clever little narcissist suffering from PNSD

18 / DNI: proship, nsfw, (NO)MAP, alm, anti acab, exclus. only nice to ppl that deserve it (SLUR COUNT: 4)

[angrynarc]

i love getting influxes of followers after being problematic so heres an intro post

-call me whatever u want

-im 18

-im a system but im not signing off shit <3

-i have NPD, BPD, DID, and some other shit

-fuck bigots (including any lgbt gatekeepers), pedos and apologists (this includes proshippers), and nsfw blogs cause im a ☆minor☆ and dni if u believe in reverse racism the fuck i am asian

-i forget to tag shit cause im on tumblr mobile and speed reblog go brrrr so feel free to ask me to tag

-give me asks. gimme. <3

SAYING AGAIN. DNI IF PRO SHIP. GET. OUT.

[angrynarc]

god so that ableist egotypical that you responded to ended their post with “The only person offended by the correct use of the term of narcissist is a narcissist”… um yeah and for a while the only people who were offended when autistic was used as an insult were autistic people (and their supporters)… almost like neurodivergent people generally don’t like their disorders being used as an insult lmao

Omg and changing their url to “sorry I wanted support!! Happy now?!” before deactivating…. And somehow *we’re* the overdramatic, edgy, guilt-trippy ones??

Honestly its fucking hilarious to me, like 😭 theyre so hypocritical!!!

[nemevex]

"mental illnesses can increase the chance of being toxic to oneself and others"

"no mental illness makes you inherently abusive"

and

"mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse for toxic behaviours"

are statements that can inductively coexist.

[angrynarc]

what's an egotypical? is it someone without npd? i keep seeing some other pw/npd use the term but i've never actually heard of it before /gen

Yeah it means someone without npd, i forget who i heard it from first

[angrynarc]

I hate egotypicals jfc "dont like my tags then block me" imma make u block me first pussy

[srryiwantedsupporthappynow-deac]

Today I made a comment in a parenting group about narcissist. Where what I was was most people don't understand the definition of the word and use it as an adjective.

They jumped on me and told narcissist is a slur and I shouldn't use it.

I did my best to keep my cool and explained that I spent a long time censoring myself to make my narcissist comfortable and I will not do it again. I set a boundary and said the conversation was making me angry and we should move on.

They kept pushing. Talking down to me and pushing that should change my wording and not be ablest.

I went off a bit and explained in a more aggressive tone, blocked them. After thinking on it I decided to go back and get an admin involved. After an hour I unblocked the person to report it.

Only to find the admin yelling at me after I'd been silent for an hour. With the other person still going.

I will not have a stranger tell me I'm wrong for calling a duck a duck. There is nothing progressive about yelling and screaming at someone because a medical term hurts your feelings. My sibling is a narcissist and being told to shut up when I say that is fucking awful. I spent a long time shutting up.

This was what I meant. This is social just. Telling someone who went through hell that they are wrong because they might hurt a toxic person's soft whittle feelings.

The only person offended by the correct use of the term of narcissist is a narcissist.

[angrynarc]

and you tagged this as actually narcissistic why? im not reading the whole post cause it's probably stupid but id like to know the way ur brain works to tag a dumb post w the tags pwNPD use

[srryiwantedsupporthappynow-deac]

Because that's that he is. I was hoping to get some support from people who have been through what I've been through with this. Maybe read the post

[angrynarc]

But actuallynarcissistic is for ppl who r narcissistic lmao? Its like the actuallybpd actuallycptsd tags its for ppl who are those things. Maybe if you dont want narcissists interacting w you dont use our tags ♡ love and light

[srryiwantedsupporthappynow-deac]

Today I made a comment in a parenting group about narcissist. Where what I was was most people don't understand the definition of the word and use it as an adjective.

They jumped on me and told narcissist is a slur and I shouldn't use it.

I did my best to keep my cool and explained that I spent a long time censoring myself to make my narcissist comfortable and I will not do it again. I set a boundary and said the conversation was making me angry and we should move on.

They kept pushing. Talking down to me and pushing that should change my wording and not be ablest.

I went off a bit and explained in a more aggressive tone, blocked them. After thinking on it I decided to go back and get an admin involved. After an hour I unblocked the person to report it.

Only to find the admin yelling at me after I'd been silent for an hour. With the other person still going.

I will not have a stranger tell me I'm wrong for calling a duck a duck. There is nothing progressive about yelling and screaming at someone because a medical term hurts your feelings. My sibling is a narcissist and being told to shut up when I say that is fucking awful. I spent a long time shutting up.

This was what I meant. This is social just. Telling someone who went through hell that they are wrong because they might hurt a toxic person's soft whittle feelings.

The only person offended by the correct use of the term of narcissist is a narcissist.

[angrynarc]

and you tagged this as actually narcissistic why? im not reading the whole post cause it's probably stupid but id like to know the way ur brain works to tag a dumb post w the tags pwNPD use

[winslowsfaust-deactivated202410]

im on my hands and knees begging and pleading for this whole “narcissistic abuse” thing to be put to a fucking end. just call it emotional abuse thats what you’re describing narcissistic abuse isnt a thing. even the “support” people give for people with NPD is so transparent and backhanded and all boils down to ‘it’s okay, it’s not your FAULT that you and everyone like you is a horrible abuser!’

[winslowsfaust-deactivated202410]

yesterday scrolling on tiktok i saw someone with NEITHER disorder make some bizarre skit about a narcissist and a borderline in a relationship and they framed it as if it was somehow the most toxic relationship that could ever happen. i am literally a narcissist in a relationship with a borderline and, shocker, we are perfectly healthy going on 2 years and neither of us are abusing each other. it’s almost like people with personality disorders are fucking PEOPLE outside of the harmful stereotypes you blanket over us

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Npd culture is being demonized for having selective empathy like anti-cluster b people don't constantly choose to selectively leave us, and a lot of other people, out of their empathy???? Why is my selective empathy somehow more evil and irredeemable than your selective empathy??? O?? It's ur ableism??

[carnivoroustomatoes]

[monster42069-deactivated2024071]

You know, it’s pretty sad that people with NPD and/or NPD traits who want to follow PTSD and abuse survivor information and activism blogs first have to check the tags of the blog to look out for anything anti-NPD.

You want people with NPD to recover, you say you empathize with them and the people around them by saying that, yet you don’t allow them in any healing spaces. “Because survivors here had narcissistic abusers!” That makes generalizing every person with NPD trying to find solace and a sense of community justified to you? Someone reaching out?

I was attacked by a person with Borderline Personality Disorder when they split, a person with Schizotypal Personality Disorder, a man with depression and ADHD, and the abuse that’s hurt me the most psychologically was from someone who’s diagnosed with Panic Disorder and Generalized Anxiety Disorder. Can you make sure to not include any of those disorders in your activism and make it clear how to spot the signs of their abuse?….Or are you just being ableist towards NPD?

[disabilitybitch]

It's wild you hear stuff like "narcissistic abuse" but not "depression abuse" 🤔 wonder why that is /s

Anyway people w npd are literally so awesome 💗💗 this blog is a safe space for anyone with npd

[french-ally]

// TW : ableism, ableist language, NPD stigma, antisemitic rhetoric, invalidation of autism and BPD

I would suggest you block this person. Please don't interact or argue with them, they're not worth it. Just block them.

Note : they go by they/them. Please respect their pronouns.

Screenshots :

First they claim "empaths" are the ones being oppressed while people with NPD are "endlessly defended". Then they say people with NPD are "the worst kind of abusers".

They go on to call people with NPD "unrepentant @ssholes" and equate an actual disorder with parapsychology (empaths).

The rest of the tags :

They also believe that people with NPD are "controlling most of the government", an ableist conspiracy theory with antisemitic origins.

At first i though they could be talking about narcissism the personality trait, not the disorder. But the tags on this reblog proved me wrong :

As shown by the order of the tags in parentheses, the third tag refers to autism, the fourth to BPD, and the fifth to NPD.

In addition to calling people with NPD "d*cks", they argue against the validity of disorder labels, including autism, BPD and NPD.

They call autism a "perfectly human reaction to the world we live in". They sound like the kind of ableist who downplays autistic struggles and claims that "everyone's a little autistic" or that autistic people are "the next step in human evolution".

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[npdbubblygum]

Almost just replied to a fucking t*rf in the npd tag thank god I’ve started reading urls even though I would’ve loved to argue against her vilifying npd while victimizing bpd I am not going to give her a platform on my blog

[mischiefmanifold]

hey besties guess what?

you can acknowledge your abuse and talk about your abuser without calling them a narcissist or using ableist/sanist terms.

no matter your intentions, if you use terms like “narcissistic abuse” you are ableist/sanist.

there are other words and terms you can use, you have no excuse.

[npdbubblygum]

I think one of the most hilariously hypocritical empath moments is when you read “how to spot a narcissist” posts and one of the points is “calling their exes crazy /insane / psycho ” worstie that is YOU

[egopathic]

advice for a crash?

oof i’m here with you so here’s what i’m doing to stay sane:

- small amounts of weight lifting (i know i’ll stress my body out beyond measure if given the chance so i only work with toning barbells)

- like 8 showers a day (it’s something to do instead of spiraling. put on music and turn your lights off.)

- online narc/aspd/low empathy communities (we all need attention and affection sometimes, and these groups are usually cool with attention seeking behavior)

- really loud music (block that negativity)

- go to hobby lobby (steal from here dont buy) or michaels and get a good amount of nonsense (new tedious hobbies help me take my mind off of myself)

-do your makeup/hair/get dressed up (make yourself feel good from the outside in, not always advisable but sometimes helps)

- movies about terrible people (this is a me thing but i’m like “oh look at least i’m not a genocidal dictator, just a person)

- scream about it to people (if you need anything or you feel like it’s too much, hit up your friends. or if they don’t exist or don’t understand, feel free to DM me and i’ll listen to you vent)

i’m sorry you’re going through this anon. crashes are undoubtedly the worst part of NPD and i’m here for you. you deserve happiness and comfort. you deserve to not feel like shit.

[angrynarc]

I'm so sorry, but peanut stem necrosis disease?

What i feel like this is referencing smth

[calyptramoths]

the moment i saw her, i knew.