would sayĀ āNatural hair doesnāt look good on me.ā
Double buns and Christmas lights
It's strange..
The amount of products i see geared toward natural haired black women that have the name curly in it.. Curling puddings, jellies, etc.. Like, to me it seems that thereās a push to sell products that inadvertently promise curls.. But, not all natural hair has a curl pattern, so itās strange..
Then i see all these natural hair blogs and IG pages and thereās nothing but people who look like me with 3c hair and itās like.. Whereās the dark skinned people? Whereās the 4c haired people?
Itās strange cuz the natural hair movement was supposed to be about rejecting white beauty standards and embracing ourselves as we are⦠But colorism is still there.
I used bentonite clay to wash my hair and my hair feels brand new, literally. I used it on my face and itās the softest I can ever remember it being š 4c appreciation needs to be a tag
Warning to any new naturals or those wanting to be natural
Go natural with the bare minimum of nessasary products! I cannot emphasize this enough. There are only four things I used when when I first went natural 1. Shampoo 2. Conditioner 3. Mosteriser/detangular (hair lotion) 4. Wide tooth comb
There were a couple of reasons for this one Iām a college student with a very very small budget, and two i did not want to fall into the trap of being a product/style junkie. The most important thing for natural hair is health and i found that hair doesnāt really need that much to be healthy. When first going natural it is best to start out simple and build from there because you donāt know how these products will work on your hair. Even now Iāve been natural for about 3 years and i only needed to add two things to my hair stack which is a deep conditioner and a cheep oil. Anyone just starting on their natural hair journey should limit themselves to no more than $30 on products.
4C HAIR IS GOOD HAIR. 4C HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL. to all the people who have ever been put down because of their natural hair: you are beautiful, and your hair is beautiful. š
I am not a natural hair expert nor into tutorials but I do want to give advice to black girls with 4B/4C hair. The idea that Afro-textured hair, especially 4C hair, doesnāt grow fast is a myth. If anything, the thicker your hair is, the more apt to growing it is. If black boys can cut their hair off and within a week or two, they get to chia pet length, your hair can grow fast. It depends on what you do to it. Some of us may have hair that grows very slow, but itās not impossible or unlikely for type 4 hair to grow rather rapidly. If you donāt do much to it, your hair will actually grow faster versus when you manipulate it. Which is why black men and boys tend to grow their hair out faster because they donāt do as much to their hair as black girls and women tend to do. Itās not all the time, but itās more often than you think.
Ā The thing is, many of us worry too much about length, not growth. We donāt have straight or very loose wavy/curly hair. Therefore, our hair grows upwards and outwards, not downwards. So when your hair does grow, you may not notice anything because itās not going straight down your back. Itās going to the crown of your hair, which is why our crowns tend to be thicker than the rest of our hair. Many of us look forward to hair down our backs, which is why some of us may go,Ā āOh! My hair isnāt growing! Why isnāt it growing?ā I was the same way until I noticed a significant difference between last summer to this fall. My hair was shorter than it is now.Ā
Ā This was only a year ago; and with a before and after picture, I realized my hair has grown a lot in that time span. It didnāt actually look like something until I started taking better care of it and moisturizing it. So I donāt believe 4C hair naturally grows slower than other hair types. If anything, I think it often grows faster because a lot of times, we donāt do a lot to it. Now if you just donāt do anything to do it, itās not going to grow nor be healthy. A lot of us wear protective hairstyles, so that also quickens the pace of hair growth. It is recommended to do a protective style every two weeks. It doesnāt have to be 10 hours worth of box braids, but something durable and a style youāre comfortable with.
Ā Again, I am not a natural hair expert, but this is just from my experiences and I would like to share because I used to be disenchanted by my hair until I stopped caring about a curl pattern and actually did more to my hair than just hoping it looked like somebody elseās. And remember all my black femmes, nappy/undefined hair is just as feminine as long, straight or loose hair.
Two big flat twists done on stretched 4C hair.
āI like my baby hair with baby hair and afroā
Iāve always wanted to see Storm with kinkier hair texture. How cool would it be to see the most iconic black female superhero stuntinā with protective hairstyles? Imagine her hair being as fluffy as the clouds that are at her command.
I think about this a lot.
I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS POST MY ENTIRE LIFE THANK YOU IāM CRYING
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stop telling black girls that they need to flat iron their hair straight for certain events like a prom or something formal. stop telling black girls that their natural hair in its natural state canāt be formal or professional.
and people still want to spew that āitās just hairā rhetoric