Just Nani

She/Her • Reblogs of multi fandoms and random hyper fixations • 90s vintage • Bi • ♋️♐️♋️• MDNI • side account for @nevershoutnani

[murderhusbandsblog]

Hannibal NBC (Mizumono, 2x13) (Dolce, 3x06) // Who we are, Hozier.

[carmen-berzattos]

Hozier performs I, Carrion (Icarian) for Amazon City Sessions

[joanbaezunderstander]

it is very sus to me that many of you people recognize the white influences of hozier’s work while simultaneously being radio silent about the Black women’s music he himself cites as direct inspiration

[carmen-berzattos]

Hozier performs I, Carrion (Icarian) for Amazon City Sessions

[kovir]

BALDUR'S GATE 3 (2023) dev. Larian Studios

[prorevving]

diluted, Death Spells

[sweetbeanscomix]

My heart aches for our community and what we've all been facing lately. Please hang in there, everybody.

[pusheen]

[pathologising]

they hate me for being a slut tbh and maybe also the killings too but that's unlikely

[ogniemimieczem]

[neil-gaiman]

hi mr. neil, hope you're doing well.

i don't know if you're aware of the news about Brianna Ghey, but if you are, I know a lot of us could use some words of wisdom. or just any words, really. if i had the right words i'd write them, but all i feel right now is devastated.

sorry to bother you

I'm devastated too.

There's a trans Day of Remembrance for a reason. I hope Brianna Ghey is remembered long after her killers and the people who inspired them or egged them on are long forgotten.

I wrote this page of Sandman 32 years ago:

I hoped when I wrote it that three decades later we would have moved on. That deadnaming would be a sad historical fact. Instead I'm seeing the UK and the Murdoch Media targeting trans people and generally stoking real hatred, helped by sad or evil or just misguided people with their own prejudices or axes to grind.

[caesthoffe]

One of our siblings was murdered recently, and you need to know about it.

TW // transphobia and violence against trans people

Brianna Ghey was a 16-year-old trans girl from Warrington, England. On Saturday, February 11th 2023, Brianna was found dead on the side of a park with multiple stab wounds. Two 15-year-olds have been taken into custody in connection with her murder.

People in the Warrington area have alleged that Brianna was being bullied in school, and that neither the administration nor the police did anything.

Despite this, local police have said there is no evidence that the attack was hate-based and most news articles don't mention her status as a trans woman. This is deliberate. This is genocide by the hands of transphobes and TERFs.

Britain does not have gender self-identification (your legal gender being determined by how you identify and not any arbitrary medical requirements), meaning even in her death she will be deadnamed and misgendered on her death certificate.

She deserved so much better.

Mourn the dead, and fight like hell for the living.

EDIT: A verified GoFundMe has been set up for Brianna.

[magnetothemagnificent]

[id: photo of a teenage girl with light skin, blond hair in a ponytail, and glasses. She is smiling and holding up a piece of chocolate.]

May her memory be a revolution.

[catchymemes]

[vs-redemption]

Oof

For real though

[pips-squeak]

rb to explode a terf ^_^ nonrefundable ^_^

[thickness-protection-program]

[pekingopera]

[trix-or-treatz]

ohhhhh ohhh poll idea.

what was your first pokemon game? (include remakes with their originals)

red/blue/green/yellow

gold/silver/crystal

ruby/sapphire/emerald

diamond/pearl/platinum

black/white

X/Y

sun/moon

sword/shield

scarlet/violet

one of the spinoff games (ranger, mystery dungeon, legends arceus, etc)

Voting ended onFeb 13, 2023

[cryptid-on-a-string]

having a blorbo be like “Omg have you seen that one scene where he closes the door ????? 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍Oh and that other scene where he’s eating food ???😍😍😍😍!!!!!!! omg I love him so much 💕💕💖✨🌸💕✨💖💕💓💗🌟🌸💕✨💓”

[discodeerdiary]

I think a big reason why "children are an oppressed group" gets (wrongly!) read as a "pedophile talking point" is that everyone treats children so terribly that actual child molesters can speedrun winning a kid's trust by like, actually respecting their needs and perspective, at least at first. Which means that the only way out of this mess is for all of us adults to treat children with respect, so that abusers can't use the rareness of that respect as a weapon.

[discodeerdiary]

Yeah I've been thinking a lot about how cults will prey on marginalized people and how it's so much easier to push an "us versus them" mentality on a person who already (legitimately, accurately) perceives the world as hostile to them

[phinarei]

🙋🏻‍♀️ I was groomed by a predator this way and I also got dragged into cults this way. More than one.

Realizing that the validation was fake and that they didn't respect me any more than the other people in my life was more painful than the abuse I went through in some ways. So, like, maybe don't make people vulnerable to the whole situation. Treat kids like people.

[prismatic-bell]

When I was thirteen, my English teacher(???) had us do reports on various groups throughout American history. Don’t ask me why, I have no idea what made her think this was on-topic. ANYWAY, I was assigned the KKK. My mother had just finished college a couple years before and something she’d hammered into me while she was writing essays was that you should always present both sides of an argument.

If you think this is ending with “Nina did you actually try to interview the KKK,” you are…wrong.

It is ending with “Nina DID interview the KKK.” It’s ending with “some KKK secretary or whatever saw an earnest, gullible teenager say ‘my mom says I should present both sides so I thought I’d ask if I can talk to someone’ AND HAD THE GRAND FUCKING DRAGON ANSWER ME.”

It is ending with “when I was thirteen I came dangerously, BLISTERINGLY close to being recruited by the KKK.” Because let me tell you about this Grand Dragon. He was nice. He was kind, and patient. He answered all of my questions about his chapter’s history and what various KKK symbols meant. He sent me supplemental links on various bits of Klan history (Google didn’t exist yet, so this was both a treasure trove and, you can imagine, a way to tip the scales in the KKK’s favor). He encouraged me to let him know how my presentation went and praised me for doing in-depth research. Most of the adults in my life thought my research rabbitholes were weird or even dangerous, so “good job looking for your own answers instead of stopping at your first three sources” was a really big deal. “I’m so glad you reached out, what questions do you have?” was a really big deal.

What stopped me from falling all the way down that rabbit hole?

I was deeply Christian at the time and uncomfortable with the idea of burning (or, as they call it, “lighting”) crosses.

That’s it. That’s all that stood between me and “yes, I would like to talk to a local leader, I had no idea how much I knew about the Klan was wrong.”

That should scare the shit out of you. It scares the shit out of me, and I know the story turns out okay. How many of our young alt-righters do you think got caught EXACTLY THIS WAY?