#aqconfession

[acqueer-blog]

I think I find this girl really cute . . Like we're both pretty close but I'm too scared to confess because idk her sexuality. She's so lovely and I don't want having to distance myself from her. We both like to tease each other so much. I stutter when I say 'I love you' in a platonic way ;-; and she replies with that phrase too. I overthink myself sometimes bc i'd like to think she could like me too. . . ;-;

Aww that’s cute. But yeah, pining for a friend and being unsure of their feelings can suck. I don’t think you have to distance yourself from them though, you’re already close why lose the friendship? If you ever do confess to them and they don’t feel the same way, it’ll feel sucky I won’t lie but it shouldn’t stop you guys from being friends (there’s also the possibility of them liking you back though ouo). Also, her telling you her sexuality if ever they’re on the spectrum will more likely than not come naturally so don’t fret. 

[acqueer-blog]

uhm how do i come out to someone i like.. but im not telling i like them

Firstlly, are you close to this person? Because it would help if this person knows you, or if you’re friends. Since coming out doesn’t  necessarily mean that you  want to say that you like them right away. It depends on how you word it too. Don’t mention anything that gives away that you like this person. .  

[acqueer-blog]

I want to say it.. but i cant

I’m going on a limb and assuming this is either about coming out or confessing so1. Coming outIt’s really terrifying to come out to anyone. But if it goes well, gosh, it feels euphoric. Also, when people come out to me the look on their faces when they get that I’m accepting them is wonderful. But if it isn’t safe for you to come out it’s okay not to especially if it’s your family. Tough it out, it’ll be okay. A lot of people think that you gotta tell others for you to be queer, but you don’t. If you know you’re queer, then you are. Also, if you don’t feel like you’re ready to come out then it’s also okay not to, just do it in your own time and to people you trust. Whatever the case, there will always be people there for you (like us. hi) 2. ConfessingAhhhhh, crushes. Tough stuff. It’s pretty frightening, ‘cause like everything there’s pretty much always a chance things go sour. But hey, you can do it. I think an advice that I’d give is to like really discern about what you do and if you really like that person because there’s a really blurry area between infatuation and loving someone. So yeah, try to figure out the difference (a personal thing i have is if it lasts for more than 3 months it’s more likely to be a crush). There’s pretty much 3 scenarios that could happen (3 generals ones anyways…crushes are v weird) a)You confess, the person likes you back. great!  b)You confess. the person doesn’t quite like you like that. It’s alright, take the no and continue with life  c)You don’t confess. You’ll never know if they like you back or not.