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lilsbian-deactivated20160620

people are allowed to leave you. people are allowed to break up with you. people are allowed to love you but not want to be with you. people are allowed to not want to talk to you. people are allowed to put their happiness before yours and do what makes them happy even if it does not include you. people are allowed to move on from you. people are allowed to fall in love with someone else. people are allowed to not want you in their life. people are allowed to do whatever they want to better themselves and become the version of themselves they are trying so hard to love. don’t be bitter towards someone who is only trying to be happy.

stilljewelss

I feel like this POV does not get enough voice.

sam0an-theintr0vert

This post always rubs me a little wrong. When you truly love someone and unexpectedly it ends due to the reasons above, regardless of how understanding you are, it still stings and there is a bitter feeling following this. Even if it’s bitter sweet. You are allowed to feel anything other than happiness when you are left by someone you thought would be long term. However, the real message is to feel and heal. If someone leaves you so they can be happy, there is nothing wrong with that. You being hurt in the process during their attempt to be happy is just as normal and you deserve to feel what ever feelings you may feel.