ite shut your assholes listen up bc i HATE when ppl slander my mans blitzo so this is my take
imo i think blitzo is slowly getting character development and i think ppl dont get that fire he caused not only set his crush on fire on accident and he blew up leaving him with scars but also his ther died in that fire and he blames himself for her death and his sister hates him probably for that reason so he also feels guilt for that and his dad idk where he is now but he also hates him too so blitzo being an ass all the time is him just hating himself and thats understandable
and also when he thinks that stolas doesnt like him and only wants to fuck him he is prolly thinking of how when he liked fizz and he wanted to confess to him but the accident happen so he is afraid of liking ppl bc he also doesnt want anything bad to happen again bc when ppl have trauma like that they avoid anything dealing with it like i had trauma with school bc my shit cousin abusing me and shit from elementry school and up until 11th grade and she also controlled where i go and forced me to hate my mother AND now i avoid anything related to school and after 11 grade i dropped,,,i think ppl shld think of blitzo in a psychological way bc yes hes an ass but he has a reason for it and i dont wanna hear any pussy weak ass ppl say "but its still wrong" be openminded cunt and actually take a look at what is happening
also trauma that blitzo had takes literally time to fucking recover from and thats why he is reserved as hell like he can care he does like you saw in episode 7
also little blitzo said he wants to be big in the circus but as he grew up that didnt go well bc of what happened so he went to killing ppl bc its probably an escape and also killing ppl is probably reflecting his hatred for himself so he takes it out on other ppl and OUU also i think since maybe since his mother died bc of what he accidentally did i think him killing ppl is also some sort of control thing like he can control when someone dies bc since his mother died out of his control on accident he yk does that or maybe he just wants kill ppl bc its a connection to the mother in a certain way i feel like his mom maybe taught him how to fight maybe idk but yeah thats also my theories
and also something i want to add is that the reason i think he wants to be in a poly relationship with millie and moxxie is bc its a healthy relationship and he craves the caringness of it but he doesnt want to reveal it bc hes afraid of being vulnerable and he is also jealous bc moxxie and millir is probably a walking reminder of what he wanted with fizzarolli but couldnt so he masks it by being evasive and everyone knows how blitzo is and everyone is use to it so nobody pays no mind and the fact he still likes horses and has horses in his office all around is also bc it reminds him of fizzarolli bc of them playing together so its a coping mechanism for him to keep that close ALSO i think the reason he dated verosika is bc of mommy issues and also he seemed to have a good relationship with his mother and willing to help her and since the dad is an asshole i think he is close to his mother bc yk remember the picture and stuff so maybe dating verosika is why bc its what he was use to
Also, let’s not forget that Stolas was using Blitzø to live out a fantasy he’s had since childhood, where Blitzø would suddenly show up to be the knight to Stolas’s prince. But reality doesn’t work like that, so Stolas does the next best thing in his mind and has Blitzø have sex with him once a month for access to his book.
As a result, Blitzø doesn’t think Stolas actually cares since all they really do as far as the show’s canon is concerned is have sex. So when Stolas “confirms” this in House of Asmodeus, Blitzø actually tells Stolas how he views their dynamic: that Stolas just wants Blitzø to have sex with him all the time. But instead of telling Blitzø the truth (because the truth is messy and because Stolas doesn’t like confrontation), Stolas instead quietly lets Blitzø go, further confirming in Blitzø’s mind that he’s right.
So they stop having sex because Stolas wants to show it’s not just about that (but as far as the show is concerned, they don’t really interact after that except to get Via from the human world and to for Blitzø to come get him while Blitzø’s trying to deal with Loona’s medical stuff). But in Blitzø’s mind, technically he’s okay with being used for sex in one way because he feels it’s as close as he and Stolas will get to a loving relationship. He just didn’t want it “put in his face” in House of Asmodeus that he’s just a whore for Stolas’s fantasies. Whether or not Stolas is doing that, that’s how Blitzø sees it.
Cut to the episode where Stolas is finally ready to tell Blitzø about the Asmodean(sp?) crystal, and Blitzø’s excited to see Stolas again after so many months away. (Because he does care, he’s just afraid of being hurt again.) Stolas immediately tells him about the Crystal and the cancellation of their deal with the book. Then he also reveals he wants Blitzø to stay “if [you] want to”, leaving Blitzø reeling from the information that he’s not right about being just a whore, and that Stolas wants him to be there as an actually companion. But Blitzø takes too long to process this new information and Stolas gets upset and starts to leave.
Blitzø chases after him, trying to say he needs time to process, Stolas doesn’t want to listen, and so Blitzø says he’s not one of Stolas’s imp servants that can be thrown away on a whim. Which, if you watch Stolas’s interactions with his serving staff, he’s not outright abusive like Stella toward them, but more acts like their conveniences or ornament extensions of his house. Which Blitzø would be observant to anytime he went over there for sex. Stolas gets real pissy with that and sends Blitzø out of the house because “[he] think[s] so little of [Stolas]”.
Most Blitzø haters after that episode made their biggest argument that Blitzø couldn’t just be a in a gay relationship with their repressed fave, Stolas. (And I like Stolas and relate to him, but that’s also why I’m so critical of the things he put Blitzø through.) But keep in mind, Blitzø doesn’t HAVE to like Stolas back in order to not be an asshole. He doesn’t HAVE to not use Stolas for his business as equally as Stolas decided to use his childhood acquaintance to live out his fantasies of being saved from a marriage he never wanted.
I don’t ship Stolitz as hard as I did before, but make no mistake. It’s because of Stolas, NOT Blitzø. Blitzø has made his mistakes and has had to deal with them. It’s time for Stolas to grow up and do the same.
Sorry for any errors, I just woke up and I’m too lazy to proofread. 😂