It seems like you only have attractive people to your boat and in your pictures. For someone with self-image issues that makes me wonder if I'd ever be accepted into something like that.
I’ve met dozens of ABDLs over the years, a lot of whom you don’t see in any photos anywhere on my blog. I didn’t even know what some of them looked like before we met - we just met. There aren’t any requirements to visit the boat, except that you strike me as normal enough when we talk and, when we meet in public before I bring you back to the boat/my home, it goes reasonably well lol.
I think that those who are confident in their appearance do tend to pose for pictures more, both on my boat and in the community in general, so that’s what you see on my blog, but I’ve had some people most of our community would go absolutely nuts over come visit and not take any pictures - professional/career reasons, etc. - and I’m okay with that.
Also, I will take pictures, and share pictures, of anyone who wants to share them, so there’s that.
‘Z’, whose pictures on this Tumblr are still among the most-reblogged, posed for a few hundred pictures for my blogs but doesn’t actually post any ABDL social media himself. For the many, many comments, messages, and anons I get about him I’ll say that, while most of the people who see his pictures seem to focus on the chiseled physique and other aspects of his body, when we were taking 99% of the pictures we took Z was most pleased with the ones that made him look the littlest. That was the image he was going for, and whether or not he looked attractive in them wasn’t even a consideration to him… he just wanted to share his ‘little side’ with everyone.
I’ve had the opportunity to meet some of the most attractive people in our community but passed just on the basis that they surrounded themselves with shitheads, or because I know from nice people that they’re not nice people. I’ve sat next to people at CAPCON who had no idea who I was as they conspired to exclude people I know. I’ve talked to friends who’ve been ghosted by people who are, at that very moment, messaging me about coming for a visit. Fuck looks if you’re ugly on the inside. The vast majority of the people I’ve had the good fortune to meet here are just nice people all-around. When it comes to who I surrounded myself with, whether they’re in diapers or part of my vanilla life, I make sure I’m surrounded by niceness. You only get once chance to backstab a friend, be rude to a waitress, etc. and you’re gonna walk that fucking plank, no matter where you fall on the looks scale.
When you see pictures of people on the boat, know that regardless of what you may see in their physicality, if they’re featured on my blog in any capacity they’re also nice people. That’s what I see when I look at the pictures, no matter how adorable they might be.
If you’re ever in upstate NY don’t be afraid to hit me up.
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