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Dakilang second choice

[akositadhana]

Pandaaa!

[themariamanunulatx]

Alam kong hindi tama. Pero mahirap kasing itigil.

Maraming tao ang ganyan. Isa na ako doon. (via mariamanunulat)

[love-personal]

[israelmekaniko]

Hello po. Possible ba na kahit higit 1yr ng wala kayong communication ng ex mo, eh naffeel mo or may instinct ka tlga na ikaw pa rin ang love niya?

Hindi intinct ang tawag diyan. Isa yang ultimate proof na hindi ka pa talaga nakakamove-on at nasa Umaasa-Stage ka pa rin.

[akositadhana]

Vape on ☁

[akositadhana]

1/17/16 Sobrang memorable. Sobrang saya. Sobrang nakakataba ng puso. Sobrang unforgettable. Sobrang sayang saya. Sobra sobra. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[akositadhana]

Mas maganda pala kapag biglaan yung lakad, mas natutuloy hahahaha. Saya naman hahaha sayang lang hindi kami pumasok sa loob ng skyranch. Ginabi na kami eh. Biglaan nga kasi hahahaha. Sayang hindi kasama si M, hay.

Gusto ko na magpalisensya para ako na mag dadrive. At para madala ko din pa school tapos pede ko din mahatid si M, charot HAHA. Sana maulit tong biglaang lakad na ganito tapos ako na yung magdadrive :)

[israelmekaniko]

13 TIPS KAPAG BIGLA MONG NAKASALUBONG SI EX

1. Wag na wag lilingon. Paganahin lang ang peripheral vision. The degree of paglingon is equivalent to lalim ng pake. Ang unang lumingon siya yung hindi pa nakakamove-on.

2. Don’t initiate a conversation hangga’t hindi ikaw ang unang kinakausap. Yan na yung ultimate chance mo para magmaganda.

3. Wag bigyan ng malalim na kahulugan ang malalagkit niyang titig kapag bigla ka niyang nakasalubong. Hindi yan ‘love the second time around.’ Gusto ko lang ulit niyang tikman sa huling pagkakataon.

4. Kapag nakasalubong mo siya somewhere, try to look at his hands real quick at hanapin kung suot pa yung promise ring ninyong dalawa. Kapag suot pa, casualan na. “Hoy kumusta? Long-time no sex ah.” sabay lip-bite.

5. Kapag nakasabay mo siya sa jeep, magbayad ulit ng pamasahe. “Manong. Isa po dyan sa bente. Estudyante. Masayang-masaya at nakamove-on na!”

6. Kamustahin mo siya without any bitterness. “Akala ko ba gusto mong maging malaya? E bakit mukha kang bihag?” Tapikin sa balikat sabay walk-out.

7. Kapag nakita mo siyang nakaharang sa pila ng MRT, “Excuse me. Can you please…move-on?”

8. Kapag nakasalubong mo siya kasama ang bago niyang jowa, magpanggap na dedma. Wag ipahalatang tinitingnan mo siya mula ulo mukhang paa. Bawal lumampas ng 3 seconds ang titig mo. Baka magself-pity ka.

9. Kapag  tanaw mo na agad si ex malayo pa lang, mag-ayos, paputukin ang blush-on, tumingin ng diretso, at hawiin ang daan.

“Excuse me. Dadaaan ang babaeng sinayang mo.”

10. Kapag nag-hi siya, mag-hi ka din. Tapos unahan mo na agad ng tanong, “Uy, bakit nasa Earth ka pa? Akala ko ba you needed space?”

11. Wag mag-attempt na sundan o habulin siya. Naghahanap ka lang ng sakit sa puso at paa.

12. Kapag nakita mo siya sa coffee shop at tinanong kung bakit andun ka, simple lang, “Sabi mo kasi mamamatay ka kapag nawala ako. Anong petsa na? Kapeng-kape na ko!”

13. Kapag nakasalubong mo siya kasama ang bago niyang jowa, ngiti lang kahit pilit. Ulit-ulitin ang mga katagang, “Mas maganda naman ako sa kanya” ng hindi tumutulo ang luha. No choice ka kundi irespeto ang ginawa niyang pangangaso.

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Pero siyempre mas masaya pa rin kapag nakasalubong mo siya na alam mong wala ka ng kahit anong galit o natitirang pagmamahal. Hindi man kayo naging magkaibigan, atleast, alam niyo na bahagi na lang kayo ng nakaraan ng isa’t-isa na hindi na pwedeng balikan.

[mriejvsmn]

Just hold on we’re going home~

[myheartissailingaway]

Open When Letters Topics and Ideas, Best Friend Edition

So another person asked for help (privately) with these topics for their open when letter to their best friend. And I thought it would be nice to share my answer, in case others wanted to write some too.

Open when…

you’re worried about future – remind her of all her accomplishments and that if she can do all of those amazing things then she can handle almost anything the future has in store for her

you feel lonely – list all the people who love and support her. Remind her that she is always able to contact you or someone else on that list if she’s feeling alone

you need a hug – insert a picture of you guys hugging or a really small teddy bear that she can hug

we’re arguing and it’s my fault – write an apology letter stating how you are sorry and that you patch things up

we’re arguing and I think it’s your fault but it’s still really my fault – same as above

you miss me – their favorite photo of the two of you, a matching bracelet or trinket they can carry with them so a part of you is always with them

you’re sad – a picture collage of all of her favorite things and have some cheesy quotes to help cheer her up (ex: photos of cute kittens, puppies, etc)

you’re mad at me – list all the reasons why she loves you and why you have been best friends throughout the years

you’re sick – a small pack of tissues, some cough drops, some tea bags

you need motivation – a collage of all her inspirations. ex: pics of her at her dream college, job (put her face over a doctor or whatever profession she wants to be in), city to live in/other goals she wants to achieve to help her visualize her goals

you had a bad day – her favorite candy in fun size

you need a pick me up – same as above

you’re doubting yourself – tell her to write a pro and cons list to help reassure her in whatever decision she is making

you’re overthinking – same as above

you’re having a hard time with people – remind her of similar situations and how she overcame it

you’re handling other people problems – tell her if it is getting too much that there is no shame in taking a step back and letting the person handle their own problems. Remind her that she needs to focus on her own problems before she can help others

you don’t think you’re beautiful – get a small compact mirror and put the words ‘you are the most beautiful person I know.’ Write: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Never forget that bestie <3

you don’t feel appreciated – tell her that even though may seem like she isn’t, she is appreciated by you and you cherish your friendship

you feel worthless – similar as above

you need to rant – write to call you ASAP so you can hear her rant

you’re contemplating hurting yourself –insert hotline numbers so they can talk to a professional if you aren’t available

you feel like I don’t trust you – list reasons why she should trust you and remind her of all the times she has trusted you and the positive outcomes from it

you’re crying – a pack of tissues

you need to laugh — a silly photo of the both of you/her/you, insert some corny jokes

you want to reminisce – small photo album starting with pictures from the beginning of your friendship leading up to current ones and include a sticky note at the end: ‘I can’t wait to see what other crazy adventures we get into’

you need to know how much I love you – list 10 (or more) reasons why you love her and how your life was never the same (in a good way) since she has been in your life

you’re not so sure about us – similar to above

you want to know more about me – tell her secrets you’ve never told anyone or little quirks that people may miss

you’re having a good day – congratulate her for having a great day and wish her many more good days in the future J

you are happy – same as above

you need entertainment – a pack of cards, a small coloring book, markers, her favorite movie

you’re bored – same as above

you’re confused – include a piece a paper with a pros and cons list to help her with the dilemma she’s confused with and to remind her that you are always a phone call/drive away

you need courage – write about a situation when she needed to be courageous and to draw from that strength

you can’t sleep – a mixed CD/itunes playlist of soothing music, add some helpful tips

you’re tired – tell her to get some sleep and listen to your mixed CD

[malditaanginhinyera]

TYPOGRAPHIES, CALLIGRAPHIES, HAND LETTERINGS

Been obsessed with these since I graduated college :)))) hindi ko alam. HAHA! Natutuwa kasi ako. Ang artsy artsy. Bumili pa nga ako nung kay Abbey Sy na handlettering book para malaman ko yung basic tsaka yung mga types ng brushes and pens. Ayun. Sabi ko sa sarili ko mag-iinvest ako sa mga writing materials na pang matagalan. Oo, mahal yung karamihan sa kanila. Pero kung pang matagalan, why not di ba? :)

Then nakita ko yung blog ni Cheska (theilustrado). Nag back read ako. Nakita ko yung mga gawa nya, nainspire ako lalo kasi ang colorful ng gawa nya. May mga sinusuggest din syang materials to try para sa ganitong hobby. Ang cute nga e. Ang dami nyang sources tapos mura pa yung nabibili nyang mga notebooks/pads. If hobby nyo din yung ganito, follow her for more tips. Noob pa ako e. HAHAHA! Btw, sa kanya din ako kumuha ng inspiration for my board review. Sobrang helpful! ♥

PS: Bon Voyage, Ches! (kunwari close tayo. haha!)

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thank you!! wow, ang galing, ang linis ng pagkakagawa! nakakatuwa. kahit sa inyo, natututo din talaga ako e. ang galing lang :)

[akositadhana]

M ☺

1/1/16  9:01pm

Kamusta ka na? Miss na miss na kita. Kahit na sabihin mong ilang araw lang tayong di nag uusap, miss na miss pa din kita ng sobra. malapit na magpasukan, magkikita na tayo. Sasaya na ulit ako ng sobra. Kapag kasi wala ka, masaya lang ako. Pero kapag nakakasama na kita, mas sumasaya ako ng bonggang bongga. Ang hirap talaga ng madaling maattach sa isang tao. Ang sakit. Alam ko naman kasing kapag nag major na tayo, magkakahiwalay rin tayo ng landas. Nakakalungkot lang kasi di ko maparanas sayo yung sweetness na ginagawa mo sa'kin. Bakit kasi hindi ako showy sa ganyang bagay hahahahay 😂. Hayaan mo na, isipin mo na lang na sa bawat pagkulit ko sayo sa araw araw, yun na yung way ng paglambing ko sayo hahahaha.

Salamat sa pagbuo ng 2015 ko, M, ha? 😊 Hindi ko akalain na magiging ganito tayo kaclose. Super thank you ako kay Lord kasi nakilala kita tsaka ang medyo . Sana hindi magbago yung turing mo sa akin kapag nag major na tayo, ha? Malalaman mo pa kaya na I really admire you? Hahahaha sana hindi na, baka kasi may magbago pa lol.

2016 na. Mas madaming pagsubok ang darating ngayon sa'kin, sa'tin. Lalo pa’t mag me-major na tayo. Sana mapili natin yung tamang course na magpapaunlad sa atin sa future haha. So, paano? hanggang dito na lang muna ang itatype ko hahahaha. Mag iingat ka palagi, M, ha? Palagi akong andito kapag kailangan mo ako at hindi rin ako magsasawang makinig sayo kapag magka away kayo ng boyfriend mo hahaha. Stay strong sa inyo! Iloveyou zeww much, M!

(hahahahahaha plot twist ba? sorry na agad hahahaha. salamat sa pagbabasa.)

PS.

Gusto kita bigyan ng mga bagay na laging mong hinihingi sa akin tulad ng malalaking teddy bear at bulaklak kaso may boyfriend ka naman, bakit di mo sa kanya ipabili. Jusko ka ha hahahaha. At nga pala, may gusto akong sabihin sayo kaso nahihiya ako. Wala akong lakas ng loob. Pero hayaan mo na lang na yung unang dalawang word ng paragraph na ito ang magsabi ng gusto kong sabihin sayo.. Haha. Oo, alam kong bawal. Pero pinapangako ko sayong hanggang dun lang yung nararamdaman ko para sayo. At masaya na ako dun 😄 xoxo

[akositadhana]

Vape on. Mukha akong lalaki dito hahaha

[akositadhana]

Para kay M. Makulit lang kita, kumpleto na araw ko. Tuwang tuwa ako sa boses mo kapag kumakanta ka. Kapag pinagtitripan mo ko, minumura kita hahahaha pero yung mura medyo palambing HAHAHAHA alam mo na kung pano yun hahahaha. Lagi kang nagnanakaw ng halik sa pisngi ko, sinasamaan lang kita ng tingin kapag ginagawa mo yun hahahaha. Noong isang araw, nagnakaw ng halik sa pisngi ko yung isa nating kabarkadang babae sabi mo "magnanakaw ng halik!" tapos ako naman natawa kasi magnanakaw ka rin naman! Hahahahaha tapos napatawa ka na lang. Tapos kikiss sana ulit yung kabarkada natin sakin tapos sabi mo "wag ka ng humalik jan, ako lang nahalik jan!!" tapos medyo tinutulak mo syang palayo hahahaha. Nakakatuwa ka M. Kahit na minsan binubwisit mo ako. At dahil magpapasko na, pacheese burger ka naman.

[akositadhana]

M

Hi M! Saya ko ngayong araw na to dahil mo. Sarap mong kulitin! Sarap mo iuwi. Sarap mo ampunin. Hahahaha. Ang kyuut mo mang gigil. Sana malapit lang bahay nyo dito sa 'min para pede akong pumunta sa inyo anytime hahaha. Sana magkasama pa din tayo kapag nag major tayo. Kung hindi man, sana parati pa rin tayong magkasama kahit magkaiba major natin. Ito yung pinakamamimiss ko sayo eh, yung pagiging makulit natin sa isa't isa. Pero matagal pa naman ang June hahaha. Matagal tagal pa kitang maaasar 😈💕

[akositadhana]

Kahit saan abutin, pusoy pa din! Hahahahahaha. Noong una, sa classroom kapag walang prof. Tapos sa school gym, kapag may dadaang prof, lilikumin HAHAHAHAHA. Tapos sa 711, at dahil may kakain pinalayas kami don. Tapos dun sa may parang karinderya sa tabi ng school, bigla kaming nasita at kita daw kami sa cctv. Tapos nakapagpusoy din sa loob ng jeep noong pauwi na kami hahahahha (tindi). Tapos eto, sa zentea naman. Pusoy lords hahahahahaha

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