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How to be Gender Fluid
Go through dysphoria
Donāt experience dysphoria
Shave
Donāt shave
Wear frilly dresses
Wear suits and vests and bow ties.
Wear sweatpants and sweatshirts
Paint your nails
Keep your nails hecka short
Cut your hair
Have gorgeous long flowing locks cause ādamn kid, you fineā
Use masculine scents
Use flowery scents
Learn to walk in heels
Be way too diddly dang clumsy for heels
Be a feminist
Stay home and bake pies
Go to pride parades
Stay in and read books
Change pronouns
Donāt change pronouns
Go to the club with friends
Go to the coffee shop and read alone
Bind
Donāt bind
Down with the patriarchy
Be the patriarchy
Be religious
Be a witch
Be ignostic or atheist
Be Thor
There are no cookie cutters or guidelines to identify people. You do you and live your life. The only things you are required to do to identify as gender fluid/ neutral are as follows:
Shower
Brush your teeth
Be nice
Wash your face
Seriously though, wash your face
Be comfortable with who you are.
Notice I said comfortable not confident because gender is scary and itās okay to be scared
Be fucking nice.
Did I miss any? Letās not decide what someone else is feeling.
Things got a little too real today.
Fvck it
I decided that Iām tired of being depressed and anxious so Iām not going to be that person anymore.
Iām going to condition myself to be exactly the person I want to be. Fuck it.
Just fuck it, ya know?
Iām not going to be sad. Iām going to be the best me I can be. Like hippie meets punk. Because fuck it, why not?
2019 is not the year I wallow in self pity for twelve months at a time.
(I am not in danger. Promise. I will be okay.)
My anxiety is bad.
Some days, itās all I can do to get out and do the thing.
Trying to be a good mother when my son is faking behind the curve.
Trying to be an author when my books arenāt selling.
Trying to be a good wife when I canāt handle bein an adult.
Itās hard. Itās so hard.
Tonight itās bad. Worse than itās been in weeks. Tonight, I just want a billion cups of coffee and to stay up crying all night.
Tonight, I know Iām spiraling out of control and Iām on this collision course with the mountain and I know I just need to let myself fall and Iāll be better tomorrow.
Iām not a danger to myself or others. I am safe.
Right now, I just want to quit. I want to go back to the job that put me in the lowest point of my life. I want to delete all of my social media accounts, cease all marketing, remove my books from amazon, box up all of my notebooks and pens and literally just quit writing.
This sounds like a pity party and maybe it is. IDK. What I do know is that Iām tired of an uphill battle with some dildo up there throwing boulders down and other people dumping on me.
Iām just so anxious and I canāt stop it. Thatās the worst part. My books have part of my soul in them and if people donāt like the books, maybe they donāt actually like me.
I knew I was about to spiral down and now its happening and it hurts worse than I thought it would.
I guess I have a lot to think about tonight.
2019 Book Release Schedule
2019 Book ReleaseĀ Schedule
With 2018 now vastly behind us, I thought I would take a day to talk about the book releases ahead. (I could have put it in with the 2019 Resolutions blog coming next week, but then it would be one great big blog)
2019 is going to be a big year for us! Both as a family and a business. While 2018 marked my first year with published books, 2019 is the first full year (the year that makes or breaksā¦
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11 Facts About The Dragon Prince
11 Facts About The DragonĀ Prince
I am back from my hiatus! If you follow me on social media, youāll know that we have a new bundle of joy and a new house. Needless to say, writing was back-burnered for me. But now Iām back and working twice as hard on marketing and building our brand.
Now onto the important stuff: I am launching a book next week! Those of you who have read āThe Wolf Queenā will be extra excited, because this isā¦
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Social Media for Introverted Writers
Social Media for IntrovertedĀ Writers
āBut then Iāll have to deal with people,ā I whine as I pull the blankets completely over my head and roll over enough times that Iām encased entirely in a teal cocoon.
Iām pretty introverted. Iām perfectly content to spend hours by myself, doing my own thing. That doesnāt mean I wonāt go out for coffee with friends. (Iām a writer, I LOVE coffee). Nut one of my defining characteristics is that Iā¦
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My Writing Playlist
Iām one of those people that really has a love hate relationship with silence. I want it to be quiet and I enjoy my alone time writing, but I also hate when itās too quiet in the house.Ā
With NaNoWriMo coming up, I decided it would be a great time to share what I will be listening to when I need a recharge.
Unstoppable by Sia ā super uplifting but also with a slow chill vibe
Gasolina byā¦
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Reblog if youāre LGBTQ+ or support it, have a cat named Valerie, or want to violently fling yourself into the void
The Surprising Truth About Being A Fulltime Writer
The Surprising Truth About Being A FulltimeĀ Writer
Iām now two months into being a full-time writer and Iām definitely feeling it. Between all of the burnout, wedding planning, baby adjusting and moving, I feel like I have honestly started to spin my wheels.
This article is for anyone who is considering quitting their job and pursuing a full-time writing gig. Buckle your seat-belts, because itās a tell-all roller coaster.Ā
1.) Marketing andā¦
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NaNo Prep #4: Awesome Secondary Characters
NaNo Prep #4: Awesome SecondaryĀ Characters
Something that Iāve talked about before but is still brought up from time to time is how fleshed out my secondary characters are. Iām going to let you in on a trade secret.Ā
Every person that you meet has a life as deep and complicated as your own.Ā Why wouldnāt your secondary characters?
The secret to making secondary characters feel incredibly real and relatable is to give them aā¦
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Mental Health Conversation Starters
Mental Health ConversationĀ Starters
Most of us have been there. Youāre having lunch with a childhood friend and something just seems off. They seem sad or distant or lost or like they are trying too hard. You know you should do something, but you arenāt sure how to address it.Ā
Mental Health Awareness is something I support whole-heartedly. I fully believe that everyone should have ready access to the help and support theyā¦
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Tom Holland does Rihannaās āUmbrellaā on Lip Sync Battle
Iām literally zendaya reacting like he didnāt have to go that hard and yet..
every time i watch this when the reveal hits and he starts dancing iām likeĀ āoh ok that aināt a big deal heās just another celeb doing a gimmickā but somehow by the end of this video without fail i am filled with respect for him and zendaya for being likeā¦a powerful gen z couple who both give off chaotic bisexual vibesĀ
i think itās the irreverence with which he splashes the waterĀ
that was a classic that was a classic
Itās a good time to remember that Tom Holland is a trained dancer and that initself is a gift
Heās trained in ballet, too, which is what makes this even funnier. I saw a video (also with Zendaya in it) of him doing like, fifteen fouettes in someoneās basement. GET A MAN WHO CAN DO BOTH.
I FOUND IT!!
Never not reblog Tom Holland and Zendaya!
If you were a gender fluid disaster Bisexual, where would you have put your sports bra?
Update: I found it.
Nano Prep 3: Characters
Nano Prep 3:Ā Characters
Creating characters is my favorite part of writing a new book. Your little mind children growing and developing and, while you can guide them in the general direction you want them to go, but they kind of develop a mind of their own.
There are several ways to build your characters. Iāve tried all of the methods and have to say that they all work well for me, but they may not work forā¦
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My Self-Care Routine
Between marketing both the blog and my books, writing (and rewriting) entire novels, packing up our house, making dinner, keeping up laundry, washing dishes, taking care of the dogs and preparing blog posts DAYS in advance, I donāt have a whole lot of time to myself.Ā
If I wanted to take time to myself, one of the above mentioned tasks was usually pushed to the back-burner and left thereā¦
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