men always believe that an existence without them would leave us unhappy and borderline helpless when in reality, it’s nothing but a projection of their own inadequacy
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men always believe that an existence without them would leave us unhappy and borderline helpless when in reality, it’s nothing but a projection of their own inadequacy
It's almost like something happened in 2020-now that is causing these problems.
ignoring everything the pandemic response specialists were saying was good for the economy tho. State governors and federal agencies with no medical experience and no economics education told us so
"no reliable data" What A Curious Coincidence. I Wonder What Might Have Been Happening In That Period To Cause Such a Thing
Before the pandemic, scientists discussing how Covid had the potential to become a global pandemic were ignored.
During the lock-down, scientists discussing how Covid is an airborne infection were ignored.
After the lock-down, scientists discussing how Covid would get worse if governments ended quarantine precautions were ignored.
Now, scientists discussing the long term effects of Covid on the human body and beyond are ignored.
All of this ignorance was a deliberate choice.
So much death and disability could have been prevented, we knew how the whole time.
It could still be prevented now, it is not too late to stop going down this path. We could save lives to try to make up for all those lost and all those we will lose if we don't change course.
Do your part: Wear an N95 mask. Get educated on airborne pathogens. Advocate for the disabled. Push for public health to be seriously.
I'm so, so, so tired of court/cop/etc shows adding a the-guy-is-actually-innocent-she-lied-about-the-rape-"trope"
it's a disgusting piece of pro rape propaganda, you're suprising no one with this tired tale of patriarchal fantasy
women are manipulative, men are cunning
women are bossy, men are take charge
women are hysterical, men are righteously angry
women are overreacting, men stand up for themselves
and men keep on telling us that we shouldn't make a fuss, about language, about violence, about anything
"just stop being so hysterical - it could be worse (read: if you don't shut up, we will make it worse)"
The biggest contribution to the whole narrative of "Your teenage years/young adulthood is THE BEST PART of your life" comes from a culture that insists on trapping at least half the population in unfulfilling marriages with kids they weren't ready for, or didn't really want, at a point in their life when they haven't even figured out who they are and what they want from life.
So of course the part of life they long for is the part of life where everything is in flux and you don't know what will come next, it leaves open the opportunity to choose a different path.
Older adults telling you that this is as good as it gets are not speaking from a place of experience, they're speaking from a place of regret.
If you can't criticize a particular woman without resorting to female specific slurs, I will never believe that you actually take issue with what she's doing; you just found a target for your misogyny
I don't know how to deal with the fact I'm the only woman in my family that isn't wearing a bra
and not in the way of "I'm the only feminist in my family "
but in the way of "my grandmothers are no longer able to recognize that they have to wash themselves, and clean themselves, because they wet themselve, but they still remember to put a bra on"
more about bras because, apparently, even though I stopped wearing them before I even hit 20, now 10 yrs later, I still have visible arthritis in my shoulders (came up as an observation for smth else, and it's not causing issues as of yet, but it really took me by surprise; now imagine what it looks like if these things are worn much longer; now imagine how it would look like if we didn't encourage wearing smth like this while the body is still in an extreme developmental stage)
when I was younger I used to wonder when and why exactly my familie had stopped the whole "no one will want to marry you" nonsense in response to misbehavior, or just plain "unladylike" behavior, because I can remember that being said to me early on and my grandma finally answered the question for me
apparently as soon as I was old enough to comprehend the idea of heterosexual marriage this threat had the exact opposite effect
if you do X you'll never marry -> cue my child self doing exactly that repeatedly and on purpose lol
now, this has extended to my nices, too, btw, because I see them every day and they love me and model my behavior, too, so no one is coming at them with this kind of crap either 😊
not for nothing, but being know as the hard line feminist has some perks(in countries that have at least some protection enshrined into law and social consciousness established to some degree)
usually men expect you to back down once you've voiced your opinion, and if you do, it won't put a dent in their worldview
however, if you make an effort not to fall back onto your female socialization, they usually will back down(in public at least, everything spoken between men can't be known)
and the public thing is what will matter in the long run when it comes to jobs, payment etc(and it is likely to work out if you DON'T TAKE IT BACK the second a higher ranking person walks in)
so, as of now, there is a considerable number of my male colleagues that will point out the misogyny of a new guy and will cut him off before I have a chance to hear about his disgusting opinions in the first place(and I only know about it because other women tell me about it happening after the fact)
shame can work in our favor, so don't leave this tool in the hands of rapists
you know, I've been doing this for years now, and it really shifted my work environment for the better
It sure would be great if men could stop comparing the creation of an object through craftsmanship to carrying and birthing a human being
do you say "by accident" or "on accident"
by accident - north american english speaker
on accident - north american english speaker
either way - north american english speaker
by accident - non-american english speaker
on accident - accident - non-american english speaker
either way - accident - non-american english speaker
on accident - non-native english english speaker
by accident - non-native english english speaker
either way - non - native english english speaker
other (explain in tags)
i was told this might also be an age thing, so also tag your generation if you want
Hey. If people aren't aware, Microsoft admitted they know who you and where you are at all times and will give your info to the police.
They have a Global Device Identifier (GDID) Tracker that functions as a fingerprint for your PC that can surpass VPNs, proxy servers and countries. Although it can't survive a clean reinstall of Windows (it can survive updates), because Microsoft forces you to go to the internet and log in into a Microsoft account, they will be able to get to you.
Microsoft kept it secret and it was only found out when the FBI tracked a hacker thanks to the information Microsoft gave them.
You should be paying attention to this, and possibly consider moving away from Windows. If a government, especially the US government, doesn't like you for some reason, this could be seriously concerning.
This article specifically notes:
For journalism, activism, or domestic abuse situations, skip Windows and use Linux routed through Tor instead of a commercial VPN. A GDID doesn’t care which VPN you use, only that it’s still the same Windows installation.
GDID is the persistent Windows ID that helped FBI trace a Scattered Spider hacker despite VPNs. Here's how it works and how to limit it.
Other important quotes:
What has researchers uneasy is everything else the case reveals. Costin Raiu, a well-known malware researcher, asked on the Three Buddy Problem podcast how much of this exists on other platforms, and whether it is linked more permanently to hardware. Matthew Hickey, another security researcher, called Windows “surveillance software”.
Two things back that up:
There’s no consent screen. A GDID gets assigned when you sign into a Microsoft Account. Apple’s advertising identifier needs an App Tracking Transparency prompt and a visible reset; Android’s works the same way. GDID has neither, and a Windows reinstall only gets you a new number Microsoft can still get back to the same account.
Then there’s activation. Massgrave, the group behind Microsoft Activation Scripts, notes that Windows setup sends hardware info to Microsoft and gets identifiers back, the same tokens later used for Store access and licensing: “It’s impossible to prevent Windows from getting a GDID without breaking activation and UWP app[s].” Anyone who lost a license after swapping a motherboard has already met a smaller version of this.
I have a suggestion
I keep seeing people saying they will "eventually switch to Linux if things get worse".
So? Why am I hearing crickets?
It seriously cannot get worse than this. Microsoft straight up openly admitted that Windows is spyware by definition. They know who you are, they know where you are, they know what you are doing on your computer at all times. VPNs don't help, they can still see and save everything. You cannot turn it off. It is full on surveillance and it has been going on for months without you knowing because there was no consent screen ever.
What ELSE are people waiting for? Even websites focused entirely on windows are telling you to use Linux, essentially accepting the fact that they will lose readers if people follow their advice, because they cannot in good conscience recommend using this OS anymore. This cannot realistically get any worse. I can already see myself eating my words bc Microsoft will find a way to make things even worse but you get what I mean.
This is horrible and needs to be fought with more than ‘just switch to linux’. Genuinely what are people who have to use programs dependent on Microsoft software only supposed to do in this situation? I have used a LOT of OS and open sources options and there a lot of people who deserve privacy who neither have the technical know how or means due to certain professions (ex. I work in the world of academia and cannot afford a second machine just for work AND my work SHULD be aloud to be private. I’d have to quiet my career at this moment to detangle from Microsoft). We need tech privacy advocacy and movement NOW for the people that goes beyond ‘lol this is bad and it’s a personal responsibility just figure it out yourself.’ Tech illiterate and professionals deserve cyber secyrity and privacy.
Sometimes I’m looking for something online - often “how to” articles - and I want to filter for - like - a website that was clearly built in 2010 at the latest, which may or may not have been updated since then, but contains a vast wealth of information on one topic, painstakingly organized by an unknown legend in the field with decades’ worth of experience. I don’t want a listicle with a nice stolen picture in a slideshow format written by a content aggregator that God forgot. I want hand-drawn diagrams by some genius professor who doesn’t understand SEO at all, but understands making stir-fries or raising stick insects better than anyone else on this earth. I don’t know what search settings to put into Google to get this.
thank you for articulating this cri de coeur for me
ngl these days i’m just happy when it’s not a video
search.marginalia.nu is the search engine you want!
The search engine calculates a score that aggressively favors text-heavy websites, and punishes those that have too many modern web design features.
This is in a sense the opposite of what most major search engines do, they favor modern websites over old-looking ones. Most links you find here will be nearly impossible to find on a regular search engine, as they aren’t sufficiently search engine optimized.
“It is a search engine, designed to help you find what you didn’t even know you were looking for. If you search for “Plato”, you might for example end up at the Canterbury Tales. Go looking for the Canterbury Tales, and you may stumble upon Neil Gaiman’s blog.
If you are looking for fact, this is almost certainly the wrong tool. If you are looking for serendipity, you’re on the right track. When was the last time you just stumbled onto something interesting, by the way?
I don’t expect this will be the next “big” search engine. This is and will remain a niche tool for a niche audience.“
i clicked around for a few minutes searching various things and I now have two fourteenth century pie crust recipes and an apple filling recipe i want to try, so thanks!
it has been twenty minutes and I am deeply in love with this search engine.
INCREDIBLE. I *do* want to know how to test Windows 95 for Y2K Compliance and I am glad that someone is still hosting step by step instructions for that.
tl;dr: search.marginalia.nu for the old or old looking and just plain serendipitous stuff that google or Duck duck go are gonna not find/bury on the 20th page. For perfectly good reasons, but …
My absolute favorite part of having made this post - other than causing people to be introduced to this site - are the people in the tags/comments talking about their interests and stuff they found about their hobbies.
Good luck out there surfing the cyberweb, you crazy cats. I love the shoelace website too - Ian’s Shoelace Site [link], unless there’s another. My personal favorite old-school site is Alysion’s string figure collection [link].
"Verrohung", "Vertrauenskrise" Brudi, dich mag seit über 20 Jahren keiner 😭
The older i get the more i understand why some people become obsessed with privacy, not because they’re hiding something, but because being constantly perceived starts to feel spiritually exhausting.
Did you know that soda machines at restaurants and movie theaters spy on you? That most common new cars now record your sexual preferences and send it to the manufacturer (and also data about anyone who also gets in your car, walks by your car, and maybe happens to be within visual range of your car)? That grocery stores are trying to force customers to download an app to scan barcodes on shelves instead of putting up prices, so the app can scan the phone, decide how much that customer should be squeezed for, and adjust the price? That more and more innocent people are being sent to jail for crimes committed hundreds of miles away because an AI facial recognition algorithm spit their faces out and the cops didn't bother to do the most basic of checks?
I am not uptight about privacy because I'm hiding something. I'm uptight about it because the people who dismiss my right to privacy are dangerous to you and me and our families, personally, all the time.
And often, they are assholes, too.
Punkto der Causa Leihmutterschaft und Jens Spahn: Es zeigt, dass ein bloßes Verbot der Leihmutterschaft innerhalb eines Landes nicht reicht. Diese Dienstleistung, die das Produkt namens Kind hervorbringt, müsste als Menschenhandel eingestuft werden, wodurch sich dann die Käufer als wissentliche Nutznießer von Menschenhandel überall strafbar machen.