#0003 mars and their ideals
where venus is the ideal feminine for the man, mars is the ideal masculine for the female. traits the female may exhibit from her mars will be searched for in the man
(+ personal observations)
aries mars — a fighter, an over-achiever
these women will want the most fiery, the most dramatic, and the most spontaneous men out of them all. they crave adventure and deep stimulation that is not only mental but physical and spiritual also. these women rely on their impulses to keep them going and will want a man so attuned to his own impulses, he doesn’t know where to put himself. she wants to be put on adventures so little and so huge. she wants someone to explore with, to mentally grow with. somewhere she can go and learn. she wants someone who is dramatic and self-assured in who they are and what they want. she will want someone who encourages her to push her boundaries and to broaden her outlook on life. she looks at life with a large and broad perspective and will not settle for someone who restricts her on thinking big or narrows her vision to only one or two things
men who are forthright, direct, and independent will attract this female. these women like someone who doesn’t settle and keeps on the move. strong, macho men are attractive to these women also. they need someone who is aggressive and blunt in the way they move and speak. she will be attracted to men who are brave and initiate. she is the type to put pressure on the people she likes and will expect this also. she wants someone who goes after what they want. she will look for a man that is certain of his sexuality and is certain of his sexual capability. she, herself, is very sexual, and will look for a man that aligns with her libido. she will look for a man that is sexual and lustful. she wants to physically connect through the body but also connect through spirit. there needs to be drama, fire, and feelings in sex. she will feel most happy when she finds a man that matches her libido because sex, to her, is an act of self-expression
she may date men who are macho and cold. the men she dates may not be overly emotional, but she will require her man to be possessive. while she values personal space and independence, she will have a deep attachment to her lover and will want only him. she, too, wants a man that only wants her. she is very impulsive in everything she does and says and would expect her man to be the same
displays of affection might not be a regular occurrence, but there will be an attraction between her and her ideal so strong, sexual tension and chemistry will reign through and throughout the relationship. she will be the type to not get enough of her lover, all while he struggles to keep his hands off her as well. this is a touchy and affectionate placement and the woman will most definitely want a man that doesn’t wallow in his feelings or dramatise them. she is not overly ignorant of emotions but prefers them not taking over in everything she does
taurus mars — a gentle beast, the most humble lover
this woman prefers the silent type. she does not go for men that overly exert themselves or the men who share too much of themselves. she is one to respect traditional values and has high morals. she looks for a man that respects and/or reflects these morals. she does not go for someone who is overly aggressive or spontaneous; she needs someone much more comforting, quieter, a lot more nurturing
she needs a man who works hard and has a stable footing in his life. she likes men who know how to manage money and how to make money. she needs someone resilient and disciplined. she holds a confidence that is silent and is displayed through her wealth of money, belongings, and wisdom. she does not cry for other people’s attention. she is not needy for other people. so, she would look for a man that is of the same calibre. she wants a man that doesn’t require anyone else’s validation but his own
she offers her devout loyalty to the man who does the same. she does not look for adventure or new horizons with her lover, but finds excitement through things much more sentimental. cooking, touching, and gifts are a few of her expressions of affection, and she will require a man that values her and appreciates her. someone to reinstate that yes, she is a strong woman, and that she is supported. she needs someone who is not frail to feelings and doesn’t melt when sad. she does, however, look for a man that knows to control his anger, his upset, and his love. she wants a man that touches her, a man that sends her gifts and shows her his appreciation through tangible things. but also, to show her his appreciation through acts of service and simply being there for her
a taurus’ love runs deep and pure, however it may seem on the outside. they are purely romantic and will expect their lover to uphold romantic values in the relationship. these women are highly sexual and will need a man that can reflect her sensuality and extreme displays of passion. someone who can take her affection and care. someone who is loyal to her and only her. emotions will run wild between her and her man but she will need a man who doesn’t drown at the sight of them, but instead tempers them gently. someone who, to the outside world, is cold and unavailable, masculine and uninterested, but to her, is always available, is always in love, is always ready to give love
her expressions may seem slow and timid initially, but this is also a method in which she can root out people who are authentic. whoever stays and is patient with her, will have her attention and loyalty. she does not open easily but once open, will remain open. she wants a man that honours her fear of opening up and gives her the necessary space to grow and to let her feelings roam. she is not overly sensitive in general but will become sensitive to him; if he is not sensitive to her needs and feelings also, she will feel insecure. in general, she will date men who are cold and detached. she will be attracted to men that don’t show much, fully knowing there is something underneath his veil. she may date men who are on a certain material plane or have some sort of financial benefit to them
gemini mars — a curious man, the smartest lover
these women want a man that is aware of his surroundings. she doesn’t want a man that only thinks of himself and his home; she looks for someone who is constantly on the move and is always learning. this placement can make someone obsessive over education, travel, or learning. she will want someone who is well-educated and eternally curious. in order for her to pursue any relationship, she must have a mental connection with her lover. her fickleness in emotions is usually reprimanded by her ability to stimulate her partner mentally and intellectually. her inability to understand deep feelings is made up by challenging her partner through games. and thus, she does not look for someone who is gushy or gooey in relationships. she does not look for someone who wants to commit immediately. she wants a man that knows his personal freedom and honours hers. she looks for a man totally confident in himself and his ability to take care of himself. she, herself, is confident, and can be a player. she isn’t necessarily looking for “the one”, nor does she expect someone to look at her as “the one.” if someone sees her as this, she may feel restricted. even certain labels may eventually drain her energy and her efforts at love will diminish
childish and playful by heart, she does not look for a man that is serious or overly concerned with material things. as long as she can express her feelings and affection in a way that is light-hearted and unserious, she will be happy. high standards put on her will make her more unpredictable than normal as she will feel as though she has to restrict and “control” her energy instead of gladly expressing it as it is
these women don’t necessarily commit, but they will stay with the person as long as she feels the mental rapport going. intellect, wittiness, and versatility are all turn-ons for these woman. they appreciate men who know how to adapt to any and all situations; they fall in love with those who know things and want to know more. she is concerned with intelligence so much she may feel a certain superiority over her man. she wants someone open-minded and someone who has a broad view on love, sex, and life in general. she may be progressive or strange when it comes to sex or it may lack completely. this, she will look for in a partner
these women will appreciate a man that keeps her guessing. like mentioned, she is not concerned with material things. she remembers little things about her partner and knows how to please him. she will expect her man to do the same
cancer mars — a children’s man, a masculine man
these women may prefer men who are built. when they look for a man they look for someone who can protect them rather than someone more feminine or leaner. they look for the typical masculine that’s macho, built, but sensitive to family. because she has such close ties to family and children, she will express herself in ways that are motherly, nurturing, supportive. in order for her to feel valued and respected, she must receive the room from her man to do this. he may be as masculine as he wants to be but if he doesn’t realise emotions need to glow behind closed doors, she will not be interested. she needs to have an emotional connection in which she can safely love and be loved back. men who are big in size but bigger in the heart are attractive to these women. if there is no emotional connection, she will feel void and will either stay in the hopes of eventually achieving one, or leave altogether. she will be protective over her man at whatever cost
children and family are important to these women, and so she will look for someone who reflects this. this placement looks for someone to love and to marry. and whoever she chooses, she will want to have them for life. for many women, there is a breeding or a mommy kink involved, and she would want her man want this as well
sensitivity and generosity are key for this woman. she is romantic and expects her man to notice it. she is affectionate and gooey when it comes to loving her man. compliments, food, and loyalty are only some of the things she offers to her man. her unconditional love and constant yearning for her man will always make the man feel truly loved, though she must feel the same coming from him. however, these women can over-sacrifice themselves for nothing. she is willing to give up everything for her man and still feel insecure she’s not giving enough or getting anything back. she will feel as though her value is tied to what she can support her man with rather than how her love influences him. she will have mood swings and may actually find it attractive if he has them as well
she may marry men that are overly cold in hopes of tempering him. she wants to be the one that softens the biggest man’s heart. she will be attracted to men that are built in size and display little to no attention to her in hopes of eventually wooing him with her allure. she is a passive woman when it comes to action and prefers when her man is the one that takes action. she may marry out of habit or for security if she, herself, doesn’t feel secure. she craves honesty and the purest love imaginable but seems to get out of control when she gets ahold of someone. she will constantly search for someone who matches a certain level of compassionate but masculine. she may be picky
leo mars — a protector, an extension of her pride
she looks for someone she can be proud of and to grow with. she is enigmatic and self-assured. confident and buoyant, she is a playful person, and will emphasise the focus of play in her relationships. she looks for a man can appreciate adventure and fun; a man that plays, wanders, explores. she is attentive and will look for a man that is attentive also. vain, she will look for a man that appreciates her through words, touch, thought. she needs a man that is confident in who he is and what he wants out of life and out of relationships. she will be attracted to men that stimulate her mind and make her feel valued and attractive. she is attracted to men that are gaudy, men that flaunt, and men that are proud
these women look for things to be constantly impressed by. she will look to impress her man in the way she dresses, speaks, and through what she has. she will also look at her man and establish an opinion based on what he earns, has, or in the way he dresses and presents himself. she will want to look good at all times with her man. she needs someone who is optimistic and lucky; someone who is charming and magnetic. she looks for someone whose energy is as large as hers. she looks for someone who she can flaunt. someone who is as proud as she is
romantic, she is obsessed with love and will look for a man as obsessed as her. she may be a sentimental woman who appreciates the littlest things and will want a man that can appreciate and value little things in the relationship. she will want someone who can offer constant reassurance and praise. someone who can woo her all the time and show she is loved and valued. any leo placement tends to romanticise and idealise love too much, and she may have such an innocent version of love that is unrealistic and has unachievable standards. her self-esteem may be so high she feels undeserving of anything below her false construction she has created in her mind. really, she is scared of imperfection and is threatened by having something that is not in alignment with her desires. she wants someone to pour their heart over hers in compliments, praises, and affection. she wants someone who is touchy and clingy and will want someone who constantly needs her attention. she will see herself as a provider, though will want this from her man as well. she really just wants to have someone she can be proud of, to support, to mother
she offers unconditional love and loyalty, but only if he offers the same. she looks for a man that looks at her and only her. she is wildly sexual and will need a man that matches her libido and can sexually please and satisfy her. sex will be an important form of self-expression and she will need someone who wholeheartedly sees sex as something to pay attention to. she is deeply nurturing and supportive and will move mountains to show her love towards her man, though she will want the same. she wants a man that dedicates all his time and effort towards her. a man that becomes needy and clingy for her. she is turned on by men who are very masculine and express it confidently
virgo mars — the “perfect” man, the gentlest lover
these women look for a man that is refined, quiet, and resilient. they are not the type to go for a man that is showy or loud. instead, they prefer men who act and move in silence. these women approach life with specific values and virtues that must be honoured and respected
women with this placement are attracted to men that are clean and neat. they look for someone they can relate with through daily life rather through ostentatiousness or some special spiritual connection. she is attracted to men aware of their social duty/responsibility and someone who concerns himself with money and materials. she needs a man that works hard. glamour doesn’t allure her to any man, but their ability to stay humble, neat, and loyal in relationships
she looks for a man that knows good manners and knows how to carry himself. she is attracted to men that speak calmly, act calmly, and are charming. these women’s romantic life may lack in their lives but when in love, will be simple and sentimental. they will value service to their partner and pick serving him over gushy romance. grand serenades aren’t her thing, and she doesn’t want it to be his either. she prefers him taking care of her by helping her, by offering himself to her, cooking for her, cleaning for her, working hard to provide for both of them
there is a need for her man to be socially aware of others. liking animals and having pity for humans is a must. there needs to be no disconnect between him and the outside world; he needs to realise that he is not alone in this world, and that there are people who suffer and need help, and they must be ready to help them
this placement remains more earthy than any other earth mars. they are as analytical as ever; they are observant, they overthink, they are quiet. their energy will be directed towards material matters and she would expect a man who is modest and is analytical as she is. she needs someone to keep her energy grounded. she needs someone who will support her through his actions rather than trying to push her boundaries and encourage her to try new things. this placement loves control and perfection and if she notices something is out of place, she will have no trouble putting it back or leaving it altogether. she is not looking for someone to tell her what to do, or a slave, but someone who wants to go about their normal lives while still being in love. love must be experienced through a wholehearted experience but not through grand displays of affection. handholding and gentle kisses suffice. if she is interested in someone but they are not financially grounded or are not concerned with social status, or the outside world, or have a weak work ethic, she will have no issue cutting them out
these women may have high standards for others that are hard to achieve. like other earth mars, she sees relationships as a team or a partnership in which both must work together to achieve a mutual goal, while also having someone to retreat to. her feelings may not run intensely deep but they still run. and she will need someone who is supportive and is as nurturing as she is. so she may date men who are cold for the sole reason of not attaching too deeply or feeling as though she needs to feel more, despite not wanting to. she doesn’t look for men who need a soulful attachment. she may date men with money or who have a prominent place in society
libra mars — a soft-hearted man, an affectionate lover
these woman are extremely refined in the way they dress, look, or act. they are not ones for rude manners, vulgarity, or abuse. when she looks for a man she looks for someone soft-hearted, affectionate, and more feminine than masculine. rough edges and sharp corners are not for her as they would be for, say, cancer mars. she looks for a man that is willing to please her; someone that wants to woo her and will, at whatever cost necessary. in general, she will play games with her lover. she will constantly keep him guessing. this may come from her wanting mental stimulation; an air mars, her mind will constantly be on the move. her energy is not debilitated and, if anything, is set afire. she is very articulate and gentle in the way she moves and speaks, but she really moves and speaks. personal independence will be important to her but also cooperation and willingness to work together. she is a team-player who respects personal space but lacks it when in a relationship. she becomes devoured by the feelings that come with all of it and she becomes clingy, needy, and obsessive. she forgets the feeling of what it’s like to be alone and gets attached to her man’s energy so much, she must always be with him
she looks for someone who is charming and can adhere to her mind games. someone who flirts in the way they move and touch her. she is very idealistic and dreamy in love and may have many fantasies of love and the type of man that she wants. these women need stimulation so much that they may have many men in their mind, even when they have the perfect one right at their feet. they love to search for perfection and aesthetics and may be picky when it comes to relationships. she needs her man to be perfect but continue being perfect rather than giving her a reason to look at someone else’s beauty
these woman look for beauty in everything they do or in everything they participate in. she may date men who live a lavish lifestyle or are working for one. she may date someone involved with the law or is in a humanitarian position. she may also look for someone who has money or is very wealthy. above all, however, she is very feminine, and there is no doubt to what she likes and dislikes. she dislikes anything that is too cruel and ugly. war, abuse, and poverty make her depressed, but flowers, colours, and love make her happy. she is not ready to deal with things that are harsh on the soul. she may be the type to avoid conflict and is why she looks for someone that isn’t abrasive in the way they argue or the way they speak. she needs a gentle soul that recognises she is sensitive and anything he says must be refined
someone who takes care of their body, will attract these women. they look for cleanliness and may be neat-freaks. marriage may be something she would do out of security or impulse. in general, she needs someone who is light-hearted and prefers playing than obsessing over the world’s woes. she needs someone that is willing to explore with her; sexually or physically, through travel and the like. she needs a man that isn’t too laid-back but also isn’t so fiery she feels intimidated by his energy. she also needs someone to gladly mirror. she is a woman that naturally picks up people’s opinions and habits. she wants to do everything her man does, think what he thinks. she really is a hopeless romantic that loves love so much, she becomes engulfed by the other person
scorpio mars — a soulful man, the neediest lover
her relationship with her man must be soulful and wholesome. there needs to be a purpose for her love. loyalty, obsession, and constant yearning must be prevalent between the two. she needs to feel wanted at all times; when she is with her man, and when she is not. she wants to feel her lover’s imprint on her day and night. she wants a man who sees her and only her. a man who touches, kisses, and dreams of her and only her. she is very romantic and appreciates sentimentality and romance from her man also
the woman’s magnetism may attract many men. however, this allure is only vanity. the woman will only pick out the man that matches her discipline, willpower, and drive. she needs a man that knows no boundaries when achieving what he wants. she needs someone certain in what he wants and how he is going to do it. there is a power dynamic between her and her man, and will dislike men who cannot submit to her or their desires. and while she shows that she is well capable of taking care of herself, will still want someone she can nurture, take care of, and love. if he chooses her, she will indefinitely choose him. she will baby him, constantly think of him, always yearn for him. this, too, will be wanted in her man. she wants someone as obsessed with her as she is with them. someone who constantly wants her, needs her, misses her. someone who is so entranced and into her he can’t seem to get enough of her. she wants to be wanted badly and indefinitely. she will have great love for him but only if he is ready to return the same level of intensity. if he recognises love and sex as something spiritual rather than earthly, and doesn’t date for fun, then she will keep him close and hold him down
deep passion is a necessity. there must be a spiritual purpose in what they do; feelings that lie on the surface are not good enough. they have to run through blood and nerves and pulse through the soul in waves that are overwhelmingly strong. she needs someone she can devour soulfully. someone to transcend with. there must be an ego death with her lover and an embrace of spiritual succession. full submission. loving confessions, touching, and neediness is all part of it. she needs to feel wanted by her man. if her man is willing to give her his undying love and loyalty, she will too. this isn’t the type of woman that wants the purest form of love, however. she wants the ugliest parts of it, the dirtiest, the most traumatic. she experiences love as a rebirth more than a duty she must accomplish
privacy is also very important. she is not the type to date and marry men who kiss and tell. any relationship that stays secret or hidden, is a happy relationship. she does not appreciate people knowing her business. the type of men she may date are: secretive/private, mysterious and cold to strangers, loyal, and “bad.” she may be attracted to dangerous thrill from men; she may date men that are toxic because she wants something dramatic, thrilling, different
sagittarius mars — an energetic man, an adventurous lover
men who are adventurous, uncanny, and generous are these women’s ideals. they need someone who is spiritually energetic. someone who looks at things from an objective and meaningful view. these women like to direct their energy towards things that are not only exciting, but also soulfully thrilling. when she gets involved with a man she has an intelligent connection with, only then will she feel a sexual pull towards him. she needs to feel as though her existence is heightened and her intelligence is challenged through engaging conversations and adventure. when she feels as though her mind is sufficiently stimulated by the man, she will become sexual with him. generally, these women are sexual in general anyway, but she will always yearn for a connection that is spiritual and sexually gratifying rather than sex that has no meaning other than to org@sm
being spontaneous herself, she will want someone who can match her energy. she will keep you guessing and she will be unpredictable. her independence will have to be matched by her man. she is not the type, really, to cuddle and sleep all the time and constantly stay in and exchange words of love to one another. she wants to see the world with her lover and allow her mind and spirit to grow alongside his. she wants to feel as though her life has meaning and that she can share the goodness with someone else rather than experiencing it alone. she may feel alone with all the ideas she has in her head and the philosophies she follows in life. she may feel as though she is misunderstood by many men as her morals don’t align with others’. this, she will look for company in her man; someone to do everything with, someone to experience love, abundance, and growth with
these women are very playful and require light-heartedness in their relationships. they are not attracted to the overly soft or the lovey-dovey. they are attracted to men who stand their ground, are independent, and are self-assured. someone who doesn’t focus on the feelings too much, but at the same time acknowledges them. someone who prefers seeing the world through an objective lens, rather than an emotional one. these women don’t require a certain status or a certain level of pay. they may be very picky in the man they like or want because they don’t want to settle for less than what they imagine in their head. they tend to do this because they want the perfect image in which they can be themselves. they are not afraid of judgment, but will feel threatened if they are thought to be weird or strange for the way they think. they search for a one on one bond to have with someone; a wholehearted connection that is shared between two dramatic people obsessed with one another
and speaking of picky, they will settle on the one man she knows is different. similar to men with venus in sagittarius, there must be a strong contrast between the one man and the rest of the world. if there is a divide between him and the rest, she will look at only him. she is a curious woman and needs plenty of mental stimulation and an intellectual relationship. sexual urges are well prominent in her but knows how to save herself for someone that actually means something. but above all, she is wildly sexual and looks for a man to have deep, passionate sex with. sex that is riveting to the soul and is very healing
even in committed relationships, she may need spontaneity and independence. personal space is important to her and she may have boundaries regarding her personal space. she will take these boundaries seriously as her independence is the one factor that keeps her separate from everyone else. if she is in a relationship in which she feels consumed by her lover and not freed, she will suffer. her spirit will diminish and she will be unhappy. this, she may date men who are emotionally unavailable and give her lots of freedom. she is not the type to care and want to constantly baby and nurture her man, but she is very generous to him, and looks for this generosity also. she looks for a man that shares what he had with others — whether it be physical (money) or intangible (wisdom, intelligence)
capricorn mars — a reliable lover, a family man
traditional values and ethics will be of utmost importance. this woman is independent and knows how to take care of herself and needs someone to merely accompany her in her growth. she is a leader by heart and will take charge in taking what she wants out of life. she needs a man who is the same. she values reliability, sincerity, and honesty. she does not love for the sake of it, for the sex, for the fling that comes out of all of it. she loves and dates for the long-term, for marriage. she takes commitment seriously and if she notices energy that is unaligned to hers, she will have no issue leaving. and if she feels her independence is threatened, she will have no issue leaving at this either
she needs a man that knows emotional control. she does not want a man who spills his emotions all over the floor in failure to hold them. she needs a man who will prove his masculinity to her; someone who knows how to work, knows how to make money for himself, knows how to provide. she needs a man that will match her need for a successful future and a high social status. she wants someone to grow with rather than use for growth. and her growth may come in many forms; to grow financially, in terms of family and children, etc.
and while she may want a man that is cold to the world and detached to other women, she wants him to show her his love in more than just words and admissions. she will look for physical affection; hand-holding, gripping, caressing, all of it. she has a strong connection to her body and what turns her on and off. she wants her man to know her body inside out; she wants him to run his hands all over it, to gaze at it, to accept it and love it
she is deeply loyal and ambitious. she does not stop at any hinderance, but uses it as a step to grow. she persists, no matter the energy needed for it to work. she may be a pessimist but she is kind-hearted and devoutly supportive of her lover. her self-esteem is high and she knows how to steady herself. slow to anger, she needs a man that has boundaries, that distances himself when necessary, and knows how to control his emotions
she may date men that have a high social status or work towards it. she may date older men or men who have strong footing in the world. financial stability is a must for this placement. a man who knows how to manage his money and knows how to look for further riches, has her eye
aquarius mars — an unconventional man, a free man
this woman would be most attracted to men who are unconventional in their style. weirdness is attractive to them. for this placement, the woman would naturally feel as though she is an independent woman who feels no need to adhere to traditional or conventional ways of being. she finds her own way in what she does and expects a man who does the same. she needs someone objective and rational, as she is like this also. she is attracted to a man that isn’t rigid, one that doesn’t stick to the rules, and prefers breaking them to make his own
there needs to be a mental rapport between the two for any further intimacy to occur. and while sex isn’t important to her, there is a playful element to this placement. this woman doesn’t need a man that takes everything seriously, but a man that knows when to act serious and when not to. mental stimulation is key to a happy relationship with this woman. if she feels as though the mental connection is not there, she will not pursue any further. she may be sexually liberated or have a lacking interest in it or simply have very progressive ideas about sex. this is what she will look for in her man also. however, it may be that she yearns for an intellectual march so strong and specific, she physically cannot have sex until it is achieved. someone who is open-minded about sex or about life in general, secures her loyalty. she may not be into marriage or children but I have still noticed some women that marry for the security or because they feel like they should
intelligence and conversation are very important to these women. while she wants you to be impressed by her intellect, she will look for the same in return. in general, she always wants to challenge the man but not in a way that is demeaning. rather, she just wants room for her energy to pour. and men who make her feel less independent or somewhat trapped, will have no hope in her commitment
she may be attracted to men that are unconventional but also humanitarian. men who care for the world in ways that concern not only nature but also humans. men who hold a certain sensitivity for others, especially the homeless or the oppressed. the man must be competent enough to challenge her mind and to keep up with her games. she may not be the type to get jealous and she will see love and relationships as a mutual exchange of affection and stimulation rather than something deep and for a lifetime
pisces mars — the dreamiest man, the tenderest lover
there is a strong need for sensitivity and generosity. this placement yearns for a man that is empathetic, sensitive, and gives easily. she needs someone she can sacrifice herself for, but a man who can also do the same for her. she needs a man that is emotionally expressive, open, and honest. a man who is ready to admit he loves her, a man who is ready to show her affection at all times. a man who compliments her and reassures her. macho men who hide behind their masculinity and logic are immediate turn-offs. and while she loves men that are physically aesthetic (sculpted in the face, are muscular/lean, and athletic), she needs someone who can submit to her as she does to him. she needs him to emotionally resonate with her and understand her complexity
and speaking of complexity, the woman needs someone who is willing to envelop themselves in a spiritual bond that is infinite, eternal, and obsessive. clinginess/neediness is strong with this placement; she needs to know she is wanted. she needs to know her man’s desire is her and only her. this can be a very insecure placement, though very nurturing and very loving all the same. commitment is given when the woman feels as though their emotional bond is stable enough to work from. if there is no emotional rapport with one another, the woman will feel vain and empty. to have a happy and loving relationship, there must be an honour and promise to exchange love — telepathically, mentally, emotionally, soulfully. really, she wants a man that can help her achieve the dream of being the perfect prince with the dreamiest, most romantic love
the woman must feel comfortable in giving aid to the man and not feeling as though she’s undeserving of the man. she wants someone to mother and take care of while also being babied. she needs to feel as though her efforts to care for the man are not in vain
she may be attracted to men that are helpless, unloved, and have low self-esteem. she typically plays the “saviour” in her relationships, in which she can “save” her man by providing him with the support nobody else gave him. she may want him to think she’s the only one that could ever love him, although this is a more extreme manifestation of this placement
