noor.

subha bedaag hai

[will80sbyers]

3 BODY PROBLEM (2024)

[presentlydean]

online communities are so strange because people slip away so easily. you can be on here for years, folding people you've never met into the fabric of your daily life, and then they disappear, leaving only ghost posts scattered across tumblr behind. or their blog stays dormant, for weeks, months, years, until you're only still following them because you remember that they love sunflowers or they were kind to you when they didn't have to be or the last thing they posted was sad and raw and you still worry about them sometimes.

and sometimes they come back when you least expect it, years later, even, and there's this sudden rush of relief like there you are, there you are, even though you barely knew each other.

there's a strange kind of love to it. i don't know you and i want to hold your hand across miles and time zones and oceans. i can still see the imprint of you in this community you left. you don't think anyone will notice or care when you're gone, but we notice and we care and we wish you well.

i hope you're all okay out there. i hope the sun is shining on your face and you are breathing deeply. i miss you.

[theereina]

[roses-and-elixir]

This dunya ain’t it

[cyberxbattalion]

[catchymemes]

[play-now-my-lord]

here's a quick tip for life: if you hate someone and you have a choice in the matter, keep their name out of your mouth and the reasons you hate them out of your head. keep your head on a swivel around people who habitually break this guideline because they're just as capable of obsessive negativity about you

[play-now-my-lord]

genuinely "living rent-free in your head" is a curse. obessing yourself with people you find odious who don't have the actual power to harm you does nothing good for your life. there is immense strength in walking the fuck away and treating someone as dead to you, not half-living in their shadow.

[weltenwellen]

Nooshin Ghanbari, from "transient"

[perfectdisney]

[recoverr-deactivated20250621]

i don’t know who needs to hear this, but guilt, self-hatred and shame are not sustainable sources of growth and healing. you can’t hate yourself into feeling better, or being better. you can’t repeatedly punish yourself for your flawed humanity and expect wholesome results.

[effemimaniac]

sorry for the delay in responding to your message. I was walking around the house with unclear intentions

[kinavu]

"they should be at the club" "they should be at the farmers market" "they should be at the public library" well i should be in my lovers arms but im not am i. life is full of disappointments

[prrcyjacksons]

THE SUMMER I TURNED PRETTY

2.01 — “Love Lost”

[thatonekimgirl]

Husband behavior.

[zooophagous]

I know I sound like your mom but you kids need to stop fucking vaping

[grapefruitcrush]

ok sometimes posts like this are frustrating even tho they’re well meaning! it is REALLY HARD to kick a nicotine addiction, and saying “just stop bc it’s bad for you” is sometimes not helpful. here are some strategies that have worked for me and my friends to help you get started:

LOLLIPOPS OR A WATER BOTTLE WITH A STRAW!!! the oral fixation is real and these will help. keep these with you especially in triggering spots (if you always vape when you drive, keep some in your car)

if possible, use lower percentage pods (3% instead of 5 or 6%) for a week before you quit to help curb some physical effects when you do quit

pick a time when you have a few days where you won’t be around people who you know vape, whether that’s friends or fam

sunflower seeds sometimes help when your craving, or sour candy

make a list to look at of all the reasons that you’re quitting that will be positive effects of quitting RIGHT AWAY. lung cancer should be a deterrent but sometimes if you don’t feel the immediate payoff it’s not helpful when cravings are bad. ex of reasons: vaping is giving u bad teeth, bad breath, bad skin, headaches and nausea, isolating you from people you love, fucking your sleep schedule up, making you anxious, making it harder to complete physical activity, PREVENTING SAVING MONEY, etc

these won’t help everyone but it’s helped me a lot

Remember! shame doesn’t help people quit physical addictions and if you make a mistake you can always keep trying. quitting is a process and takes time, but it’s SO worth it in the long run <3

[metamorphesque]

― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Gentle Spirit

[em-niwa]