The Loud Thoughts and Rants of ALH

Lover of music, science fiction, movies, Bowie, and all things unorthodox.

[reducedlunch]

this video is so funny it transcends laughter i dont even feel like im alive after watching this

[chescaleigh]

part 2 is even better

[thepowerofblackwomen]

Reblog to be accepted in Beyoncé’s Sorority

[yourbigsisnissi]

also i just get annoyed that the narrative of black motherhood is so deeply rooted in being aggressive and beating kids and cursing kids out. it’s toxic and inaccurate. i have no desire to fall in line with a stereotype just because it’s expected of me. 

[yourbigsisnissi]

Before you get mad at your partner for not doing what you expect them to do, Stop and ask yourself “have I ever communicated to them that I have this expectation?” If you have not, it’s unfair to expect them to read your mind.

So many arguments are saved by just opening your mouth and saying “hey hun, in the future can you….” Whether its articulating how you like to be loved, supported, or communicated with, you have to open your mouth. Your soul mate (IMO) isn’t the person that just always knows what you need when you need it without you telling them. Your soul mate is the person who hears your needs and thinks “I have no problem doing that because I love this person with my whole heart”

So check your attitude and open your mouth. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

[labias]

[kushandwizdom]

Match my effort. Match my honesty. If you can't give me that, you don't deserve to be in my life.

- Expherience

[kushandwizdom]

Don't fall in love with anyone who doesn't care to ask how your day was, who doesn't care about the little things that make your life spin.

- Expherience

[tr-apstar]

Men are so fuckin weak dude I swear. Women are out there grindin like nothing’s wrong while bleeding out of their vaginas 7 days a month, cramps so bad we can barely function, pushing a human out of our hoohas, taking pills that fuck with our horomones just so you can hit it raw and you have the damn nerve to judge the size of our hips that have birthed the civilizations of the world like they were made to be admired by you? No. Next time you get flicked in the balls I don’t wanna hear u talk about how it’s so much harder being a man. Damn. Shout out to women. Don’t let men tell you shit.

[kushandwizdom]

In a years time, the people that hurt you will be lingering in the same place, mentally, physically and financially and if your paths ever cross, you’ll be unrecognisable, due to the glow of growth, happiness and self love. Keep moving forward, there’s nothing back there worth turning around for. Stay focused babe.

- Meggan Roxanne

[kushandwizdom]

I gained so much by walking away from some people.

- Meggan Roxanne

[yourbigsisnissi]

You gotta walk around knowing men ain’t shit So when they are trash, it’s not a surprise And when they aren’t trash you’re just pleasantly surprised But still on guard for the day when their true trash self comes out

[yourbigsisnissi]

Stop Treating Black Women Like Shit

[yourbigsisnissi]

I’m with my 17 year old cousins And Lordy The youth now a days are so grown One of my cousins has the fuck boy hair cut and talks to about 20 girls a day The other has so much make up on she looks older than me My goodness

[yourbigsisnissi]

Like I thought I was grown at 17 But these kids are GROOOOOWN

[juliettetang]

I’ll read my books and I’ll drink coffee and I’ll listen to music, and I’ll bolt the door.

J.D. Salinger (via juliettetang)

[cartnsncreal]

Thats awesome! Glad she found time for that! Black Women are magic! 

[reincarnatedleprechaun]

Proud of her

[kushandwizdom]

I disappear sometimes. It's nothing personal. I just like to take some time to reconnect with myself.

- Unknown

[purplebuddhaproject]