All Sugar, No Salt*

Unapologetic. Red wine lover. Music in my bones. Attitude of gratitude.

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It's likely...

...that I've been gone for so long, most of you do not even know who I am. Who knows, maybe that's a good thing. Time for a comeback. Keep on keepin' on, Babes! 😘

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That Moment...

...where you stumble upon ab old episode of True Life: I'm a Sugar Baby and you see an old POT turned spawn of Satan's asshole flash across the screen and thank your lucky stars that you pressed the block button so long ago! 😩

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So much...

...has happened and so much time has passed. So much so that I don't even know how this app/site works anymore. I haven't posted in ages, and I find that is the pattern when things seem to be going "right". I need to make a better habit of blogging when things go wonderfully vs them being mundane and/or my just having the free time. Short update: 1) #3 and I fizzled for shortly under 6 months due to job/location change and a major loss in my family, but I'm meeting back up with him in two weeks for a weekend away, in celebration of yet another 20something-th birthday. Ugh, can I stop aging? 2) France and I have been together blissfully for almost 2 1/2 years now. What began as a freestyling Thursday turned into a very lovely GFE relationship, where if he asked me to marry him tomorrow I would quit this life and say yes. My mother calls him one of her kids, his kids love me, and I'm the happiest I've ever been with someone who I'm quite sure is the best friend I've ever had. Who'd have thunk... 3) It's becoming hotter than Hades out here in CA, and I'm ready to write a strongly worded letter to the powers that be in order to make public "nudity" acceptable for women. Shorts and tanks feel too heavy at this point. I hope that all of you babes are doing wonderfully. I keep an eye on you all from afar and miss our interactions. More updates soon, babies! Xx, AS*

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So...

WHO is Eric Rutherford and WHY isn't he my SD? That is all.

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Sugar Daddies...

...I should have known better than to watch a Lifetime movie about this. I want the last two hours of my life back. *smh*

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Dear Daddy...

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😂😂😂

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I'm the worst SB blogger...

...REALLY need to fucking update this thing. Apologies. Xx, AS*

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You all know how much I adore Harvard. He would love for us to be exclusive. But I’m still entertaining other options, one of which I have a first date with tonight.

So I was just curious about the various responses to this question. If you had an SD who you cared about very much who provided you...

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I have done that. It's a matter of security. We have to take care of ourselves, no matter what. Harvard sounds great and what you have together sounds ideal, but what if something happens to alter the relationship? What if something were to happen to him? What if either one of you decided out of the blue that it just wasn't working? It's just nice to have "extras" here and there to fulfill that need for a sense of security. Only you know how much you can handle and what is good for you. It might even work to keep the "extras" at more of a distance than Harvard. You'll know it when it either does or does not feel right to you. Good luck! 💘

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Public vs Private?

Question for you sugar babes…

Which do you see as the more preferable/successful option, private photos or public photos?

For the two years that I’ve spent in the sugar bowl, I have kept all of my SA photos public. In an effort to shake it up and receive less emails from lazy perverts, I’ve made all but two of my photos private and the two that I’ve kept public have been cropped to exclude most of my face (as we usually do here).

I’m not entirely sure how I feel about it yet and am looking for input from all of you! In your opinion, beyond the safety standpoint, what are some pros/cons to private photos vs public?

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Last night with #3 to celebrate a year. It slipped my mind to take more photos, but we had a wonderful dinner/time (2 bottles of wine/two glasses of champagne later...). Back to real life for the week! Xx, AS*

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Celebrating a year with #3 later today/tonight! Man, how time flies! ☺️ I'm so lucky to have a man who takes care and thinks so highly of me, but I'm also lucky to have the chance to tell him how wonderful he his - even when I'm not the easiest person to handle (sugar babies are humans too!!). Always express gratitude toward the men who help us live our fabulous lives, whatever those might be. Happy weekend, Sugars!😘 Xx, AS*

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How we should ALWAYS aim to act toward men who wrong us!! For a good laugh, follow this IG account! 😂😂😂

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tiny-minx COME TO VEGAS!!!! It's happening!!!!! 🙀🙀🙀🙀 #eeeek #GR Xx, AS*

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tiny-minx Thank you, sweetheart! You're wonderful. :) Xx, AS*

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This isn’t a traditional SB money shot (I don’t even post them anymore what with all of the SB drama that’s taken place), clearly proven by the fact that it’s a photo of a $50 bill, but I felt compelled to share as there’s a lesson to be taken away.

This was sent to me inside of a sympathy card from #1. #1 was my first SD (the Adonis one that I mention in older posts) and now forever friend. We ended our arrangement over a year ago, and haven’t spoken in over six months. Yesterday I received an email from him letting me know that he’d read about a close friend, colleague and (basically) sister of mine passing away (it was heavily covered by media) and that he’d sent me a card of condolence, but that he wasn’t sure of my current address and alerted me to keep an eye out.

I received this today and immediately broke down into tears because if there’s anything that the sugar world has taught me, it is that sometimes, if we’re lucky, we come across amazing individuals who are more to us than just a companion and a means of securing extra financial security. Sometimes we come across people who see the light within us when we can’t see it on our own. Sometimes we come across people who choose to make building us up their mission, even when ours seems to be bringing our own selves down.

In the sugar world, $50 is “nothing” to us. That being said, this came from a man who owes me absolutely nothing and who hasn’t seen or spoken to me in quite some time. To me, this token represents someone who, in my time of need, can find it within themselves to rise up and be a supportive figure when I need it the most. It’s not going to pay a bill, it’s not going to pay rent, but I’ll be damned if it didn’t buy a bottle of wine in a nice restaurant this evening….and a little (much needed and overdo) inner peace on my end.

This is a lesson to myself and all other SBs out there… Never burn bridges. Arrangements end, it’s the nature of the beast. Nurture the potential friendship left in its place…you never know when you might need it.

Thank you, #1.

Xx, AS*

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One of my dream sugar daddies is Gordon Ramsey. I love men who cook, and holy fuck he’s so handsome and fit! 😍 He’s in my country for F1 this weekend! I actually really love this sport, I once volunteered as a track marshal, and somehow POTs often get smitten when I talk about F1 with them… Oh, Marathon knows one of the (more famous) F1 racers! ;)

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A friend of mine is close friends with him and apparently we're all supposed to be having dinner in the coming weeks. I'm fairly certain that this will result in my kidnapping him and forcing him to be my SD. I am SO beyond fond of him! Glad that someone shares that same opinion! 😂