I can dance myself to nothingness. Perhaps.
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I can dance myself to nothingness. Perhaps.
Under the blanket
In the heaviest weight of the sleepless night I pull this curtain of a blanket. Over my head, tucked tight. Because under this fabric I’m finally alone. No obligation. No plan. Here I can stare at the shadow of colors. Bleed my worn eyes, deny it of the little sleep it yearns. I can be whoever I want to be. I can dream the dreams I’ve neglected. I can be happy again. Until my lungs get the better of me.
I want to live...Untethered Fly...Unburdened Dream... Uninterrupted Live... Spontaneously Leave... Thoroughly Love... Honestly Hate... Freely Regrets...Openly
things you never hear about the signs
Aries: They doubt themselves. They need reassurance and validation from people they love, and if you give them this, they’ll be your loudest, strongest, most enthusiastic cheerleaders. They’ll always stand up and fight for you (even if they know you’re in the wrong)… if you do the same for them. Don’t take this for granted.
Taurus: They will put themselves first. Always. It’s because they feel like no one else does, though; they always get taken for granted and ignored and they get so sick of it. They will break your heart with their selfishness, but they do love you. Believe them when they say it.
Gemini: They’re lonely. Even surrounded by people, a Gemini can be so, so, lonely, because they long for emotional closeness and a deep mental connection. They lose interest in people so quickly because this connection isn’t there with most people.
Cancer: They’re mean and selfish. They guilt trip and play the blame game, because they don’t want to face the truth about themselves. They act tough, talk shit, hang out with people they don’t really care about, and they try to pretend that this is who they are. It’s not. They’re trying to protect themselves from the harsh, judgmental world by acting like they hate the best parts of it.
Leo: They blame themselves for everything. A Leo may act like a diva, throw a temper tantrum and accuse you of ruining their life, but inside, their heart is breaking because they failed themselves. Not only that, but they failed you, too. And they hate themselves for that. They have trouble forgiving others, but they have even more trouble forgiving themselves.
Virgo: They are not cold. They are actually sensitive and easily hurt, and they protect themselves by building a robotic, analytical exterior. They have such high standards for the people in their life because they’re scared of getting hurt. Deep down, a Virgo just wants to throw away all their worries and inhibitions and be free.
Libra: They’re incredibly loyal. Once a Libra decides they like you, they may stray, lose contact, hang out with other people, but they will never completely forget you. At some point, they will always come back to you. They value friendship and love more than anything; this is both their best quality and their biggest weakness. They give people so many chances, and as a result they are used and hurt so many times, because they never lose faith or become bitter.
Scorpio: They need someone to tell their thoughts to. Scorpios are secretive and mysterious creatures, but they can’t stand having no one who really knows them. A Scorpio is selective about who they trust, but if they do trust you, you will be surprised about how open they are.
Sagittarius: They don’t bounce back so easily. Sagittarians are not always happy-go-lucky and content. A Sagittarius is prone to feelings of inadequacy and anxiety, but they do their best to hide this from people. They are incredibly strong, but they still fight their personal battles like everyone else and can be very sensitive. They don’t need to be coddled or helped through difficult times, they just need you to stand by them while they fight their demons.
Capricorn: They care the most, but have the worst time trying to show it. Their natural tendency is to hide their feelings and retreat from those they care for. They confuse people with their hot-and-cold behavior. They frustrate themselves, because they want to throw themselves into everything they do, but they can’t work up the energy or the courage to do so.
Aquarius: They like people as a whole more than they like people individually. They have tremendous respect and faith in humanity, but can’t bring themselves to have the same love for even those closest to them. They are detached, often putting more of themselves into clubs and projects than into their friends and family. They are concerned with “the greater good”, and they don’t let individuals get in their way.
Pisces: They will not let you treat them badly. They won’t confront you or try to talk to you about your behavior. They won’t try to convince you that they are right and you are wrong. They’ll just slowly slip out of your life, leaving you wondering if you ever meant anything to them at all. Don’t underestimate the power of a Pisces to break your heart without saying a word.
Thought via Path
Alright, it's that time of the year. 1st resolution for 2016: stop moral licensing. "One of the most difficult thing about forming a new habit is the urge to cheat as a reward for sticking to a routine for a while. The idea that we 'deserve' to splurge on fancy meal after being thrifty for a week is 'moral licensing', and it undermines a lot of people's plan for self improvement" - Business Insider. – Read on Path.
gender inequality?
this morning, while browsing my pinterest, I came upon this image
This got me thinking somewhat. I have always been keen on feminism, long before I even knew that there’s a word for it; probably since I was 5. Blurred Lines video clip was definitely not the high of female emacipation, and has generated lot’s of critics, from the way women were objectified as dumb-happy-sex-slaves, to comparing the lyrics to words of rapists, etc.
However, seeing this particular quote on the picture makes me thinking a little further: So what would make this video clip seen as equal? By presenting Robin Thicke and Pharrel stark naked as well? (That is not a bad idea to be honest, and I might actually find the clip more amusing) But haven’t we had many video clips that presented both naked women and men? So why am I actually finding this so-called gender-biased clip actually more enjoyable to watch than the sultry equally-naked ones? being a feminist and all??
For one, this is a fun video clip. let’s just admit it. It’s sexy, but not porn-like.
Now let’s talk about sexy. Certainly, men consider naked women sexy, hence the video clip. Yet women, do we purposely consider naked men sexier than the one in suits? (surprisingly, or not) I personally don’t! So, maybe, in that video, the dapper Robin Thicke and the barenaked models are as sexy as each other.
What does that say about us? That women has better appreciation of men, that we do not objectify them because we are morally superior? yeah, somewhat true.. LOL. In the hunter-gatherer era (probably until the agricultural era as well) we would definitely be more into the muscular body than the suit-and-tie. Female human used to associate masculinity with the ability to gather foods, hunt, protect the family from both animals and other humans. In the modern era, those traits are now translated into currencies. The more a man earns, the better he can provide for his family in terms of foods, clothes, housing, safety, etc, a trait which is physically identified by business suits and other symbols of modern success. Just as human evolve into these money making individuals, so does women’s perception of sexiness.
So, why does men’s perception of sexiness were still the same?? Have women’s role not also evolve with men’s? Yes we have, but it’s a continuing process. We’re getting there. And this brings me to the conclusion that we cannot tell people not to objectify us women. We cannot just tell people, ‘Hey, judge me from my brain and achievements, not from my body’. It won’t work.
We ourselves has to be the advance women that the society needs. No longer are women needed for their fertility, but for the ability to support their partner in life, either from home or from also working full/part-time toward mutual goals. The society needs to survive not by intense breeding, but by raising high quality offsprings. And none other that well educated (street and school educated) women have bigger impacts on that. If we want to be perceived as sexy not from our physics, than we have to be sexy in all those area. Not for other people, not for the men, but for ourselves and the future generations of women.
This is my message for myself, more than for other women: be smart, be strong, be persistent, believe in yourself, and be successful. Be successful in your own dream, in your dream with your other half, and in your current & future family. Feminity is built on what we do, not what we say. by our efforts, not by our protests. Be all that and you will be that one more push toward women’s evolution.
Bon Jovi Music Videos:
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Bon Jovi- live in Jakarta, September 11, 2015
Damn!
You’re fasssssssst girl!
Bon Jovi - live in Jakarta, September 11, 2015 (photo credit: Agoes Rudianto)
Bon Jovi - live in Jakarta, Septeber 11, 2015 (photo credit to the owner)
Bon Jovi - live in Jakarta, September 11. 2015 (x)
Meskipun nontonnya cuma dari screen dan JBJ segede kuku kelingking jejingkrakan di panggung... But still.. I JUST WATCHED BON JOVI LIVE!
At AEON Mall
Killing time before the next GR – at AEON Mall – See on Path.
Top 10 lesson from 10 years of travelling: 1. Happiness has no pricetag 2. Be an imperfectionist 3. The magic happens outside your comfort zone 4. The world owes you nothing 5. Get busy living 6. Every single person is fascinating and can teach you something 7. It's okay to say 'I was wrong" 8. The present is what really matters 9. Be generous and kind to others 10. We're all making it up as we go
“I am SUN SIGN, but my emotions are rather MOON SIGN. I think in a MERCURY SIGN way, but express my energy in a MARS SIGN way. In love, I seek VENUS SIGN. I take on the role of RISING SIGN.”
Replace the placements with the corresponding words and see what you’ve got! You can find all your signs here:
http://cafeastrology.com/freebirthchart.html
Sun in Leo & Moon in Gemini: The Provocateur
You’re known to be outspoken, sarcastic and very friendly. Ego-centrism and extravagant exhibitionism may be your worst flaws. You’re also easily distracted, your mind is constantly wandering, curious, creating scenarios you should write down. However, you’re restless and all that vitality helps you achieve your goals. You’re a great conversationalist and everyone appreciates your sharp and humorous observations.
☽ find your moon sign here ☽
"which moon sign do you personally think suits each sun sign best?"
I find these awesome for different reasons:
Pisces Sun/Capricorn Moon. someone with the pisces’ gift of love and understanding and the ability to not give everything right away & keep their feet on the ground.
Cancer Sun/Taurus Moon. so much more independent and confident than typical cancers, and yet they still possess that kindness everyone loves!! i feel like these people are great mothers/fathers.
Scorpio Sun/Virgo Moon. someone with the quickest mind, it’s nearly impossible to lie to them. also, they do everything perfectly!
Taurus Sun/Pisces Moon. artists at heart. these people are so talented i swear to god, they can create art like no other.
Virgo Sun/Cancer Moon. the most gentle kind of virgo, also the most intuitive and perceptive. they truly have a gift for reading people and being efficient, because they can tell just what you need.
Capricorn Sun/Scorpio Moon. probably the sharpest and most ambitious person ever. 99% sure they’re able to get anything they want.
Aries Sun/Aquarius Moon. someone with the ability of Aries to speak their mind and the sense of innovation of Aquarius. i believe these are the people who change the world.
Sagittarius Sun/Libra Moon. charming and incredibly smart, truthful and yet kind and warm, devoted, lucky and humorous. this is the best combination ever i’m telling you
Leo Sun/Gemini Moon. leo’s confidence + gemini’s eloquence? dear god. they will rule the world. someday
Aquarius Sun/Sagittarius Moon. i feel like these people are so knowledgeable and yet so curious, and free, and open-minded. can we talk about how they’d be the coolest teachers?
Libra Sun/Leo Moon. the life of the party, absolutely magnetic, everyone loves them. most people envy them, they have so much integrity and charm no one can stay mad at them.
Gemini Sun/Aries Moon. the best problem-solvers, ask them for a quick answer and they’ll give it to you without even blinking. also this is the best combination ever because they make so many mistakes and they’re so impatient and wishy-washy, but you know what? they never give up, they never let the downsides of life affect them, they’re always kind and will do anything to help someone in need.
this is my personal opinion. each combo has its ups and downs!
I will rule the world.. Someday