R.A.M.A

Canadian Queer Black King

[perfectfeelings]

“Stop trying to figure it all out. Often the answers come to us when we least expect it.”

— Unknown

[33v0]

[zagzie]

this is the best tag I’ve ever gotten in my notifs actually

[dimpleskinard]

He deserves sunshine. And so do you.

[thoughtkick]

“I lost myself trying to please everyone else. Now I’m losing everyone while I’m trying to find myself.”

— Unknown

[skopostheorie]

This meme is inescapable on French insta so I'm posting it here for all to enjoy

[queen-mihai]

Always reblog flash debate

[official-megumin]

on it boss

[zocomi]

reminder that the presenter says "oh, shut up" not "can it"

[azeofspades]

Native French speaker here. "Ta gueule" is actually more like "shut the fuck up" in terms of level of disrespect

[belphegor1982]

also worth noting is that the "are you happy" is the correct gender

[kkachi-serica]

[official-linguistics-post]

official linguistics post

[deadbeatmaker]

one of the guys in the kitchen at work got called irritating and replied “I am not irritating. You just find me irritating. There are many people who love me.” I think we should all adopt his attitude

[jimhines]

I know I’ve featured this scene on the Nazi Punch of the Day, but this version seemed particularly timely given the ongoing attacks on education.

[alwayswithmyheart]

Parenthood

I just learned that you are becoming a parent soon ... I am happy for you, but I can't explain how it made me sad. I am trying to understand if the sad part was because of wanting to be the one who had those plans for you, or remembering how you created a new narrative for me.

One thing I will say, I am not sure if I am entirely aware of acknowledging of that, but I do miss you. I miss you , I still think about you more often than I would like to admit, and I am not sure how that missing translates in love but somehow it does.

It has been 2 whole years, I went through so many hurdles (some partly yours, some not) , I experienced different type of relationships but I hate how almost all of them bring me back to you. I think it's because in a way, I had never experienced a love with the chemistry and understanding we had for each other.

I think the other realistic part of it was that one way or another, I always have that surreal feeling that if we grew up in a different society, different families or a different environment, we would have been each other's forever. It hurts to still think and feel that way, maybe even counterproductive but what's worse is not acknowledging it.

[therecoveryquotes]

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.

— C.S. Lewis

[alwayswithmyheart]

Je fête mes 2 ans sur Tumblr et ce blog m’a guidé à travers un très mauvais temps 🥳

[thoughtkick]

“Never make fun of someone’s passion because that’s the thing that saves them from the world.”

— Unknown

[perfectfeelings]

“I don’t know what living a balanced life feels like. When I am sad, I don’t cry, I pour. When I am happy, I don’t smile, I glow. When I am angry, I don’t yell, I burn. The good thing about feeling in extremes, is when I love, I give them wings. But perhaps that isn’t such a good thing, cause they always tend to leave and you should see me, when my heart is broken. I don’t grieve, I shatter.”

— Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey

[thoughtkick]

“Just be fucking honest about how you feel about people while you’re alive.”

— John Mayer

[perfectquote]

“Take a shower, wash off the day. Drink a glass of water. Make the room dark. Lie down and close your eyes. Notice the silence. Notice your heart. Still beating. Still fighting. You made it, after all. You made it, another day. And you can make it one more. You’re doing just fine.”

— Charlotte Eriksson

[alwayswithmyheart]

Word of the day

Today, the word of the day said "It is not fault if they mishandled the love you gave them. Do not change the way you spread love for that and forgive yourself for it". I think the hardest part is forgiving myself, allowing myself to see that I let you mistreat me and that it is not on you. You were a flawed individual as much as I am, you had your shortcuts and your way of seeing things. Accepting those ways into my life was my decision and mine alone. I have forgiven you, I do wish you the best but I still have a little ways down the road for myself. Isn't it ironic how it's always easier to forgive others but not ourselves ? We are the person we know the best and should have more empathy toward your own heart

[perfectquote]

“I don’t trust words anymore. I only trust actions. People can pretend to do a lot without beeing serious about it.”

— Moritz Fer

[perfectquote]

“When I was young, I used to admire intelligent people; as I grow older, I admire kind people.”

— Abraham Joshua Heschel