I hung out with an old coworker last Wednesday. He’s always been a friendly soul for small talk and the like and so before his potential move back to the east coast we decided to hang out. After all I hadn’t seen him in almost a year!
Naturally I told him what had been on my heart regarding my recent breakup and the way he handled it so gently and with such wisdom, and the way we were able to hold other conversations from movies to culture to politics to faith, it was a gentle click-shift in perspective— I don’t think I’ve ever gotten to show this much more vulnerable side of myself with the opposite sex before and feel completely understood and accepted, and it really did something to me. I realized these were the qualities I had always wanted in a partner and for so long ones I hoped I would have been able to inspire in my recent ex, and I would become so frustrated with him for not having that. Now I’m seeing it wasn’t fair to him, it was my problem. I knew what I was getting myself into and I shouldn’t have ignored red flags.
That two-hour conversation on a bench at Sprouse Hall… Ever since then I realized that losing my ex wasn’t really a loss after all. And while I’m still healing I just know that someone worlds better is on his way, and I’m glad to have caught a glimpse of it in someone I admire very much, and I know it all will work out in God’s timing.
P.S. you’re still a hoe for cheating, but my moves have always been genuine and with integrity. I’m just happy to say I found my peace. ✌🏽
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