Iām very happy hearing such message from Simon Sinek.
Heās talking about the MILLENIALS, a generation of āentitled, narcissistic, self-interested, unfocused and lazyā young people born from 1984. Unhappy from the root, due to the world that was given to them. He insists that it isnāt their fault,Ā āthey were dealt in bad hands.ā
According to him the problems generated by this tough generation are coming from:
⢠Parenting: failed parenting strategies => told that they were special and have been over-protected. Coming to the āreal worldā (after school), they figure out they are not that special. The difficulty of access to success leads to lowering their self-esteem.
⢠Technology: Social Medias are producing dopamine in the brain which is the same hormone launched by drugs/alcohol/gambling/addictive activities. We get stuck in a highly addictive and numbing loop.
+ āeverybody sounds tough and like they all figured it outā when all is still to learn.
+ superfluous relationships because we act in real just like in social media. We donāt go enough through social cooping mechanisms.
⢠Impatience: Instant gratification is a pretty dangerous thing when unbalanced. We donāt learn to go through long processes and enjoy them. We need to see the mountain and climb it in order to achieve impactful things.
+ The best case scenario, he says,āis to have an entire generation going through life never finding deep joyā.
⢠Environment: Corporate environments are the worst environment to evolve as fulfilled beings.Ā
It is personally not the first time I hear such arguments, though Sinek breaks them down pretty clearly and simply. These are things Iāve been feeling and observing around me, and it helps me to put words on it, more and more. Most definitely, educational system for young kids need already to revise most principles and make them develop differently in this world, in order to be happy.
Different schools of thinking are happening simultaneously, as I am asking to myself: Do I want to reinvent myself constantly or do I want to specialize in something deeply? Where is the balance?Ā








