Friday, Henry turned two and I cried, a lot. The crying probably started a month ago when I realized that turning two was a lot harder than turning one. He was still a baby when he turned one. Walking, talking, thinking for himself and having any type of opinion weren’t even in the picture. Now I have this little person whom I can carry on conversations with, has a huge opinion about everything, changes his mind more in a day than I send text messages, and in constantly on the go.
Since I don’t do anything small, we of course had a party and the boy spent three days celebrating turning two. There were lots of presents, sweets and smiles. I’ll post all about his party, the decorations, foods, etc tomorrow, but today a little statistical update on what being Henry is like.
We haven’t had our two-year check up yet, but I’m guessing he weighs around 30 pounds and is around 32 inches tall. He still has short leg syndrome, which makes buying pants a real treat. Big belly, short legs. Can you say high waters or drowning in your pants? I have faith he’ll outgrow it. His short fat feet have started to thin out. There’s hope for his stubby legs.
Eating
He continues to love eating, but is definitely picky. What toddler isn’t? Carbs are by far his favorite, next to fruit, pancakes, milk, yogurt and dip it (also known as barbecue sauce). We still don’t do juice, but he does get it other places. Actually yesterday he asked for juice and when I said we didn’t have any in our house his response was “AWWW man, mom!” Chicken is not his favorite, even chicken nuggets don’t get much love. Not sure if it’s hard to chew for him or what. He eats vegetables best when they are mixed in with something or contain sauce. Some days he loves eating and other days he’s pushing his plate away after two bites. I don’t make a huge deal out of the days he doesn’t eat the best. I figure he’ll eat when he’s hungry enough.
We have ditched the sippy cup for the most part, except for the car and outings. He hasn’t sat in a highchair in months. I think I stopped cutting up his food almost a year ago.
He loves to help prepare food, which I’ve learned plays a big part on him eating it too!
Intelligence/Developmental Stages
Developmentally he’s where I assume two year olds should be. He talks, a lot. Some of it makes sense and other times I have no idea what gibberish he is speaking of. However, I think the babies at daycare do because they’re attentive when he talks to them. He can count to 10 and sometimes we can get him to 15. We sing the ABC’s daily, but he has his favorite letters (i, j and h in that order). White, pink and red are his favorite colors. Though he knows more colors he chooses to say every color is one of those. Recently he told me what a circle is, thank you Carol for teaching him that.
We are going to push potty training this Spring. He has a lot of interest in it. Last week he even pooped in the potty. That was a HUGE deal. Hopefully he will be on board with this change because Ben and I are ready for it.
Sleep
I feel like talking about his sleep habits might set me up for disaster. We still get a good nap during the day. It can span anywhere from 2-4 hours on the weekend. Bedtime is around 7:30 and if we don’t wake him up, he will sleep until 7:30am. There are zero complaints in the sleep department (I’d like to keep it that way). He continues to love the big boy bed as long as he can sleep with 800 cars. Even at my parents his has a bed now and there’s been no issues. We bought him a blow up mattress with sides for when we travel. Testing that out next week for the first time.
Play
As a very active little boy who loves planes, trains and cars you can imagine what our life is like. There’s lot of vroom, bang and boom going on. The boy can play for hours with his cars and he does. Books and puzzles are the bees knees. We are trying to move him up to more complicated puzzles for a little bit of a challenge.
He’s particular about what he wants to watch on TV. I try not to let him watch too much TV, but I’ll admit it does help entertain when we need to get things done without interruption. Every morning he does get to play on the iPad while we get ready. He sits in our bed, we put the parental controls on with the 12 minute timer, he plays on the app, and when the screen says “Times Up” he knows to hand it over. Rarely do we have an issue with this. Before I implemented the timer, we had fits, now he just gets it.
Other Stuff
Showers are far more superior than baths. Especially showers in our bathroom.
Blankie is still a must. It’s not a pacifier, he has stopped dragging it every place we go, so I’m not too upset that he’s obsessed. We do make an attempt to make sure blankie is out of sight when he’s not sleeping.
Being social is especially fun. He talks to people in the grocery store and wants to be friends with everyone he meets. Complete opposite of me!
He’s kind of bossy, mostly towards the dog. Completely like me.
His memory is amazing. I don’t know if all toddlers have a memory as good as his, but he remembers EVERYTHING.
I’ve become a bit more lenient with his sugar intake. I still hate it, but he’s not living a sheltered sugar life anymore. It’s only fair that he gets sugar if I do.
He has more good days than bad (shoot I probably just jinxed myself again). While he’s naughty at times, more often than not he’s a really good kid. His listening is on point for most days. We don’t have to tell him to throw things away or put his plate in the sink, he just does. In a few years I’ll reread that sentence and pray for those good manners to return.
Speaking of manners, I often think he’s overly mannered. He says please and thank you A LOT.
Best of all, he’s a lover. The boy LOVES to give hugs and kisses. Whether it’s when he’s leaving a room, someone is entering the room or just randomly gets the urge while playing, he gives the best hugs ever. They are by far my favorite part of every day.
If you would’ve asked me two years ago if I thought this stage would have been my favorite, I think I would have said no. I loved baby Henry. Truth is though, toddlers are just as exhausting as newborns, but WAY more fun. If he could speak a little more, I’d wish him to be this little forever. But, as Carol says, they have to grow up so you don’t have to change diapers for the rest of your life!
This next year is going to be great. I’m sure it will have it’s trails which goes with the toddler territory. Everyday seems to be a new adventure for Henry and I love that we get to see the circle of life unfold.
Choo Choo HD Turned Two Friday, Henry turned two and I cried, a lot. The crying probably started a month ago when I realized that turning two was a lot harder than turning one.