Hey Ada Kabeer Aash here dear both.
I would like to ask a hard question on the FWB approach many couple follow.
I do understand that the lifestyle is expensive how much we dream does not matter practically expenses are in real and ovious any cpl would not spend from their pocket until they live for this and passionate about it to the core.
But when both party enjoy be it a single guy or girl cpl to cpl instance fun but when cpl meet single if guy then the cpl wife enjoys n if a single girl cpl hubby enjoys so enjoy is happening mutually so what is this paid thing.
A single guy if is richi richi understand able that with out ask also he would gift etc and any gentle person would host the least to validate his or her genuiness but why the cpl asks budget and upfront share charge details why ? You being a cpl would understand that so wish to ask.
They meet they take charge they record n sell that's also charged that's fine who wish to buy they buy buy fun person showed up guts courage n dare to fun which normally people back out and do time pass n all they showed up still why ?
It would really help others to understand the phenomena
Do not get me wrong it's not a question or interrogation it's a desire to understand your state of mind and thought behind this approach
Hi Ash, Glad to hear from you.
You won't believe me for how long I was waiting for this question to be asked publicly.
So basically in summary, why do we charge you, asked right?
Here, let me shed some light on the facts to help you understand this. No, We dont take take charge to earn out of it, thankfully we're capable enough to earn out living from professional sources that it doesn't even matter for us. But here's a question: since Ada is best at her thing, why should we do it for free?
Ok, let's try doing that for free as we used to do long back, what happens next? Any random guy will show up. You are never sure if he's a genuine classy guy or just pretending. You don't know if he actually understands and respects this lifestyle, or if he's just there to get free intimacy with a hotwife. Sometimes you can sense he might be thinking that the wife isn’t satisfied with her husband, and that kind of mindset matters.
Then here comes the next part. Imagine we decided to meet someone, he sent us his "wiener" pic, and we liked it, we spoke to him and decided to invite him, we even spent on a hotel, and then he comes, both started having foreplay, then kiss, and then undress, then what? The pic was fake, and this guy is carrying a teeny tiny thing inside his pants? Or maybe the pic was not fake, but he has a stamina of less than 30 seconds? Or maybe he smells bad? Why should we spoil our evening for those guys? Why should we be the only ones to feel disappointment?
And don't forget the number of requests we'd get if we start doing it for free.
Then introduce the benefits factor to it. First of all, I don't understand what's wrong with it. In normal life, your wife or girlfriend doesn’t get intimate unless the mood, effort, and setting are right, your wife also demands gifts, and your girlfriend also demands shopping and a date. Isn't that a transaction? But when it comes to my wife, my time, and my schedule, suddenly money becomes bad?
Why hypocrisy? My wife also deserves to be appreciated, gifted, and feel special with someone she's sharing a bed with, then the amount is her gift, not her salary, it appreciates her, it doesn't buy intimacy.
After introducing the money factor, we can limit the number of people we're meeting. It acts as a filter to keep away jobless and unserious people and brings only those who value it. That's how you get better quality meetings. We intentionally keep it high, so not everyone can afford it. We'd rather meet 1 good guy a month for a higher amount than 20 random guys who ruin our schedule, work life, and family time. And even if something isn’t clicking, we won’t be the only ones disappointed.
And then at last, even if something isn't clicking, we won't be the only ones to be disappointed, we'd have a bad experience, and he'd have a bank balance entry.
Then why sell videos you ask?
Glad you asked, we started making videos and posting in 2019, posting for free on xvideos and all,
Then in 2022, February we made our website and posted everything there for free for the next 2 years without a break, no money, no paywall, no barrier, just click and see, but you know what happened?
People would download our content and sell it on Telegram.
Do you understand how that feels? I arranged a meeting, I bought a camera, I booked a hotel, I filmed it, I spent my entire weekend editing it and masking faces just to get admired, and people are making money out of it just by downloading it?
That means our content is worth money, and if people are willing to pay, then why give it to someone else? We're creators, we must get paid, or it should be universally free, free thing didn't work, hence now it's for a fee.
And also, we don't film each meet we do, we only film if the guy explicitly asks to get filmed.
Hope that solves some of your queries.
If not, keep asking other couples.
Have a good day…
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