crowbar into the pecking order

wicked woman with vicious ambitions; anatomical nightmare of flesh and hair and nerve endings

[afabhysteria]

hey-o

[afabhysteria]

it would greatly enrich my life if i was never heard chris fleming’s name or saw his face or found myself forcibly reminded of his existence in any capacity ever again

[doomtribble73]

A woman wearing the traditional clothes of a "cholita" skates during a skate festival in La Paz, Bolivia, on September 30, 2020. These young women wear this traditional clothing as a statement of their pride in indigenous culture. #

Gaston Brito / Getty

[user87262893]

It is a dangerous and ill informed idea to conceptualize the men who are incels/red pills/alt right/rape threat senders/online-vile-woman-haters as neckbeard losers who live in their parents basement who's only interaction with women is their waifu body pillow.

This may be true for some of them.

But the rest are our peers. They're teachers, and hiring staff, and HR, and managers. They are healthcare workers, and therapists, and handymen, and bartenders. They're policeman, and politicians, and judges, and policy makers.

Their lives are not without direct impact on our own. They exist among us, and their decisions inform our opportunities, environment, and quality of life.

These men are not outliers, and they deserve our full criticism and concern.

[afabhysteria]

i still don’t know what a “fancam” actually is and i have no desire to find out

[sliversoakley2-deactivated20210]

[afabhysteria]

i still haven’t seen terminator: dark fate but just by looking at mackenzie davis and linda hamilton and natalie reyes i already know, barring something truly repugnant like sexual violence or a woman getting killed off for shitty/stupid reasons, i will not care if it is objectively godawful; i will love it anyway

[7244395]

Literally how does anyone get into astrology when people try to tell me things about myself that aren’t true I go into a blind rage

[afabhysteria]

the internet is nothing but a vehicle for my being recurringly reminded of the mcelroys’ continued existence against my will

[corpsemo]

Roach purse

[cisoid]

[afabhysteria]

male supremacy and degradation of women are infinitely more central to male gender conformity than any other component, including heterosexuality

[afabhysteria]

the ultimate act of male gender non-conformity and the only kind i can be fucked to care about at this point is shutting the fuck up and listening when women are talking

[afabhysteria]

seeing people refer to travis mcelroy as some vulnerable "GNC man" makes my brain detach from my spinal cord and bounce around my skull in a frantic bid for freedom. guess 50% of the straight men in toronto or any other artsy/hipsterish urban core are disenfranchised Gender Non-Conformings

[afabhysteria]

god how does a 58-year-old man announcing he ""just wants to be in girl mode"" not set off every fucking alarm bell on the planet. that specific incredibly creepy choice of words is not incidental or neutral

[afabhysteria]

i still like his music (though i mostly avoid listening to it these days) but i don't trust john darnielle at all for pretty much the same reasons i don't trust lundy bancroft at all

[the-gift-deactivated20211017]

You Make My World a Better Place to Find (1996-8) by Dario Robleto.

“For the past two years I have been secretly collecting lint, thread, etc., from friends, acquaintances and strangers (for example a piece of lint on someone’s shoulder, a hair hanging on a forearm.) I have connected all this debris into one long thread which I then spooled. From this spool of debris I repaired a blanket, a tiny pair of mittens, sewn buttons back on, repaired tears in clothes and various other things.”