1. Honor his Manhood at all times, in and out of bed, in word and action.
2. Don’t make Him doubt your love for Him. Do whatever you need to so He can feel it, and can feel your adoration and your presence even when He is not near you.
3. He can always count on you.
4. You build Him up. It is not your place to criticize.
5. You sacrifice your needs in order to help Him fulfill His. He comes first.
6. You encourage Him to go after His dreams no matter how arduous or unlikely they might seem to you. What do you know? You’re just His wife.
7. You don’t compete with Him. You defer.
8. You are a great listener.
9. You are a natural caregiver.
10. You pick up the reins in areas of your life together where He doesn’t have the time or bandwidth. He has important things to attend to. He is ALL you have to worry about helping and serving.
11. You anticipate His needs without His saying a word.
12. When He is in a stressful situation, your presence Him more at ease. You add to His well-being even at the cost of your own.
13. You motivate Him to do and be His very best.
14. He can trust you completely.
15. You can trust Him completely
16. You do whatever is necessary to be a positive influence on His life.
17. You bring Him up when He is down.
18. You know when to give Him space. You shut up. You don’t add to His troubles
19. When others have deserted Him in a time of need, you still stand with, beside and behind Him, publicly and privately.
20. He feels just as safe with you as He makes you feel with Him.
21. You take good care of the household, always putting home first: clean, neat, organized, meals He enjoys on the table, snacks and drinks He prefers stocked and available, clothes laundered, cars maintained, garden and yard well-tended.
22. You follow His directives, mold yourself to His stated preferences and follow through on His instructions fully, promptly and without hesitation.
In short, LOVE, HONOR AND OBEY.
You are the manwife. You add to His well-being, support and respect His superiority as your Husband and devote yourself to Him and only to Him, so help you God.