sad bitch hours

dia • 20 something • she/her • black

[caitimia]

[caitimia]

[haelxtii]

[haelxtii]

Separate how you feel about people and pay attention to how they make you feel.

Separate how you view people & see them for who they really are.

When you take a step back you’ll realize all of these good things you see in them are things you created yourself. It’s your own potential of what could’ve been of who they could’ve been.

Cause often times it’s your effort in relationships & friendships that’s keeping it alive. That’s making you stay longer not them.

& if you can create a space where you still feel those things then it can happen in a space where the energy is reciprocated.

[michellepsychologist]

The holidays can be stressful

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[moderndaymystic]

I like calm men. Men who don’t shout or break things when they’re mad. Men who tell you exactly how they feel. Men who communicate. Men who talk you in a gentle, low voice telling you what made them mad or what you did wrong, but never blame you and make you feel bad about it.

[aidashakur]

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[nflstreet]

[pointnclick]

she rocked that feller

[cat-mom]

[elysiumcalled]

We should fuck, order food and then nap together

[bakwaaas]

I don’t get those ‘I don’t do small talk’ mfs. sorry I don’t wanna discuss my deepest darkest secrets or listen to your trauma dump after 0.5 seconds of knowing you. it’s like people wanna speed run the journey from stranger to emotional intimacy and understanding but human connection doesn’t work like that it takes time, and if anything these sort of interactions just create a false sense of closeness with someone who doesn’t actually know or care about you

[aidashakur]

[s-h-y-a-n-n-e]

From the bottom of my heart I hope 2024 is a better mental health year for everyone

[arathergrimreaper]

I just need everyone to know that when I type 'i am looking' or just '👀' i am actually thinking about this

[yourbigsisnissi]

I love seeing men gush about their relationships and the women they love. It’s time for the whole trope of men hating being married/ viewing relationships as things holding them back. Amen for men uplifting their women and their relationship. Amen for men getting choked up and ready eyes thinking about the one they love. Amen for men thinking of the woman they are with as their best friend.