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"Miss, if you.. if you could just.. I think.. I think those are my drinks, if you could... I just.. I paid on the card reader, and I'd.. hey, if you could.. could you just hand me.. miss, I'd like to..."
So my sister is going on a trip in a couple of weeks to Italy with her friends for their collective 50th bdays (these are her friends from high school, so they were all born the same year).
She flies out of Vancouver on August 9 (this will be important info in a minute). Not quite sure what time she is departing Vancouver, but even if it is a really early flight (which I doubt) the flight time from Vancouver to Italy is like, 12 hours.
Of course, the exact flight time depends on if there are any stops vs direct, what city in Italy she landing in etc - but the point is, it is a long-ass flight that will take up an entire day, plus the time change means she likely lands in Italy late on August 9, or more likely, early on August 10.
Side note: I am fairly sure she told me she is leaving Vancouver in the evening on August 9, because she prefers overnight flights if it is a long-haul flight. That way it is easier to sleep. So chances are she is arriving in Italy well into the next day. Again, this info will be relevant in a second.
Okay, so yesterday I had lunch with my Mom. She told me that my sister had called her in tears yesterday, distraught over a booking mistake she (my sister) had made regarding her trip to Italy.
So, the itinerary for the trip includes a 4 day hiking trip, at the start of their 2.5 week vacation. (It is not some rough wilderness hike - more of a luxury hiking tour situation.)
So ANYWAY, my mom told me at lunch that my sister accidentally booked the wrong date for this hiking tour. She mistakenly booked it for September 8, not in August. And now the tour her friends are going on is full of course, so she cannot go on that 4 day excursion with all her friends.
Of course I was like, holy crap, poor Sarah! But I was also a bit confused - like how did she make that mistake??
My Mom explained that she made the mistake due to the date format. Like, in Europe they write the date in the format of day-month-year. Whereas in the US, and *sometimes* in Canada, we write it month-day-year.*
*In Canada, the professional/legal way to write it is year-month-day. In more casual settings, though, we switch it up. So sometimes people use month-day-year, and sometimes people use day-month-year. So it is kind of a mess! Just like we use a mix of metric and imperial. Honestly, Canada is really idiotic with this stuff but that is another rant entirely.
However, that above point is important too. As a Canadian, my sister should be used to mentally double-checking that type of date format. I do it all of the time at work, especially since we have clients based in the US and in Europe (and here too of course). My sister also deals with vendors based in the US and in Europe. Plus, as I said, even within Canada, people use different formats! So you just get used to double checking the day vs the month. Like which is which.
So again, I was a bit confused when my mom told me that my sister had made that mistake. But still, shit happens. Unfortunately.
But then I started thinking about it - I was like, there is no way the hiking tour her friends booked (and that my sister thought she was booking) is starting on August 9 anyway. That is the day my sister is flying!
It would be starting on August 10 (in Italy) at the very earliest. But likely not even then? Most likely they gave themselves at least a day’s buffer. So my guess is it is starting on August 11.
The point is, my sister would have been booking a hiking tour starting on 10-08-2026 or 11-08-2026, using the European format. Which then makes no sense that she would mess up and mistakenly book it for September. Her tour would be erroneously booked for October or November, if she had gotten confused by the European format and assumed the first number was the month.
Also, usually when you book stuff online, the date picker is on a calendar. So you know, it is harder to mess up the month when you are booking using a calendar. Which is why online booking sites use a calendar.
In any case, as per usual with my sister, nothing makes any sense!!
And as per usual, I am left mildly annoyed because I cannot figure out how/why she isn’t going on this hiking tour with her friends. You know? Like what is the real reason this happened!!
I also asked my mom why my sister doesn’t just try to change her flight arrival date. So she isn’t hanging out in Italy for 4 days by herself - and paying for accommodation by herself for those 4 days, too. Like, from what my sister has told me about this trip in general, her and her friends have booked shared accommodation all along the way. Meaning shared Airbnb places (so people get their own beds/rooms but it is all in one house or apartment etc).
So although maybe she is able to get a full or partial refund on the hiking tour, so she could presumably use that money to pay for solo accommodations, that is still likely a fair bit of money. Again, just to hang out there by herself.
ALSO, my sister told me awhile back that the way this trip was being funded and organized was that all of them were giving their one friend a few hundred bucks a month for awhile, and that friend was using that pool of funds to book everything together, on everyone’s behalf.
So why was my sister booking this hiking tour - the main excursion they are all going on - on her own??
It makes no sense!!
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apparently a requirement for working at poison control is a talent for stand-up comedy
When I was training to be a paramedic, we had one student ask the instructor what to do in the event of a marijuana overdose. The instructor said "Tell him to take two twinkies and call you in the morning."
me when i engage with something that i know is gonna piss me off: wow that pissed me off
everything will probably be fine but i have to get really anxious just in case
Caught him yesterday trying not to smile/laugh when I said something funny. (I wasn’t trying to make him or V laugh, I was just goofing around.)
And then I was like hmmm, odd, I kinda forgot I can be funny?
And that might be because he is (deliberately) trying not to smile/laugh at the things I say?!
That sounds a tad paranoid - but I saw that he was genuinely trying to suppress his natural reaction (like, stop himself from smiling/laughing). So I imagine he also does that when I am not looking, too.
So because he has been doing that for however long (again, a few years), I think I have slowly lost confidence in my ability to be fun/funny!
And look - I am not saying I am or ever was funny-funny. But I can be witty and amusing and also silly/goofy sometimes! I can be fun!
Anyway, I have decided that one of my goals right now is to stop letting his “fake” dour reactions (because he secretly does think it is funny) make me assume I am not funny!
who cares if you don't fully "get" the weird postmodernist novel on your first read, or if the experimental arthouse film is opaque to you on your first viewing? you are not being graded. you are not being scored. there is value in the attempt. every time i've read House of Leaves or watched Blue Velvet, I've gotten something new from it. the idea that you might not "get" something and therefore shouldn't bother with it is so silly to me
It is silly! It’s also the only way we know how to value our participation in a thing! That’s largely the fault of educational institutions! I will die on this hill!
Half the books I read during my English lit degree(s) I really didn’t get right away. That kind of art and lit etc often has to marinate a bit.
I will say this, though - my first general gut emotional response to a book or poem was usually very telling. I might not have known intellectually what was going on, but that gut feeling was usually right.
So I actually think allowing yourself to feel whatever visceral response you feel when you first engage with a work of art is very important. Notice what responses it provokes in your body, even.
This is true for books, visual art, music, dance - anything like that. It is first and foremost meant to make you FEEL something. So let it do that.
now that you mention it, it’s dawned on me suddenly and for no obvious reason that i can’t go on living as i am
““It’s easier to be alone than it is to constantly be misunderstood” - Unknown”
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For some reason my algorithm (elsewhere) is showing me content about how Boomers (or just older people) act in a customer service situations.
There seems to be a lot of jokes being made about how older people cannot seem to figure out how to use point-of-sale card readers, particularly the tap function. But really just generally using card readers at all.
I know I have talked about my mom and her inability to use her cell phone/to text at all, and/or her very minimal ability to use a computer.
And there is this thing she does when interacting with that type of basic tech - cell phones, computers, and yes also card readers - that I have never really been able to articulate properly.
It is like she is unable to properly interact with the machine/user interface on a physical level. But it isn’t a physical issue. Like she still has enough hand/finger dexterity to, you know, push the buttons or tap the screen or whatever.
The analogy I have used before is driving a car - when you first learn how to drive a car, a lot of the learning involves kind of just getting a “feel” for driving a vehicle. How much to turn the wheel, how hard to hit the brakes in various circumstances etc.
Like you are learning the rules of the road and also how to do certain specific things, like parallel parking and stuff like that. But you are also kind of training your body/mind to be able to almost instinctively know how far to turn the wheel to make the corner, when exactly you need to slow down (or speed up) or start pressing the brake. In some ways, the car becomes an extension of you.
This is why there is always a moment of cognitive adjustment when/if you have to drive an unfamiliar car. Your mind/body has to sort of recalibrate to the slight differences in how the new car drives. It isn’t as instinctive as it is for you in your own car, at least at first.
Note: This also happens with other types of vehicles - like bikes or skateboards or boats etc.
That “feel” thing is something your brain/body also uses when interacting with tech that has a physical interface.
Like, whenever I have gotten a new phone, it takes my brain - and by extension my hand/fingers - a little bit of time to get used to it. Just like if I drive a different car.
Now, a lot of older people’s brains can adjust to driving an unfamiliar car. It might take them a bit longer than a younger person to “recalibrate,” but because they have presumably been driving for decades, their brain is like “we have used a machine very similar this one many times before, so I will just use the same Drive a Car operating template I have always used.”
But because things like smart phones and touch screens and card readers really only came into wider use around, say, 20 years ago (maybe a bit before that, but not by much), people in that age range (let’s say 65+ now) were already into their mid-40’s and above.
So, with exceptions being the 45+ year old (at the time) folks who had to use computers more heavily at their jobs when all of this tech really started taking over, most people who were that age didn’t seem to have the ability to adapt. They couldn’t seem to get the “feel” for it.
I think partly because that type of action - the action of tapping a digital icon on a screen, as a big example - was/is so different from how you interact with anything truly analog or mechanical.
Like, when I was a kid and a teen and even into my mid-20’s, most of the machines and objects I interacted with were real-world, physical things. I grew up in a completely analog world.
I would turn things and press physical buttons and lift things and push things etc etc. I would use my arms and legs and hands and fingers to manipulate objects that existed in the world.
But I never lightly and quickly “tapped” anything that wasn’t actually physical/real, in order to perform an action. (Although cards and card readers are physical - but I will get to the subtle difference there in a minute.)
I didn’t operate in that kind of here-but-not-here digital space until I was in my mid-20’s. Unless you count early video games, but even then they had physical things you used to operate them - joysticks and physical buttons etc. It also wasn’t too big of a leap for me to go from pressing the levers on the side of a pinball machine to make the pinball go, to using a joystick to make my little digital character run away from the ghosts in Pac Man.
But I was still just young enough for my brain to adapt and learn it.
Not only did 45+ year old people in that era generally not play those early video games, again (unless their work required it), they didn’t really even use computers. Not in a recreational sense (I know there are exceptions, but I am talking about the average person).
So the world just kept moving along this tech trajectory - and they mostly didn’t use it, until and unless they absolutely had to. So their brains/bodies never got a “feel” for it.
And now that the world pretty much runs on that type of tech, it has really left them behind in the dust. Learning the “feel” for how to use this stuff is really hard for a 65-70+ year old brain. Some are better at it than others, but you can still tell it isn’t natural or instinctive to them. Most look and seem oddly awkward using it.
The card reader issues are especially interesting to me. Again, the readers are physical objects and so are the cards (unless you have your card in digital form on your phone, but you rarely see people over 65 using their phone to pay).
But you are still not using the card and the reader in the way that we used to operate things 25+ years ago. Inserting the card in the machine and pressing the buttons is mostly okay for them, because it is similar enough to how you used to use other machines in the past. Still a bit outside their childhood/teen/earlier adult experience though!
But the tapping thing - like where to tap, how long you hold the card there etc - it is just not a thing their brains can adapt to. It is physical action yes, but it isn’t quite “mechanical” enough. It doesn’t involve pushing or pulling or pressing on a distinct and obvious lever or button.
It doesn’t help that a lot of the tap-to-pay machines operate slightly differently. I fuck it up regularly. But I at least still have a basic idea or “feel” of how you tap. I might not get it in the correct spot all of the time, but when I ask things like “Do I tap on the back?” and they tell me where, I can then do it right.
Anyway, I am babbling here! But I do think it is interesting, from a kind of neurological/brain POV, that the certain actions we perform with our hands/eyes/fingers to interact with certain kinds of tech, come naturally to people under a certain age - but really seem to be super challenging for people older than that to perform.
Even though it feels so easy and natural to younger people to do, it really is almost impossible for a lot of people over a certain age to do those same things.
"Children should be able to have the same respect as adults" and "children shouldn't be expected to have the same emotional intelligence as adults" are two sentences that should coexist by the way.
I am not sure why I always seem to care more about stuff at my work than the literal owners do.
Like, why don’t they seem to care about actual deliverables?? The clients pay us based on us delivering what we promised (a website, a marketing plan etc), in a timely manner.
There is no way that half of the shit we do should take as long as it does. I know I am not a designer/web developer or a copywriter (I do a bit of content here and there, but we have a writer on staff, so not usually) but holy shit why does one blog post take a month?!
That is ridiculous, honestly. Like yes we have multiple clients but not that many. We are a very small shop. But for the amount of people we have working on projects, we should easily be able to handle the work we do have. There really is no excuse for why stuff takes as long as it does.
Note: I also realize that the clients themselves hold things up a lot of the time. People can be impossible about design and copy decisions. But part of the job of a marketing person is to manage client expectations etc.
Anyway, it is always just crazy to me that when I am doing my project management follow-ups with people, that the owners never seem to give two shits about timelines. This is your company!
It is like they all act like they are semi-retired, I stg. Always away/out of office, and not for business reasons. Never hitting their deadlines. Pushing projects out endlessly.
It honestly makes me nervous! If I was a client, I would fire us. And a few have (in the last year or so)!
Which they all saw as being due to issues entirely with the clients but in the back of my mind I was like “Y’all need to get some self-awareness. Like yeah that client was a bit of a nightmare but also we didn’t do anything for them according to the timelines we said we could so eventually yeah, they fired us?? Hello?!”
Honestly, the way the digital marketing/web dev world works is effed up. And I doubt it will even exist as an industry soon because of AI (and they all know that but again, somehow do not seem to care much), so it honestly feels like the “this is fine” meme at work every day.
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(via Wild Green Memes for Ecological Fiends)
Guys, so I finally perfected sushi rice in my instant pot!
And my fave poké place sells their poké (mixed with your choice of sauce) by the pound. Which is more expensive than the grocery store, but way less expensive than their individual bowls.
The rest of the toppings I usually get in a bowl are cheap (cucumber etc) - and now that I have sorted out the sushi rice element of the whole thing, if I buy the poké by the pound, I will be able to get like, 4 bowls (made at home) for the price of an individual one made there at the place.
I am gonna eat so much poké now. To the point that I will probably need to be careful not to get mercury poisoning.