Owned by Ramme24

nsfw, 18+

[masterenigma25-deactivated20170]

[adara80]

[adara80]

[iceman2210]

[spoiled-lil-kitten]

Thank you for owning me. Thank you for using me. Thank you for taking charge of hard decisions. Thank you for encouraging me. Thank you for giving me pain. Thank you for making me laugh. Thank you for all the orgasms. Thank you for guiding me to success. Thank you for training me. Thank you for protecting me. Thank you for pushing me. Thank you for holding me when I cry. Thank you for making me cry. Thank you for snuggling me. Thank you for our adventures. Thank you for your Dominance. @1-sadistic-lover

[adara80]

@ramme24

[bellamaletale]

[firefly-flashes]

“What are you thinking about?” he asked. 

Startled, I looked up, but he shook his head, gesturing for me to put my head back down. “Don’t move,” he directed. “Just tell me what you’re thinking about when you’re kneeling there at my feet.”

“You,” I said automatically. “I’m thinking about you.”

“But *what* are you thinking about?” he asked again. “Tell me more. Tell me everything. Just talk.”

I took a deep breath and closed my eyes. The floor was hard under my knees. I could feel the warmth of his body standing over me.

“Be specific,” he insisted. “I want every little thought. Just talk and let the words spill out.”

This was harder than I thought. The words were a knot in my throat, choking me with their insistence. I opened my mouth, but they wouldn’t come and I felt tears well up behind my eyelids. 

“You’re thinking too hard,” he said. “We need to get you out of your head, tonight…”

[adara80]

[mrjcb]

Protect her. Lead her. Guard her.

It doesn’t matter if you’re five-foot-six or six-foot-five. It doesn’t matter if you’re skinny or fat. It doesn’t matter if you’ve got $1 or $1 million – there is a circle on the ground around where you stand. This is your land and your kingdom. Own it.

She should know that the moment she steps into your circle, she’s safe. She’s yours. When you touch her she can feel it, so touch her often. Direct her. Guide her. Lead her.

Put your protective hand on her back and let her feel the safety of belonging to you. When going through a doorway or into a building, or crossing the street, she’s constantly under your protection and guidance.

Grab her wrist and lead her where you want her to go. Physically move her body. Clear the path in front of her.

Tenderly put your hand on her cheek and look into her eyes. Tell her that she’s yours.

It doesn’t matter who’s around. Stop, look at her, and place your hand on the side of her neck. Give her a moment of total peace and solitude of knowing that she’s yours, no matter where you are and no matter what’s going on.

When you’re sitting next to each other, put your hand on her thigh. Grab her wrist and squeeze it tenderly. Hold the palm of her hand in yours and let her feel the warmth of your guardianship.

Inspect her body. Move close to her and brush her hair out of her face or loop it behind her ear. Look at her. Check her out. Stroke her cheek softly with your thumb.

Grab her hand and kiss it. Reassure her. Kiss her on her forehead. Kiss her on her cheek. Show her that you’re always watching.

Firmly grab a fist-full of her hair and look into her eyes, then look down at her lips. Rub her lip with your finger and gaze at her.

You don’t have to be in the bedroom to make love to her entire body. Show her that she belongs to you and that being at your side is her rightful place.

It’s difficult for us as men to comprehend what this really means to our ladies in their deepest cores, and it’s easy for us to underappreciate the magnitude of it. I’d love to hear input and different perspectives on this. And please feel free to add to this list with what makes you feel safe, whole, and protected.

[kattvicious]

[thegingerpowers]

That person who is by your side when you are sick, tired, angry, boring, and not in the least interested in fucking.  Tumblr can be fun and even ego boosting but don’t lose sight of the preciousness found in reality. In other words, (the words of Red Foreman) wake-up dumbass! Kiss the woman sitting next to you instead of flirting the night away with chicks who only fawn over you because they don’t actually know you. 

Signed: Your precious jewel

[yournaoko-deactivated20150502]

[haughtyspirit-deactivated201607]

Some might say,

a Man should never bow or kneel.

To which I would reply, the Man that fears falling to his knees,

is a man without faith nor a Man that is real.

A real Man will feel deeply and cry for another,

take care of family, love and honor his mother.

He will have strong values and stand up for what’s right,

and not feel diminished to walk away from a fight.

His character shines true, he lives with respect,

taking time to listen, ponder and reflect.

He means what he says and says what he means,

and finds life’s injustice, distasteful and obscene.

Never one to diminish, he’ll look you in the eye,

speak words that are kind truths and never hurt with a lie.

The strength of a Man is in the things he says and does,

in his faith in himself and in the ones that he loves.

Placing others before himself, being no better than the rest,

though in other eyes, his character is what truly stands out best.

Fearless and steadfast, he protects what he loves,

a firm hand, gently holds you close, never angrily shoves.

His value is found in people, not in life’s petty things,

and having one true love to hold, is how his soul sings.

[erotic-karma]

Wonderfully stated.

[rebelangel1102]

This is beautiful. If only more “men” were real men.

[feed-the-fire-in-me-deactivated]

Dominant values...

I’m a very petite girl.  Under 5 foot.  I can’t reach anything… least of all the shelves in my cupboard.  I HATE taking the time to get my step stool so I pretend I have the super power of being able to grow a few extra inches at will and try to reach as best as I can.  Sometimes my super powers go on the fritz.

Last night I was up on my tippy toes reaching to put away a serving bowl. My fingers slipped and CRASH! The bowl came plummeting to earth and smashed into a dizzying array of glass shards.  This damn bowl must have been made out of an alien material because I have never seen anything shatter so spectacularly before.  Millions of long, thin shards spread out everywhere! I’m sure some managed to land in the front yard.  It was insane!

I’m barefoot and still standing on my tip toes.  I’m not going anywhere.

Me:  G!  Help!  I’m stuck!

G:  Oh, sweet Jesus!  Don’t move an inch. Do. Not. Move.  I’ll make you a path.

 He breaks out the trusty vacuum cleaner (the broken glass blocked the way to the broom) and starts clearing a path.  After awhile, I see the light of freedom and make my break.  I planned to put on some shoes and finish the cleanup. After all, it was my mess.  I’ll clean it up, right?  Nope.  That’s not how G saw it.  He continued to vacuum the whole pantry and the entire kitchen.  Then he swept it with the broom.  He knows I run around barefoot and he wanted to make sure there wasn’t a speck of glass left to hurt me.

Being dominant isn’t just about rough sex or having a girl to be at your beck and call to please you.  At it’s core, being dominant is protecting and cherishing the one you love. Compare it to a mama bear protecting her cubs.  Last night, G’s display of dominance could never be pictured in these glossy pics shown on Tumblr.  A man with a vacuum cleaner?!?  It isn’t sexy enough.  But, trust me when I say that he exhibited the core values of a dominant and I found it to be incredibly sexy!  This is what dominance is really about. All the rest…is the wonderful icing on the cake! 

And, damnit, that was one of my favorite bowls!

[verabeert]

She wants him to pick her up, take her away with him, make her feel safe and never let her go. She understands his power to hurt her, but he has her trust and she believes it will never be betrayed. THE POWER TO HURT ll © Mark-Paul Teunissen

[taramysweetlove]

<3

[art-of-domination-deactivated20]

What are some of the best non contact punishments? Looking to expand a little more with that thank you

There are several effective non-contact punishments that you can use.

1) Corner time.

2) Writing lines. For example, let’s say your sub was supposed to send you a picture every day and she failed to. You could have her write 25 times, “I will send Sir a picture every day.”

3) Denial. Obviously this can go to orgasms but also you can take other things away too.

4 Restraint. You can restrain them uncomfortably in a position for a certain period of time.

One punishment that you should never, ever use is the silent treatment. You don’t ignore your sub nor tell her you will not be speaking with her for a proscribed period of time. That is cruel and not appropriate. That is never an acceptable or appropriate punishment. You’re not a Dom if you use this. You’re an asshole.

Hope this helps. Thanks for writing.

[littleharleyquin25]

Keep seeing a lot of “ignoring” posts in the community as of late…. Doms, don’t do this 🙈 most subs already have a lot of internal turmoil… Don’t add to it by emotionally torturing them😳 I find ignoring or any form of attention with-holding as a punishment, to be very horrible and from a personal note, it’s a trigger! I find it torturous 🙈

[faceslapping1]

Tips for faceslapping women

- Find her tolerance limit: First hit her softly and then gradually increase the force of each slap if you see she can take it. - Always make her close her mouth before the slap to avoid her teeth cutting inside her mouth during the slap. - Always hit her in the jaw. Never close to the ear (audition loss hazard), nose (bleeding nose harzard) or eyes. Any hit above the cheekbone (around the eye) will give her a black eye. - If you wanna slap her hard in one cheek, then is useful to support her other cheek with your other hand. This is done to avoid a strong “whiplash effect” on her head. -Avoid slapping her as a punishment/discipline. She has a fatty butt and some sensitive thighs that can be used for that purpose. Those are much safer to hit than her face. Use them. - Never slap her with anger.

A good slap puts a naughty girl immediately in her place. It makes her shut up immediately so it’s really effective against a back-talking girl. Normally it brings instant tears of submission. But it can be a severe tool, so it must be used with care.

Remember: Women are delicate beings and they are easy to break. Better play with your toys without breaking them… so you can keep on playing!

Cheers

;-)

Javier

[instructor144]

Boost. This is actually a pretty good primer on slapping, something one doesn’t often see addressed.

[fuckmethroughthesheets]

I have such a thing for being put in my place.

Like if I get too demanding or forget to say please or don’t ask nicely you should absolutely (like please for the fucking love of god) follow it up with a sharp slap to my face or my cunt and an, “Excuse me? You don’t give the orders here, little girl.”

Like god. Not that I need reminding - but please don’t ever stop reminding me that you’re in charge.

[onelittlekingdom]

D/s 101: If you call yourself a Dominant, don’t do this stuff...

You have adopted a title that should come with a giant heaping dose of honor, respect, and trustworthiness. 

1. Don’t make demands of submissive girls that don’t belong to you. You should know the difference between having the ability to control your own submissive, and how you should be treating all the rest that don’t belong to you.

2. Don’t talk intimately/woo other submissives behind the back of the one that belongs to you. All the time and energy you have to put into the submissive world should be aimed at your own submissive. If you want a different submissive, do the right thing, and break with the one you currently own first.

3. Don’t ditch submissives. How would you feel if the person you depend on for nearly everything suddenly went up in a puff of smoke, and was never heard from again? How would it effect your ability to trust someone else to take up the same role in your life? Stop ghosting, and ruining perfectly good submissives. 

4. Don’t cut your submissive out from contributing to your relationship. Yes, I know she put you in charge, but relationships evolve, and if you don’t attend to what she wants out of yours, your relationship is likely to evolve in separate directions. You can still be in charge, and listen to her wants and needs, I promise. 

5. Don’t ask someone you just met to be your submissive. It’s your job to inspire her to submit to you, by getting to know who she is, and showing her that you are the single most qualified man to be her Dominant. Don’t be lazy. Being a Dominant takes a lot of focus and energy. If you’re not up for that, go find another title to adopt. 

6. Don’t put your submissive on a shelf when caring for her is not convenient to you, and take her down off the shelf when it suits you. Submissives are human beings, and though some of them like to be treated like objects from time to time, they should not be ignored when you don’t feel like dealing with your relationship. If you don’t have to the time and energy to adopt the role of Dominant for someone, then don’t do it in a half-assed way.

7. Don’t compare your current submissive with past submissives. It’s not a competition. You should be making her feel like she’s the most important person in your current world, so don’t make her feel like she’s less than other submissives, or that you’re pining for something you no longer have, and feel you can’t have with her. 

8. Don’t skimp on the essential ingredients in D/s relationships. Don’t be that guy who limits your submissives safeword in any way. A safeword is the difference between consensual sex, and possible rape and abuse. Don’t skimp on aftercare. Let her know how much you appreciate all the control she continuously allows you to have over her, and how well she is performing for you. It’s the difference between a proud and happy submissive, and a sad and confused one. 

9. Don’t make unilateral decisions that your submissive is directly opposed to. You don’t get to decide your submissive needs a sister because it suits you to have a second submissive to play with, when it’s patently against her wishes. Once again, it’s her relationship too. 

10. Don’t lie to your submissive. It’s all about trust. It’s trust that inspires her to submit to you. It’s trust that inspires her to allow you to continue to hold her submission. One or two breaches of trust, and it all falls apart. 

JD🌹

[adara80]

For all the newbies. Jerks. Wannabes. And general douchebags with no moral compass