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"I don’t give a shit what the world thinks. I was born a bitch, I was born a painter, I was born fucked. But I was happy in my way.You did not understand what I am. I am love. I am pleasure, I am essence, I am an idiot, I am an alcoholic, I am tenacious. I am; simply I am…You are a shit."           

[peashooter85]

Mother of pearl mounted English folding knife, circa 1830′s-1850′s

from Sofe Design Auctions

[lelaid]

Shannan Click by Steven Klein for Vogue Italia, March 2007

[anchoress]

[ami-stillill]

​Που είναι οι γονείς; Που είναι οι καλλιτέχνες; Γιατί δε βγαίνουν έξω να μας προστατέψουν; ΜΑΣ ΣΚΟΤΩΝΟΥΝ! ΒΟΗΘΗΣΤΕ ΜΑΣ ΤΑ ΠΑΙΔΙΑ Υ.Γ.: Μη μας ρίχνετε άλλα δακρυγόνα ΕΜΕΙΣ κλαίμε κι από μόνοι μας.

- Η επιστολή των φίλων του Αλέξη

[ami-stillill]

Γιώργος Καρατέγος – αυτόπτης μάρτυρας: Είχανε μαζευτεί όλοι πάνω από τον Αλέξανδρο θυμάμαι κάποια παιδιά τον τραβάγανε προς τα πίσω και λέγανε ότι τον πυροβόλησαν δεν ήμασταν και τόσο σίγουροι μέχρι που το θυμάμαι χαρακτηριστικά του σηκώσανε τη μπλούζα κάποιο παιδί και είχε στο ύψος της καρδιάς έτσι μια τρύπα όπου είχε αίμα. Ανδρέας Κωνσταντίνου – φίλος οικογενείας Γρηγορόπουλου: Ο Αλέξανδρος πέθανε με αυτή την απορία, γι αυτό και τα τελευταία του λόγια ήταν όλο έκπληξη και απορία, «ρε σεις, με χτυπήσανε».

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=euzCwNVWWIU 

Ρεπορτάζ Χωρίς Σύνορα - Αλέξανδρος Γρηγορόπουλος

(via ami-stillill)

[kernjosh]

when i took one self portrait per day for a few weeks in december. sorry for being too.. corny but i have too many of them and they make me too happy

[mjalti]

feel like God did to us what we did to the Tamagotchis

[coq]

santa cruz, ca by Plimber

[mothvhs]

the fact that time passes and things change and people leave and you can only go back to a place physically and you will never be 14 15 16 again………….. i don’t understand how we are meant to endure that

[theancientwayoflife]

• Snake from Set of Zodiac Figures.

Date: A.D. 618-907

Place of origin: China

Medium: Earthenware with white slip and traces of pigment.

[kitty-n-classe]

nacre

[nemfrog]

Fig. 6. La culture physique de la femme. 1913.

Internet Archive

[berndwuersching]

Anna Hepler Untitled, 2015 Woodcut on Kozo 

[le-samourai-x]

[shisasan]

Parenthesi (1968), dir. Takis Kanellopoulos

[nevver]

[nevver]

James Baldwin

[mi-ki-ki-m]

Miki kim

[superscanaries]

[user87262893]

The type of the mother I’m trying to be. Not just encourage bodily autonomy, but reward displays of it, even when it might make someone else in the room uncomfortable.

[swedepea]

I’ve made so many people uncomfortable in supporting my daughter’s personal space. People will try to hug her, she’ll sometimes say “No, thank you” and the adult will look at me to make her do it, but I just say “It’s ok honey, you don’t have to hug anyone you don’t want to.” It makes people irrationally huffy, making me feel even more justified in supporting my daughter’s choices. Creeps.

[misharoux]

I legit had to mom-voice some random woman with a “she said no!” when she tried to force a hug on Madison. (who was not very good at verbalizing to people she didn’t know/trust at the time)

She replied, “I just want a hug, it won’t hurt her.”

Me: She. Said. No.  

There aren’t many things more important than letting my daughter know that I have her back when it comes to something like this. 

[ineeduhnap]

I work with five year olds and I had a very long talk with them about permission and that your body belongs to yourself and no one else. “Even if you want to hug your friend, you need to stop and ask if it’s okay and if they don’t want you to touch them, you should respect that choice and not do it.” they were like “cool” and then every time after that they had no problem asking their friends “can I give you a hug?” Or “can I hold your hand?” Very politely. If their friend said no, they shrugged and went on with their life. They even started asking me if they could hug me or if it was okay to hold my hand when they were sad. And I always ask when they need comfort “do you need or want a hug?” If they say no, I ask “okay, let me know what we can do as a class to help you feel better. Quiet time? Do you want a stuffed animal? Sit on the couch? Do you need some time alone?” They verbalize what they need and they become aware of their own autonomy and their ability and power to say “no.” Just because someone is an adult does NOT give them the right to hug a child who has said “no” or “no thanks.” Teach then that they own their own body, and no one else is in charge of it. Teach them the power of NO.

[lazy-polyglot]

^^^^^this is so important

[publiusmaximum]

Whenever a kid refused to high 5 me for whatever reason, I make a point to say “thank you for stating your boundaries”.

[angiethewitch]

My husbands family get so offended when my stepdaughter doesn’t want a hug. I just tell them “no, she said she doesn’t want one”. They often try to force her to hug them or just grab her. It starts young, and they learn their body isnt their own.

When I first met my stepdaughter, if I asked for a hug, she wouldn’t say no, but she’d go into a protective stance and just wait. She was waiting for me to violate her boundaries. I told her “you don’t have to give me a hug if you don’t want one. You’re allowed to say no”. It took a while, but now she’s happy saying no.

Children have a right to boundaries as much as an adult does. Don’t violate a child’s boundaries.

[strange-lights-and-stardust]

It means a lot to me, for reasons I won’t go into, that you’re teaching your stepdaughter that. We need to teach more kids about this, and for that matter, need to teach adults to respect kids’ boundaries. 

[colehence]

Very important to tech both, children AND adults!