I’m not even sure if I should be getting involved, I’ll try to explain this the best I can. So my boyfriend and I care about each other so much and I wanted to do something really amazing for him, of course it can only be done if the person I’m about to talk about agrees. My bf had a gf back in the late 90s (I didn’t meet him until the middle of last year)she got pregnant decided to leave him, never asked for child support but ended up extorting money from him for pictures and he always obliged because he really cares for his daughter he’s even put a decent amount of money away for her for when she turns 18 (this November). The problem is he’s told me that his daughter has no idea that he exists. His ex never wanted him involved in her life. I did end up finding her on fb but I haven’t reached out yet and I probably won’t until she turns 18. I want to tell her that she has a father who cares for her, loves her and wants to be a part of her life, if she wants. Maybe it’s not my place, I’m an emotional person and I know there’s a chance this won’t go as I imagine. I do think she deserves to know, I just don’t know how to go about it any advice is welcome.
