A (not so) little intro of what to expect from this blog~
Minors DNI!!!
This isnāt going to be all nsfw, but thereāll be some
This is a safe space for LGBTQ+ people and those with mental illnesses and disabilities!!
Only people not allowed around are bigots, animal abusers, pedos, and people that think generative AI is a good thing. If thatās you, expect to be 6ft under tomorrow~
This blog is gonna have a bunch of different content on it, primarily fandom/ship related things, but also art, music, fashion, cosplay, adhd, and me just generally being an anxious mess lmao
Current fixations: PJO (solangelo, percabeth)
I am a hater at heart, so do not be surprised by the amount of negativity youāre probably gonna find on here lol (everyoneās allowed to like what they like, but donāt expect me to like it and/or not complain about it on my own internet space). Subposting and nitpicking semantics and nuances will also be unfortunately common. Please donāt take it personally, I know Iām an asshole
Main fandoms: Haikyuu!!!, Kaiju No. 8, Bungo Stray Dogs, Shangri-La Frontier, Frieren, Sk8 the Infinity, Apothecary Diaries, Dr. Stone, You and I Are Polar Opposites the list goes on
While this account will not be spoiler free, I will try to mark spoilers for recently released things (especially new manga chapters)
I do keep up with seasonal anime, so expect some commentary on current releases! (and feel free to talk to me about them!!)
Do note Iām an absolute hater of the Haikyuu dub (ask me for a rant if you wanna hear about that), so all my commentary will be based on the sub version and the manga! Do not try to defend the dub to me, I will give the aforementioned rant
Main ships: iwaoi, soukoku, naruhoshi, kuroken, ranpoe, sengen, tairazuma, jinmao, matchablossom, renga, bokuaka, kagehina, levyaku, tsukiyama, renoharu, this list also goes on lol
If you want a list of my ships for a certain fandom, you can DM me and ask, listing them all out here is damn near impossible (especially for haikyuu XD)
I do not multiship and donāt like my ships switching
If you want to be friends/mutuals, please feel free to dm me! I would love to make friends on here. Iām very shy/anxious and socially awkward, so donāt feel bad if it takes a bit for me to respond (Iām probably just overthinking my reply). Since this isnāt my main blog I canāt be mutuals on here, but Iām open to DMs!
I also absolutely live off information, especially that which I have no way to utilize. I am a gossip purest, one might say, as I believe you should only share what you know is true or you must give a disclaimer that what youāre going to say isnāt for sureāif youāre going off a gut feeling, just say that. If you spread information that you know is false, in my humble opinion, that is not gossip, it is slander. So if you want to tell something to someone who doesnāt know the people involved in your story and has no way of doing anything with the information you share, my DMs are 100% open
Remember internet safety, though. Also being a gossip doesnāt mean I canāt keep a secret, thank you very much. If I deem something Iām told to be something I should not share, then I donāt share it. Also also, if youāre going to send something thatās creepy or grotesque, just donāt. I will not hesitate to block and report you.
As a general rule: If you mention something I donāt like for the first time to me, I will inform you of such and ask you donāt bring it up again. If you bring it up again I will block you.
Just because I donāt like something doesnāt mean you canāt like it, I only ask you respect my desire to not talk about it
Everyone has a right to protect their own internet space, feel absolutely free to block me if you donāt like me or what I say
Okay. So. āI Became A Legend After My 10 Year-Long Last Stand,ā right? I honestly love how easy things have been for them during fights. These people defeated the Demon Lord, I wouldnāt believe theyād struggle against some vampires. But the show somehow made the story still interesting while keeping the power-scaling good by introducing a threat they have to prevent but lack intel on, so they need to gather information and track down those who have it. Plus the character dynamics have stayed on the good side of annoying (the misunderstanding gag only happened twice, the insisting to come along is given up once given a reason, etc.). Iām honestly pleasantly surprised so far
If youāre wondering what Iām referring to when I say ālet Taira develop a healthy relationship with fashion,ā Iām referring to these panels
There are others (like literally earlier in that same chapter) but this is where he specifically states he started messing with fashion so he wouldnāt be laughed at. I think some time in university and after he should let himself actually experiment with styles because theyāre things he likes and not just so people donāt think heās a loser. Let the boy accessorize!!! Azuma could definitely be part of the reason this initiates with more conversations like this one over the next couple years, talking about fashion with him in general and complementing his outfits as well as telling him ideas for hair/clothes she has for him
I think once he starts going down the road of style experimentation, he goes to not only Azuma for advice but Suzuki as well. Local gyaru to the rescue š«” But fr I think she has a good grasp on not only mainstream fashion (like Azuma) but also more niche styles. She would be able to point out styles like aeobi, light academia, and heisei retro. Sheād probably be able to source pieces for all of them (or pull from what they already own) and let him actually see the styles on himself. He definitely kills her for the heisei retro fit she puts him in (tight fitting top and heās still not comfortable enough with himself yet) but she (and all their friends) insist it does actually look good. Maybe he could even pick up a few diy/upcycling skills š¤
Did that super fun thing where I watch a currently airing show with like 3 episodes out then immediately binge all of the manga chapters that are out in one day. This time for Overshadowed to Overpowered š«
Itās good tho! Like once you get over the fact that thereās gonna be fanservice of children (even though theyāre considered adults in their world) bc this is from fucking Japan so of course itās there (I canāt wait until they fucking stop) the plotās good and the world building is interesting. Itās a good power fantasy if youāre looking for one, and the anime seems to be adapting it well so far
Oh right Iāll like start consuming media in an unhealthy way again soon probably donāt mind my long bout of anhedonia making me not have content to post
beach msby4 and beach femsby4 !! first (proper) colored hq art
found out recently that when u edit a post with a new version of your art it doesnāt update previous reblogs, and now iām forever haunted by the fact that there are like 10 variations of my drawings out there. how am i supposed to live laugh love under these conditions
so now iām trying to be more careful before posting, tryna wait a day or two after finishing the art so i can spot mistakes šāāļø
I ā¤ļøgossip I ā¤ļøeavesdropping I ā¤ļøasking nosy questions Iā¤ļø looking for and acquiring information. On account of my curious and inquisitive nature #mynature
Can we all agree that Makio has ADHD? She exhibits basically every single trait of an adult woman with ADHD. The second(?) episode even has Emiri comment on how she may be neurodivergent in a background convo with Asa. And I do mean ADHD, not autism
(More analysis after the cut)
Aside from traits that can overlap with ADHD, I fully do not see any symptoms of being autistic. She has an intrinsic understanding of societal norms and unwritten rules, as well as why they exist (which from what I can tell is the main factor of being autistic, the actually understanding it part), and doesnāt struggle to communicate with others or understand social cues or body language. Sheās not too strict with her rules (general life ones, not ones for Asa), and her not wanting to talk to strangers is clearly because itās draining due to her introversion
Her not understanding how Asa feels about certain things isnāt an autistic trait, itās them fundamentally processing emotions differently and having very different personalities. If you are someone that always feels lonely when youāre alone (like Asa), you will struggle to understand and empathize with someone that enjoys being alone and doesnāt feel lonely when they are alone. If youāre someone that enjoys being alone and doesnāt feel lonely when theyāre alone (like Makio), youāll struggle to understand and empathize with someone that feels extremely lonely whenever theyāre alone. These are fundamental differences of personality. Itās hard to come up with advice for someone who processes emotions in an extremely different way than you
Canāt keep track of time and commitments/assignments? ADHD. Super messy (and fast ro reach that state) literally just by living life? ADHD. Has a meal routine? Itās a coping mechanism for ADHD because it takes away the constant question of āwhat should I eatā that delays eating for hours. Forgets to or pushes off eating and sleeping? ADHD. Canāt do things that should be easy and are easy for other people? ADHD (executive disfunction is a bitch). ADHD is also under the neurodivergent umbrella, so it also leads to those moments of not thinking in the same way as most people. That is not an autism-only trait. I genuinely donāt know how autism got brought into the conversation at all š
Representation is super important, but I see so much more autism representation in media (headcanons and especially canon diagnosesāthere are so few canon ADHD diagnoses that arenāt the āyeah I did awful in school my parents said I haveā¦ AD-something? Oh look a bird!ā Yes, Iām looking at you, how I met your mother), so let ADHD have its moment ššš Both our mental disorders are still strongly misrepresented, with autism getting the āoften ugly or cutesy quirky social outcast that canāt read a room and really likes trainsā treatment (I say often ugly bc Iāve seen a lot of people say others told them they canāt be autistic because theyāre prettyā¦ what?????), ADHD getting the āclass clown that cannot physically stay in a chair for more than 30 seconds and does terribly in schoolā treatment, and both getting the āpositiveā treatment of āitās actually your superpower!!!ā š« š« So letās let each other have actually accurate representation even if unlabeled in canon, yeah?
i feel so defensive and protective of people with ARFID like if i had a disorder that made my brain register 90% of food as poison for no reason and i had a bazillion people on the internet constantly calling me a manchild who needs to just grow up and stop being a picky eater i would start killing people
people with ARFID and people with very few autism safe foods and people with contamination OCD and people in ED recovery and everyone else with a complicated relationship with food that no one takes seriously GET BEHIND ME!!!!!!!
Hereās the thing I feel like a lot of folks donāt get: Iām not trying to forget what you said. Honestly, I really tried not to. I canāt control what I do and donāt rememberāforgetting things just happens. Itās annoying for you, I know, but for me itās distressing as hell and when you make a big deal out of it rather than just reminding me you make me feel ashamed. Iāll remember that, at least.
It costs you nothing to be kind to people with memory problems. Please. Itās scary enough without people treating memory lapses as a personal failing.
