Son. Brother. Husband. Father. Nerd. Bow tie aficionado. Undergrad admissions dude at Penn State. Musings: some random, some poignant. This is my personal site, but will most certainly include some work ramblings.
I dig my toes into the sand, The ocean looks like a thousand diamonds, strewn across a blue blanket, I lean against the wind, pretend that I am weightless, And in this moment I am happy. Happy. #OCNJ #McBrayVacay2018 #happy #beach #BeachLife #BeachBum #Incubus #WishYouWereHere (at Ocean City, New Jersey)
Coffee on the deck, followed by a great ride to and from Sea Isle City. Loving this place! #McBrayVacay2018 #CoffeeZombie #OCNJ (at Ocean City, New Jersey)
So this morning I was walking into the Undergraduate Admissions Office here at Penn State, and I saw a colleague standing on the steps with her cell phone pointed towards the flowers beside the building. “Ingrid”, I said, “what are you taking a picture of?”
Got an AWESOME delivery from my #BrotherFromAnotherMother (aka, @nwalkermusic) today. Check out “Winter’s Waiting” on all of your favorite music platforms NOW. Thank me later. #BlameItAllOnLuck #FitsPerfectly #SoSofffffft #Spotify #AppleMusic #iTunes #AmazonMusic #tshirt (at Huntingdon, Pennsylvania)
It’s been great to be a Terp for the last few days! The University of Maryland staff have been fantastic hosts, and I’m really looking forward to seeing Northwestern next year! (But, it will be nice to be back HOME in Happy Valley!)
Saturday #RoadTrip with the #Bean to #Tutu in Bridgeville for some shiny new Freed pointe shoes. #DancingBean #Freed #Ballet #Pointe #DanceDad #HangingWithTheBean (at Tutu)
Shortly after my dad passed away in 2014 (!), my mother gave me the truck that belonged to my him. It’s a glorious 2004 Ford Ranger that he really loved. At the time I didn’t think that I would need a truck, but as it turns out it has been quite a useful vehicle. Here is a shot of my son and me spreading a bed-load of mulch:
I don’t drive the truck everyday, but the Wife and I drive separately to work at least once each week - and on those days I take the truck. This provides me about 90 minutes of time in the cab (45 minutes to- and 45 minutes from work), and the factory stereo is really sub-par. So recently I decided that I was going to upgrade to a nicer head unit (with the future possibility of making an upgrade to nicer speakers).
I picked out a new Pioneer FH-S501BT head unit because it was reasonably priced, and had Bluetooth capability (one major criterion for me was the ability to connect my phone to listen to music on my commute). Here’s the step-by-step project that I undertook...
First, here is what the factory deck looks like:
So to start, I ripped it out (gently, of course). The bezel around the factory stereo has a couple of hidden screws, and once they were removed the whole thing popped off quite easily.
Then, I carefully slid the stereo out of the dash:
Once I had the old stereo out, I had to figure out what the purpose was for each wire in the dash. To accomplish this, I used my dad’s old analog multimeter to determine which wires held current from the battery - one for a constant current, and one for when the engine was running. Once I had that figured out, I used a wire diagram that I found online:
After mapping all of the wires, I connected each one to the wire harness that came with the new Pioneer head unit:
Next, I turned my attention to the new stereo unit itself. I had to get an aftermarket frame and faceplate to connect to the stereo:
However, it made the face of the stereo larger, and it would no longer fit nicely in the bezel where the old stereo was. SO, I had to get creative.
After donning my mask and ear-protection (okay, they’re headphones - but they worked quite well to dampen the noise), I fired up my rotary tool. I put a grinder bit on it, and then ground away the inside edges of the bezel so that the new stereo would fit nicely inside:
After making a lot of noise and a lot of mess, everything came together quite nicely. I slid the new stereo into the dash, plugged everything in, and gently replaced the bezel:
Lastly, I fired it up - and man was I pleased! After fiddling with the instructions for a bit, I was able to successfully pair my phone via the Bluetooth connection. In minutes I was rocking out to some D’yer Maker:
I think that the blue lighting is particularly cool.
So, with a great sense of accomplishment - and a feeling that my dad was hanging out with me the whole time (even though he would NOT have enjoyed the Mos Def playlist that I had going during the project) - I cleaned up my mess and took a shower.
Nevermind that I had already accomplished several loads of laundry and next week’s grocery order before I started.
Thoughts from the floor of the Bryce Jordan Center
For years my dad both encouraged and pestered me to get a master’s degree. He didn’t really care about the discipline in which the degree would be based, rather he figured that it would help me advance my career. At no time was this pressure greater than when I was a stay-at-home-dad.
I had convinced myself that I was always too busy (or perhaps too lazy) to grab the proverbial bull by the horns and start taking classes. Then in May of 2014, my dad passed away. Ouch.
Maybe it was just the right time in my life (unlikely), or maybe dad’s passing was the motivation that I needed to get things moving. In any case, in the fall of 2014 I started taking coursework at Penn State (duh, where else?!) toward an M.Ed. in Higher Education. I saw the writing on the wall that my dad had been correct; getting an advanced degree could be a boon for my career, and perhaps might open some doors that would have otherwise been closed to me.
I took one course each semester (including summers) for ten terms. If I had it to do over again, I might double-up some of those classes to help expedite the process. That said, many semesters I found that I could likely only handle one class, when combined with the rest of the stuff in my life.
One of the big realizations that I recently had was that I was working through my graduate coursework, my job suddenly became much more difficult and taxing, as the University was implementing a new enterprise student information system. I guess I should have listened to my dad all those years ago. Still, while I didn’t necessarily notice at the time, it was quite challenging - and quite an accomplishment to work through that process.
I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the overwhelming support that Melissa provided throughout my entire journey. Both she and my awesome kids have been so helpful and I am forever grateful for their love and support.
So, here I sit at the Penn State Graduate School fall semester commencement ceremonies. As of a few days ago, my final grades were, well finalized and today I had my degree officially conferred.
That’s right, I’m now a MASTER. Here’s what it feels like in my mind:
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