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Joe Pickard | Derek Jarman’s Garden.
Foggy forest by Asish Biswas http://flic.kr/p/BE9MRL
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Emotional abuse works like this: You are screamed at, and then, not knowing any better, you stand up for yourself. You think this is a way of being strong. You think this is a defense tactic.But this only provokes more screaming. Going silent provokes more screaming too, but usually it keeps the threats to the minimum. It keeps it just at screaming and not: a shove down the stairs, or order to pack your stuff and get out. So you learn how to go silent. How to play dead. How to cry without making a noise. How to swallow noise. How to wipe your cheeks, get out of the car, and go about your day. You learn. And when the screaming has stopped, when the two of you are in the car or out to dinner and they’re all smiles, all asking for favors, all questions, you are still hurt and annoyed and want to ask them, how? How can you speak to me like that? How can you pretend you did not say those things? How can you have forgotten? But you’ve learned. So you listen to, “Can I borrow your key”s and “how was your day”s and you play dead. You swallow the noise. And sometimes it doesn’t matter who is speaking to you, it doesn’t matter if they’re a friend, it doesn’t matter if their criticism is constructive, it doesn’t matter. You’ve learned. Any sort of speaking, any raising of the voice, any insult and you play dead.
Good Girl, Lora Mathis (via cylon)
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people with mental illnesses that have insight to their mental illness still have a mental illness.
I can’t say this enough
“millions of flower petals erupt from a volcano, covering an entire village” - (via sunnyskyz, with photos by nick meek)
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Study shows Millennial Men do not think of women as their equals
A majority of millennial men failed to see women as equals, according to the study, which looked at how college biology students viewed their classmates’ intelligence and achievements, the Harvard Business Review reported.
Among the findings:
In every biology class surveyed, a man was seen as the most celebrated student, even in instances where women earned significantly better grades.
Men were also found to overestimate the intelligence of their male classmates over that of female ones.
Men continued exaggerating their assessments of the male peers, despite unequivocal evidence that their female peers were performing better.
Women, conversely, weren’t found to display a bias: Their assessments of fellow classmates tended to be spot-on.
The National Institutes of Health researchers pointed out that female STEM (science, technology, engineering, and mathematics) majors drop out at significantly higher rates than their male counterparts.
“The reasons for this difference are complex, and one possible contributing factor is the social environment women experience in the classroom,” they wrote.
Still, scores of men are under the impression that they’ve become the target of reverse sexism. Conservative columnist John Hawkins ranted in Town Hall last year:
“Men have it rougher in America than most people realize. In part, that’s because they’re one of the few groups (along with white people, conservatives, and Christians) it’s cool to crap on at every opportunity. In case you haven’t noticed, there’s a nonstop assault on masculinity in America.”
But research has confirmed the reality of gender bias against women. A staggering 90 percent of women reported experiencing gender harassment in the workplace, a 2010 University of Michigan study found. The results suggest that such harassment had the purpose of driving women out of jobs and not the generally assumed motivation of trying to draw women into relationships.
“One could argue that, in these instances, ‘sexual harassment is used both to police and discipline the gender outlaw: the woman who dares to do a man’s job is made to pay,’” the researchers wrote, quoting an article by Katherine M. Franke, an associate professor of law at the University of Arizona College of Law.
As for millennial men specifically, they have been less accepting of female leaders than their older male counterparts, according to a 2014 survey of more than 2,000 adults residing in the United States, the Harvard Business Review reports.
Half of Millenial men said their careers would take priority over their partners’.
Three-fourths of women, on the other hand, said their careers would be at least as important as their husbands’.
here’s a tip: if you start dating a depressed person, don’t be surprised if they are still depressed while they are dating you. they’re not depressed because they’re single, and you are not an all-powerful cure for mental illnesses. just be there for them.
REAL
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TALK
or if youre friends with a depressed person and they are upset whenever you hang out with them. Dont take it personal ok
The men who claim we “don’t need feminism” because “men have it worse” and their “proof” is that men are forced to pay on dates?
Men. Stop.
You are NOT forced to pay for dates.
You know why that’s “traditional”? Because until fairly recently in our history women couldn’t have a fucking bank account, so we sort of sat there left without a damn choice, if we were making any kind of money anyway.
These days, less of an issue. Women can, and do, pay for dates. If you’re only dating women who are financially stable but INSIST it’s your “job” to pay, there’s no one forcing you to stay with her. Plenty of women ENJOY paying either their half or for the whole damn meal.
And more often than not, you know who has a problem here? INSECURE MEN. Men who want to pay for everything because when a woman pays he feels emasculated and he whines about her not “needing” him enough.
That’s a load of bullshit.
The only reason MY partners frequently pay for dates is because my disability percentage is laughably low and I’m not always able to consistently make comics and commissions to pay the bills, much less pay for dates. But when I DO have the extra money? You’re damn right I handle the check or at least go dutch and THEY’RE OKAY WITH IT because their masculinity isn’t tied into “taking care of their frail lady-folk”.
So oh my GOD shut up. There’s no LAW forcing you to pay for a date. If you can’t or don’t want to pay, be upfront about it before the date. If she throws a fit and says it’s your job as a man to pay for her, JUST DON’T GO ON THE DAMN DATE.
This is not that fucking difficult.
(Oh and if anyone mocks you because a woman pays for your date or pays her own half, they can fuck right off too because they’re sexist little asswipes and you don’t need that shit)
I once met a guy who claimed that women made less money to even out for the fact that men always had to pay for the dates…