Constantly Overthinking

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“Everything that’s happening to you is supposed to be happening to you. So just relax.”

- Chris Martin

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Psychology says, always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that’s the one that is going to help you grow.

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You can’t go back and change the beginning but you can start where you are and change the ending. - C.S Lewis

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You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing things with logic. True power is restraint. If words control you that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass.

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You are most powerful when you are most silent. People never expect silence. They expect words, motion, defence, offense, back and fourth. They expect to leap into the fray. They are ready, fists up, words hanging leaping from their mouths. Silence? No.

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I want you to be the one I come home to every night. I want to spend our weekends on the couch, adventuring, visiting family, and doing whatever we want. I want to go grocery shopping with you, dancing in the living room and kitchen and everywhere. I want my nights to end with you and my days to begin with you. I want all of that. I want the stupid fights that don’t matter but end up having awesome makeup sex. I want you to be the person if I get stuck out in the middle of nowhere with no gas. Its just I am not the best version of myself and I have been working on that and I have improved but I need to learn not to be jealous or at least not as jealous.

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One of the worst mistakes a woman can make is wasting years of her life waiting for a man to grow up.

Word Porn

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At some point, you have to realise that people can stay in your heart but not in your life.

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I acted like it wasn’t a big deal, when really it was breaking my heart.

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I’m not crying because of you; you’re not worth it. I’m crying because my delusion of who you were was shattered by the truth of who you are.- Steve Maraboli

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You’re going to realise it one day- that happiness was never about your job, or your degree, or being in a relationship. One day, you’re going to see it- that happiness was always about the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart. Happiness was always about being kinder to yourself, it was always about embracing the person you were becoming. One day, you will understand. That happiness was always about learning to live with yourself, that happiness was never in the hands of other people. It was always about you. It was always about you. - Bianca Sparacino

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I know it's hard to let go when you know they are no good to you. I know something inside of you keeps telling you to hold on, but don't feel too bad for feeling the way you do, for wanting more, a way out. People consist of coming and going. They are made of memories and dreams. So moving on shouldn't be such a terrible thing and letting go of people who don't care shouldn't be so hard. So move on, but do it for yourself and no one else. Do it because it is the right thing to do. Do it to heal. Do it to prove to yourself that you're worth saving. Do it because you love yourself more than anyone else and lastly, do it because deep down inside of you, you know that you deserve more.

r.m. drake

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Of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these, ‘it might have been.’

John Greenleaf Whittier, Maud Muller

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“I want my feelings for you to go away, but I don't want them to.”- thoughts

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“I always wonder what the words ‘I love you’ would sound like coming from your lips. But of course, I will never get the chance to know.”

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My mind says to let go of you, but it feels like I'm cheating on my heart if I try to move on.

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Someone asked me recently how to get over someone that was never truly yours. And I’m not sure how to answer that question. Because there is no closure, no moment of relief, no moment of relief, no acceptance of what has come and gone. You don't get to take down the photos and delete the messages. You don't get to give away his old sweater and rip apart the ticket stubs. There is nothing there. Nothing to hold onto and nothing to let go of. No birthday cards and no anniversary presents, no roses or valentines chocolates, no favourite songs and no go-to date night movies. There’s nothing there. Nothing at all. It’s just one giant “what if”. And I still haven't figured out how to let go of the “what ifs”.”