Alex

Hey there! | Agender | They/them

[alexthesheep]

no matter what gender expression you use, whether you feel dysphoria or not, what sexual organ you have, none of this diminishes what you are.

[freddiekugel]

don't forget, y'all:

you can use she/her pronouns and be nonbinary

you can use he/him pronouns and be nonbinary

or genderqueer or agender or any other gender!

your pronouns are about how you feel comfortable being addressed, not marking yourself as a gender

(& a corresponding reminder not to assume you know someone's gender based on what pronouns they use!)

[alexthesheep]

I hate it when I'm at school and they call me by a pronoun associated with a binary gender. I so wanted them to teach neolanguage in schools.

[alexthesheep]

I'm agender and my sexuality is queer. I can use the word "queer" like a sexuality or I can't?

My english is not good 😥

[alexthesheep]

Hey there! I'm new here. ꒰◍ˊꈊˋ◍꒱

[just-graysexual]

Could I see a list of what those l am normal flags each represent.

Hey Anon,

Sure thing!

Asexual Flag: does not feel sexual attraction.

Graysexual Flag: rarely feels sexual attraction or only under certain circumstances.

Demisexual Flag: feels sexual attraction only after an bond or emotional connection has been formed.

Fraysexual Flag: feels sexual attraction, but quickly fades after getting to know the person. (Considered the opposite of demisexual).

Aegosexual/Autochorissexual Flag: feels a disconnect between them and the target of their arousal. 

Akoisexual/Lithsexual Flag: feels sexual attraction, but does not want it reciprocated or it fades once they are in a relationship. 

Placiosexual Flag: would much rather perform sexual acts on someone else and does not wish to receive or have any in return.

Abrosexual Flag: has a constantly fluctuating sexual orientation or has trouble pinpointing their orientation.

Quoisexual/WTFsexual Flag: has trouble distinguish between attraction or does not really know which attraction they are feeling.

Aceflux Flag: has a fluctuating orientation either between other ace orientations or between asexual and non-asexual orientations.

Cupiosexual Flag: does not feel sexual attraction, but wants a sexual relationship.

Acespike Flag: does not normally feel sexual attraction, but when they do it skyrockets into intense attraction and then fades away.

Bellussexual Flag: okay with the actions and qualities of a sex and relationships, but does not desire a relationship.

Iamvanosexual Flag: one would rather receive sexual acts than give them. (Considered the opposite of placiosexual).

Idemsexual Flag: categorizes feelings/attractions based on certain factors, but does not internally feel a difference between feelings/attractions. 

Inactsexual Flag: one wants a relationship, but is repulsed or does not like the actions associated with that attraction/relationship. (Considered the opposite of bellussexual).

Requiessexual Flag: has limited or no sexual attraction/activity due to some form of emotional exhaustion.

Reciprosexual Flag: does not feel sexual attraction until you know someone is attracted to you.

Incisexual Flag: feels sexual attraction in response to thoughts/feelings one may be potentially attracted to.

Acevague Flag: orientation is influenced wholly or partially by one’s own neurodivergency.

I hope that helps, Anon. If you have any questions, want to talk, or want to know more feel free to message me anytime.

(I AM NORMAL posts here and here.)