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mmmmm some girls in ac are really pretty but they arent gay :") idk if you know the ones im talking about. like the ones you see in the halls and think are gay but you hear they arent and its yeah. . .

Agreed! But honestly you never know someone’s sexuality. This “pretty girl” could be pretending to be straight and all that! Just remember to have your gaydar up all the time to sniff out the gay :,)

Or you know, you can make this person gay with your… . gay

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Which admin r u im dead u guys r alive

im an admin who r u hit me up ;;;))))

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Its kinda hard to show affection to my SO in public cuz of the judgement i might receive , what should i do?

That is quite a common problem with queers nowadays, so don’t you fret because this is something that is quite solvable! :D

Communication. Communicate with your partner that it’s difficult to show affection in public. Plus, there are many other ways to show affection! As mentioned in the previous posts, there are varying love languages that your partner may appreciate more than showing affection in public. But in a separate case, if your partner loves to be touchy in public–I suggest the middle way! 

Find the middle ground between you two. List the things that seem Aye-Okay! for the both of you, so that you can remove that predetermined judgement in your head! Or, you know—

Just don’t give a damn. These days people are much more accepting. Don’t worry too much! Also, it’s common for most people to assume you guys are just best friends AHAHAH

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BOO YAH

SO! It has almost been a whole year since we answered the last ask (My gosh, WHY!). With this, we would like to apologize for the inactivity, and we are opening out to more asks again!

Sidenote:

It’s Christmas break and our tired student butts are resting from the tiring semester :,,,,,)! So. .  yes sorry for the long inactivity :( I hope every gay out there finds time to rest (and maybe get your plot twist of 2018)!! Merry Christmas :D

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Whats a great way to show ur affection to your bebeloves or your lover?

Hmmm… I suppose it would depend on their love language/sYou know your SO the best so in the end it’s really all up to you but here’s some suggestions for each (note that it’s in the sense they like receiving that particular love language not necessarily giving it. Like, acts of service; they prefer “being served” as opposed to serving)  Acts of Service - offer to help them out with challenges/tasks big or small- actions speak louder than words Physical Touch- give all the pats (and other stuffs) (with consent of course) - hugs!!!Quality Time- plan a date/ hangout with them; make some memories - one-on-one time!!Receiving Gifts- give gifts (who knew??) - on that note: make sure it’s something they genuinely want/ would be happy to getWords of Affirmation- compliment them on something that isn’t physical (don’t be too cheesy please) - encourage them to do the thing!!GENERAL- do something cute/ unexpected; surprise them- listen to them and care for them - just be you

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so you guys are straight??

some of us are and some of us aren’t. It helps to get a lot of different perspectives 

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Amazles~

smexie 

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Whats your types~ *wink wonk*

Just a short consolidation from about 4 admins: (By no means should this be a basis for what your type should be)  

Personality 

”someone who will love me despite my faults” / Accepting 

Funny

Easy to talk to/ Someone you just click with 

Weird, but in a good way

Inspiring 

Sweet

Interesting 

Physical Appearance 

”Gwapo” 

“Prince-like” 

 Cute

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Do you think its good idea to date your friend?

It really depends. Is your friend interested in you? And, are you, or both of you mature enough for the relationship? You should also be able to give the emotional support they need. Honesty, for me it comes down to the compatibility of the relationship and the maturity of the people going into the relationship. 

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Hewwo UwU Wat is dis O W O

dis is. .  AC QUEER OWO

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H-hewwo U w U Is this seat taken O W O

hh-ewwo. .  if youw wefewwing to us being single then we’re all single except this one admin who has a giwlfwend U w U  O v O

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Any gays in your batch so far?

a lot. just…. just a lot 

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im very confused. i find girls cute but i'm not exactly gay. . ? i know there's difference attractions?

Well, yeah there are a couple different types of attractions like: 1. Sexual attraction     - some things that falls under here are like lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, etc.     - it’s usually defined when you want to get intimate with someone whatever   that may be (it could be intercourse, kissing, hugging, or whatever floats your       boat)

2. Romantic attraction     - this is where terms like homoromantic, heteroromantic, etc. come in     - basically who you want to be in a relationship with without the level of     intimacy sexual attraction calls for 3. Aesthetic attraction    - this is the most common but least understood type of attraction     - it is where someone finds another person pretty/ beautiful usually based   on their physical appearance tl;dr finding people pretty doesn’t mean you have a crush  

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I think I find this girl really cute . . Like we're both pretty close but I'm too scared to confess because idk her sexuality. She's so lovely and I don't want having to distance myself from her. We both like to tease each other so much. I stutter when I say 'I love you' in a platonic way ;-; and she replies with that phrase too. I overthink myself sometimes bc i'd like to think she could like me too. . . ;-;

Aww that’s cute. But yeah, pining for a friend and being unsure of their feelings can suck. I don’t think you have to distance yourself from them though, you’re already close why lose the friendship? If you ever do confess to them and they don’t feel the same way, it’ll feel sucky I won’t lie but it shouldn’t stop you guys from being friends (there’s also the possibility of them liking you back though ouo). Also, her telling you her sexuality if ever they’re on the spectrum will more likely than not come naturally so don’t fret. 

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what if im not gay but like some girls are hot (i.e a few celebrities and some strangers that just look goood) nd i dont find boys to look good at all idfk

Well, there could be a few things-That could just be noticing someone being attractive– it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re gay because someone happens to be pretty–, or it’s just something of preference-or maybe you’re bi/ bi-curious or just something on the spectrum??(it’s up to you though so don’t feel pressured to put a label on yourself)