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Thoughts on the movie “Pillion”

Pillion, the movie from A24 a year ago, is finally available to stream on HBO.

It depicts one type of gay D/s relationship.

First of all, I’m sure to some people it is great just for the representation. To see that kind of lifestyle. In one scene, a man is wearing a chastity device. Which may be the first time one has been blatantly seen in a regular movie. I don’t know.

However, for folks who are very into the version of BDSM where you negotiate everything out, go over safewords, kinks & limits, the movie doesn’t have that & so it is not a depiction of that type of BDSM world.

The movie is based on a book called “Box Hill” that I have read and it is no surprise that the book is far better. The book ALSO does not contain negotiated BDSM at all, but it does show one type of relationship where one is in charge, and one is submitting, and they are both getting something from that.

The book is far more bittersweet & to be honest, I hated the way the movie changed literally every scene it took from the book & I hated the scenes the movie adds.

The book is so much more fulfilling, because you can see inside the protagonist’s head. The sub. He never knew he liked this & he found that he absolutely loved it. He loved being treated that way & worshipping the ground his Dom walked on.

His Dom took great pleasure in the relationship as well & the book hints that the Dom loved the sub. It is very clear the sub falls in love with the Dom, which is portrayed well on screen.

I think both actors did a great job with the script they were given. I take issue with the way they tweaked Ray’s persona from the book to the movie. In the book he is portrayed as far more happy go lucky, rowdy, dashing. In the movie they decided to make him stoic & at times, cold. I think this is a huge disservice because you cannot really see why the sub would fall in love with him.

They do not portray Ray (the Dom) as someone who has intensely taking a liking to the shy Collin & taken him under his wing as a sub, not just to control him but to protect him & at times, be his best friend.

It is my biggest complaint from the film. To be fair, the movie does give Ray his moments of playfulness & boisterousness, but they are so infrequent Vs the book version.

One reason among many that that is bad is because, hey, we’re talking about representation here. To be a dom you do not need to be cold, harsh, stoic or stunning. Sure you can be. But it’s not needed.

I do like that they kept the part of Ray’s personality where he is patient, and I liked that they kept that Ray didn’t need to explain things in detail. There was no list of rules or protocols. He simply told Collin one by one as it came up the things that Collin would do. And Collin did them. Simple as that.

The book is a bittersweet exploration of what it means to discover you are a submissive & to ache and yearn for that.

Highly recommend the book. The movie is…well…I guess you can’t have everything. At least we have some depiction of what one type of D/s male relationship looks like in a mainstream release.

⭐️⭐️My Saturday⭐️⭐️

Sir had asked me to clean up around my home and pretend it’s his home.

I’m going to let y’all in on a secret. Me and chores ( cleaning ) have a love/hate relationship. I like doing them in theory but for the past few years I just stopped. I only do what absolutely has to get done.

But having a man to clean for, well, that just gets my little fag brain excited.

He also wanted me to wear a penis ball gag. It’s actually one that he picked the first time he was my dom. Like he told me to get it. It’s a black ball gag with a relatively hard rubber dick on it. The dick isn’t even that big really it just makes you have something in your mouth constantly.

And he wanted me plugged. He picked my soft penis plug which is soft yes but size wise is the second largest plug I have. It’s the biggest if you take into account that the neck of the plug doesn’t taper back down to nothing. It’s about the size of a nickel or a quarter maybe. So it keeps your hole open. Unlike the other plugs I have which have little stem necks.

So it’s Saturday right and I douche & put in the plug & strap on the gag and start.

And right away I was mad. The longest I’ve ever worn that gag for was maybe twenty minutes tops. But it’s a difficult gag to wear. It makes breathing through your nose impossible and it rubs your throat and palate constantly. And I was drooling all over everything I was trying to clean.

I was transparent with Sir I told him. It was making me a little angry like the frustrated type of angry when…like playing a video game and a level is just NOT fun because the developers decided to be jerks. And you’re like “ugh”. It felt like that.

But he allowed me not only a very short break from the gag but he instructed me make sure I put it in looser, so I could get used to it. And he was right. Wearing it looser made it easier to breathe and it increased my drooling actually but I figured out how to move so I was mostly wetting my shirt.

So then I was really enjoying it. Imagining I was cleaning up Sir’s house while he kicked back and relaxed on a Saturday morning.

Until about 90 minutes in. That’s when the gag REALLY started to bother me. God what a shitty slave I am. I messaged him for mercy and he let me take it out and

Holy shit

my jaw hurt. Even worse to try and close it. The pain at least faded into a tightness ache quickly. But I was shocked. In all the gay BDSM stuff I’ve ever read, I never knew if you wear a ball gag eventually your jaw adjusts to being open and your muscles hurt to close.

But nevertheless I thanked him for his mercy and for the opportunity to stretch my jaw which obviously needs it.

I kept cleaning. Bathrooms. Kitchen. Laundry. Sending little clips to him as I worked.

And then about 3 hours in, my man pussy was burning from that stretch. Once again I messaged him for relief. He did make me beg on my knees in video but he granted the removal of the plug.

I looked at the whole thing like this: for ME, the primary focus was cleaning as if I was cleaning his house. Secondarily I was trussed up a bit for his erotic viewing pleasure. And I think his priorities were the same.

Overall, I just hope I made him happy. That it was a successful day for him of training his faggot.

Submit and be free. You have yearned for it, that sense of freedom that can only be achieved when you fully give yourself over to a superior real Man.

Thank you, well said.

Mutual had a question in the comments that I would like to address. Cause it’s a really good question.

These are the reasons why I trust Sir. I’m sure not every reason would be as valid for everyone else. And I know many people would take all these reasons and still not be good with taking the chance I am. But here they are:

1. He gives me authentic vibes that are hard to describe, but very different from every other Dom I’ve had. There is an element to his dynamic where he is saying “I own you, but I have your best interest at heart, I owe you protection.” I’ve had other Doms try and say that verbatim in the past and it meant nothing. Here, Sir does NOT say it verbatim but he shows it.

2. Here is an example. He has offered to take care of things himself in the past, for me. When I served him the first time & I wasn’t sure how to negotiate with my own husband, Sir offered to do it for me. And not in a sinister way. But in a way that said “this is ridiculous. My faggot is stressed out and I will not have that.” Because he is a man. He sees it as his JOB to protect what he owns, me.

3. When I was having trouble lining up the holes to pee on a chastity cage, I threw out the idea of an insert like a short catheter and he immedietely said no. He said the risk is too high for injury or infection. When he collared me, we discussed rather I should tuck it in or not, as he wasn’t willing to risk getting me in trouble at work IF indeed it would have been an issue.

4. When I feel like a failure who can’t keep a gag in for hours and hours or I mess up, he sees it as training, growing. Perhaps there may be consequences depending on why I failed, but everything is for a reason. He never ever gives the impression of pretending to be a sadistic strict master, just a normal man who needs the control of TPE & is willing to train me in what those needs are.

5. It may be indeed that he has a whole host of unnamed kinks & experiences he is going to make me do. I have agreed to obey and I have trust he is going to help me do them when I am scared, because he has already shown me many times I can be honest about whatever I’m struggling with so he can get me through it.

6. He had no qualms at all with showing me what he looked like via snap chat quite a few times. Anyone who has read my blog knows that I am pretty judgy about doms who refuse to show themselves but expect the sub to show themselves. It’s not that the relationship should ever be equal, it’s that NOT having the balls to show yourself is so insecure and I don’t like serving an insecure man.

7. He is open and honest about every single thing I ask. Could he be making it all up on the fly? Of course. But I don’t think he is. I think he is genuine & in talking to him there almost this sense of…like I NEED to serve him because he is so authentic and such a good man but simply cannot find a real fag, only people who want to “play” at TPE for a short time and then ghost him. Even I am not exempt from this. I had to leave twice. But I did not ghost him, he is all too aware of my situation.

8. I can tell that for every weakness I have, he is my strength for. And at the same time, I am a strong person in my own right. I am disciplined. When I did quit, I had the courage to be raw and honest with him. I have the courage to be raw and honest with him now about what I am and what I need…to serve him. I had the courage to share this journey with my husband where so many others hide it. I had the courage to share it with you all. I had the courage to tell my husband “this is what I need to be happy” and I do not take potentially hurting him lightly.

What I struggle with is what we all do “is this what i really want?”

9. he is the ONLY dom I have ever talked to at ALL who is so honest about wanting TPE and if you guys didn’t know..surprise!!! The T in TPE is TOTAL. Not this, not that. TOTAL.

He is honest that that is what he wants right up front & yet he talks to me sometimes with such shocking playfulness & gentleness. I’m 45 years old and I’ve never had anyone treat me like this. As if I belonged to them, I was precious to them and at the same time I better damn well do whatever he asks.

10. As availability for us both allows, he texts me all day long. “Good morning sir”, “how are you fag?” Etc. I’ve played with doms who insist their availability is XYZ and do not bother them outside of that. That is FINE if that’s what you both want. Sir had to train me out of thinking I was bothering him with questions or just talking. This dynamic is supposed to simulate, as much as we can online, that I’m under his watch. That I am behaving as he tells me to.

11. We do have completely normal, not kink related conversations. This is building something much more than just kink, get your rocks off, etc. He is just not like any other dom I’ve ever served or talked to.

It is an amazing experience and opportunity and so yes. I trust him. I appreciate you wondering and looking out @ryeholderx . Just remember I am choosing this, and I am a fag, but I am strong. I know the potential for damage if it goes badly but I am taking that risk because it is worth it to me to finally be happy & while I am serving him, it feels like I have a purpose: make him happy.

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Should know better than to touch your clit while your man fucks you. Don’t be greedy. If he tells you to touch it for his visual pleasure that is one thing. If he wants to touch it, of course it belongs to him so he can do what he likes. But otherwise you are there to provide him a warm pussy to ejaculate into.

Listen to me.

I cannot be your advisor on how to do safe sane consensual whatever the thing is. If you are online looking to learn about kink BDSM roleplay, please do not look to me for a model or a guide.

Please.

Because I am not JUST somebody who blogs hot pics or fantasy photos or wants to act out a kink scene once or twice a month.

Doing all of that is not better or worse, there is no moral judgement. Each human must do what it takes to be happy. And each of us will find our happiness in different ways.

What I am saying is, my happiness at its core…is reliant on me giving up my time, energy, identity, autonomy…to please another man. In a way that I think most people would be highly uncomfortable admitting or setting into motion.

Any amount of autonomy, privacy, free time, etc….that I have is at Sir S’s discretion. And since right now we are only online & he is experienced, my best guess is he builds slowly. Which means adding in new elements as well as taking away from autonomy & privacy, as he sees fit.

And it is not without purpose. If every moment of your life is literally in the service of another, you have to accept that you will be conditioned & trained for what that person needs & wants.

That’s what this blog is now. Please please please think about it before you emulate this. As blissfully happy as I am finally having Sir S’s ownership over me, I am terrified. Because both of us know potentially how far I would go to please him. I trust him to have the restraint to know what I can take each moment as we progress.

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Sex is for Him. But don’t be embarrassed to show him how good his cock feels inside your pussy.

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Weekend Property - part 2/3

The second part of the story has been finally approved and is now avilable! Have fun!

As usually, here is a preview:

Finally he sped up, twisting just right on every upstroke. “Cum,” he ordered, simple as that. You did. Hard, messy, ropes hitting your stomach and his hand. But right at the peak he let go completely, ruining it. The orgasm rolled through you weak and frustrating, pleasure without the full release, leaving you even needier than before.

He wiped his hand on your thigh, then picked up the cage again. “Back on.” You whimpered but didn’t protest. He locked it snug, electrodes settling into place. A quick test zap made you yelp. He grinned. “Perfect, now clean this” pointing at the poodle of cum under you. You turned around and a shock to your dick made you immediately stop moving.

”Where the fuck are you going?” He asked sharply.

”To get a mob, Sir.” You replied.

”You have a mouth, and it works, no?” He said.

Only cum with permission

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He decides if you need that release, if it suits Him, increases His pleasure in sex or deepens your bond to Him and His power and glory. Your orgasm is His now. To cum without permission is selfish. Don’t be selfish.

Submit. Give. Sacrifice. Hold it.

Wait till He tells you.

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“Shh! It’s done. You belong to me now. Accept it and have no regrets. I would have taken you regardless. It’s better that you submitted willingly.”

“You feel it, don’t you - my cum inside you. It’s in deep, becoming a part of you. Making you mine. You were a good girl and took it all. And it was a lot. Hold it in you. Show me how thankful you are. I know I hurt you but your pussy was so soft and wet and tight that I couldn’t control myself. I’m only just beginning. I’m going to make you a shivering, moaning, whore for my dick. You’ll get wet at the sound of my voice and be happier than you ever imagined, with less control over your life than you ever thought you’d give up.”

I have realized something in the last 36 hours or so. Since Sir S took me back. I’ve realized that this time is totally different from any other previous experience. This time feels like honestly, the first time I have really & truly submitted.

It means that a lot of things I have conditioned myself to, I have to undo. For instance, trying to figure out how to do things, whether it be tasks, or as simple as “what should I wear?” are ingrained into how a person functions.

It is a very welcome challenge to undo that. If I am scared of a task or command, my mind automatically begins to craft ways to “soften it” or “get around it”, and I am actively stopping that. Instead I ask him & I wait patiently for his answer.

There is no need to wonder about how to do something. There is no need to try and “top from the bottom” because I have full faith & trust that when he wants something or is ready for me to do more, he will tell me.

Yesterday he had me find my silver link chain with the padlock and put it on. I am not to take it off. Yes I bought it myself but do you know, not a single other Dom has ever asked me, of their own initiative, to wear a collar of any sort? Did you know that? Do you know what means to a fag? To wear a collar symbolic of being owned?

I also had my box (the last one for now) from Stitch Fix. I showed him and wore each item and he chose what I kept and what I am returning. And I was delighted. I do not care what I found cute on me, I only cared what he wanted me to keep & wear.

He had me show him my collection of cages & chose to keep me in the small black one I locked myself in on Sunday.

He asked me how my workouts were going. I said “they aren’t. But I plan on starting next week…” and he responded “no. You’ll go four days…” and he picked the days “and you’ll start tomorrow”.

An unbelievable sense of relief washed over me. He made that decision for me. He is allowing me to choose my own routine.

He asked about my meal prep. He wants my belly gone & I am committed to making that happen for him. I don’t need to care whether or not I like it, or who else finds it hot. He wants it gone. And it will be.

He told me to meal prep on Sundays. Did he set my diet plan, my calories? No. And that speaks volumes. He is implying that he trusts me to pick a routine that will work, and a diet plan that will work. He has enough faith in me as a fag that I can do my part to make his command become reality.

During my day, I am 98% blissfully happy. I am finally owned. At moments, yes, I admit a wave of panic will wash over me. “What have I done?” I will think. But I sit with it. I remember how long I have wanted this & simultaneously run from this.

I will not quit again. I will be Sir S’s slave for as long as he will allow me to, and I am so grateful for the chance to serve him. No one else’s opinion matters, not even mine. That is a commitment I am making to being owned.

I do have trust in him that he knows what is best for me, that he knows what I can handle and when I can handle it.

Furthermore, I am committed to making this as fun and rewarding for him as I can. I seek only to please. He allows me to let my personality shine with no acting, no fake-ness.

I still remember way back in November 2025 when he texted me one day “you should smile more in your videos, I know you like this”. The way a guy might tell a girl “smile”. It hit me deeply. That one simple text. And that’s the way he is with everything.

He deserves to have a faggot who is happy & gleefully, gratefully performing whatever task he gives me. And that’s what he will have.

I do what he says because he says it.

Because it’s what he wants.

He does not need a reason.

Yes, many times he is kind enough to provide a reason. But he doesn’t owe that to me. Not at all.

Trying to find a reason, make sense of something, that is for the man to do. That’s a man’s job. To make sense of the world. A fag’s job is to just do what their man tells them to do. I’m owned. I do it because he says so and that is the only reason I should need.

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Getting rid of all my briefs. This is a jock only household.

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Take that faggot💦💦💦

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