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is there a variation of "the axe forgets but the tree remembers" where the axe remembers but its playing the victim and downplaying how the tree feels

#listen this did not happen to me irl ok

capnofake

had this in my gallery for MONTH now and i decided that i MUST upload this

luigraphics

Icons and banners from Silhouette AC (a great resource for finding silhouette graphics btw!!) some of these were slightly edited by me&.

catmask

i think that interestingly enough media made for intended for children (as someone who both enjoys it and creates it myself) has made it so people expect real life harm to be presented in the form of antagonists rather than an action that can be preformed by anyone, to anyone else

by this i mean, rather than accepting that abuse is something anyone is capable of enacting unto others, 'the abused' and 'the abuser' are two starkly opposed character roles people fall into, one who is only capable of receiving harm, and one who is only capable of inflicting it

it makes it so that, within this dichotomy, people become so convinced of their own harmlessness and their own helplessness that they believe themselves truly incapable of hurting others at all. so that if you were to point out the ways their actions are currently causing harm, they would fall back into this belief that its impossible for that to be true, because they themself are a victim, they are GOOD, so the person 'opposing them' (pointing this out, or setting a boundary) must somehow be BAD

if the disclaimer is even needed, im a victim of domestic abuse and a csa victim numerous times over. this is not an accusation so much as an observation of the world around me, and the systems of harm we are all capable of slipping into.

pawberri

I'll be supporting the strike and avoid posting art this week, but I'm hesitant to share donation links as we know most aid is stuck outside palestine even according to Bisan. Call reps and strike and protest all you can in any way you can

pawberri

I wanted to share the information I found on eSims. This article lays out the pros and cons and explains the complexity, but also makes it clear eSims really can reach Gaza.

Amid blackouts and wrecked infrastructure, eSIMs are being used to try and stay in contact with the outside world.

Mirna El Helbawi is one of the journalists who began eSim fundraising. Here's the newest info she posted on what eSims they are needing the most.

From Jan 24th

They need sims from these sources more than the Simly app currently, it seems.

Here are further info graphics from El Helbawi

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I am someone who is very paranoid but I believe this is verified and reliable. If you send proof of donation, I'll do my best to draw a doodle for you. Ill also make my own donations.

Let's continue to fight for human rights 🇵🇸 Millions of people are trying to survive and need our support

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i love it here on the learningblocks wiki

nochocolate

asriel: how his behaviour points to a case of abuse

(undertale spoilers)

love, hope, and compassion: these are what monster souls are made of. these three virtues can be a major strength, but also a huge vulnerability.

many times we see love being taken advantage of in close relationships: parents guilt-trip their children, spouses are passive aggressive to their partners, and children will victimise themselves to earn favours from their friends. these techniques are so commonplace that nearly everyone has experienced manipulation in one way or another, sometimes without realising it until much later.

in extreme cases of manipulation, the victim will exhibit subtle symptoms, also known as red flags. these quiet clues are often the only way to recognise someone is a victim of emotional abuse, yet they often go unnoticed by friends, family, and even the victim themself.

asriel dreemurr exhibits many of these symptoms of abuse both as a child and as flowey.

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