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Pubes aren’t gross. Armpit hair isn’t gross. Leg hair isn’t gross. Fat isn’t gross. Bones that stick out aren’t gross.

Body policing is gross.

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Any advice on getting to your level of self-confidence? apart from being fabulous?

1) Tell yourself that you love you every single day.2) Compliment yourself at least three times a day.3) Treat yourself to nice things, don’t buy cute clothes in a smaller size waiting for the day you magically lose a load of weight. Buy cute clothes in your size and do all the little special things to enjoy them like showering and styling your hair. Treat yourself to that ice cream you’ve been thinking about all day. Eat it while you think about all your role models, think about how they probably struggle too even if it’s not in the same way, think about how they probably envy some part of your life where they feel like they’re lacking. 4) Take a lot of selfies. Post all of them. Post the ones where it’s at a funny angle and you’re making a strange face.5) Find five places that you truly love, think of yourself as the guardian of those places and get to know people enough to determine if you would ever want to show those special places to them rather than think about how they feel about you or what relationship you want them to have with you in the future. Just be yourself and ask all the questions you’d want to know the answers to if you were looking after the most precious thing in the world. Eventually the places and yourself become one notion, when you love and value something enough to only want to let in the people that will appreciate it…it becomes an extension of yourself.Those are five things I still do to help me stay confident. It’s not something you can achieve and keep forever, it’s an ongoing struggle. Stick with it, I’m sure you’re doing great! xoxo

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"you’re so full of yourself" no i had a lot of insecurites and a low self esteem which i worked extremely hard to overcome and now i realize that im awesome and i dont care if you think otherwise

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ya hes cute…….but is he conscientious of the social inequalities and corruption in hierarchies of power that plague this world

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stop using “youre so much prettier than her” as a compliment stop putting all women in a contest that we did not sign up for

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Normalize fat women’s bodies. Normalize public breastfeeding. Normalize home births and midwives and reproductive autonomy. Normalize body hair on women. Reject the notion that women are to be regulated and controlled and pressured to conform to societal standards.

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Echeveria ‘Violet Queen’ (by flora-file)

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I hope that all the young white children witnessing what is happening in Ferguson - whether they live there or not - take this knowledge of injustice with them into adulthood so that THEY may begin to change the paradigm WRT race in this country, because the onus is not on Black folks, it’s on them. These children literally are the future and I pray these demonstrations are not done in vain.